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Going to Church on Christmas (Day): A Vanishing Tradition (Christmas Eve preferred)
Time ^ | December 24, 2008 | Amy Sullivan

Posted on 12/25/2008 3:51:48 PM PST by NYer

Millions of Americans go to church on Christmas Eve. They crowd shoulder-to-shoulder in pews to sing "Silent Night" and light candles and listen to soloists belt out "O Holy Night." More than a few watch nativity plays that recreate the birth of Jesus with a cast of 10-year-olds in bathrobes. When the service is over, they exchange hearty "Merry Christmas!" wishes before getting in their cars and heading home.

And they stay home the next day. Or they drive to Grandma's, or go to the movies. But however they spend Christmas Day — "the feast of Christmas" on the Christian liturgical calendar — one way most Americans don't celebrate it is by going to church. While demand for Christmas Eve celebrations is so high that some churches hold as many as five or six different services on the 24th of December, most Protestant churches are closed on the actual religious holiday. For most Christians, Christmas is a day for family, not faith.

If that sounds like the triumph of culture over religion, it is. By the middle of the 20th century, Americans had embraced a civil religion that among other things elevated the ideal of family to a sacrosanct level. The Norman Rockwell image of family gathered around the tree became a Christmas icon that rivaled the baby Jesus. And Christmas Eve services — with their pageantry and familiar traditions — became just one part of the celebration, after the family dinner and before the opening of presents.

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That schedule of Christmas events is now the default tradition for most Americans. Some pastors understand the cultural emphasis but consider it an obstacle to focusing on the spiritual messages of Christmas. "We've seen churches embrace the Americana idea of Christmas," says Michael Hidalgo, lead pastor at the multi-denominational Denver Community Church. "Their heart is in the right place, but in some ways they end up looking like Target celebrating Christmas." Others, though, have accepted the idea that Christmas Day is a time for family instead of religious reflection. "I think it is our job to get Christmas off on the right foot?and then get out of the way," wrote one pastor at CreativeWorshipTour.com, in a discussion about Christmas services. "Let families celebrate by themselves."
1 posted on 12/25/2008 3:51:49 PM PST by NYer
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To: Salvation; narses; SMEDLEYBUTLER; redhead; Notwithstanding; nickcarraway; Romulus; ...

We had 3 services in our small parish - 5pm Christmas Eve, Midnight and 11am Christmas Day. I attended the Midnight (yes ... at midnight) service and was told there was a high attendance at the Christmas Eve Mass. Not sure about this morning. What about your parishes?


2 posted on 12/25/2008 3:54:09 PM PST by NYer ("Run from places of sin as from a plague." - St. John Climacus)
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To: NYer
I went to Mass today. I wish I had gone last night. I've never seen a Church so full of people who didn't have enough life in them to say, "Lord, hear our prayer." It seemed like you could count on one hand the number of people who knew when to say, "Amen."

If you're only going to go to Mass once a year, maybe you shouldn't bother at. Imagine how poor a player you'd be at anything else you only bother to do 1 day a year.

3 posted on 12/25/2008 3:54:52 PM PST by the invisib1e hand (appeasement is collaboration.)
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To: NYer

We had services Christmas Eve 4:00 p.m. (two); Christmas Eve 6:30 p.m. (two); Midnight (one) and 10:00 a.m. Christmas (one). My grupo musical played for the “overflow” Mass at 6:30 last night; both services were full. I’m told the Fire Marshal turned over 100 people away from the 4:00 p.m. service. They’ve gotten very strict recently.

Midnight was probably not full, and 10:00 a.m., to which I took three children who didn’t go last night, had a few empty seats. Many of our parish stalwarts, especially the elderly, seemed to be at the service this morning. I guess they’ve learned when they’ll be able to sit down!


4 posted on 12/25/2008 3:59:24 PM PST by Tax-chick ("And the LORD alone will be exalted in that day." (Is. 2)
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To: NYer

Midnigtht mass for me. Had to work today,but would have gone to midnight mass anyway.


5 posted on 12/25/2008 4:01:54 PM PST by Cacique (quos Deus vult perdere, prius dementat ( Islamia Delenda Est ))
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To: NYer

We’ve never had a Christmas Day service in our church. I don’t know any Baptist churches that do — although I expect there are some. Christmas Eve is when we “do” our special services.


6 posted on 12/25/2008 4:06:27 PM PST by MayflowerMadam (I feel much better since I gave up hope. ~~ sigh ~~)
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To: NYer; lightman; Cletus.D.Yokel; bcsco
most Protestant churches are closed on the actual religious holiday.

Not ours. This Lutheran pastor has aways insisted on having the Festival Service on the Festival, with the Feast. I believe in keeping both the CHRIST and the MASS in CHRISTMAS.

Here's a paragraph from my sermon this morning, "The War on Christmas":

Item, many Christians’ homes, today: Church members are staying home to be with family, rather than being in the Lord’s house, to be with Jesus. But keeping the Christ in Christmas also means keeping the Mass in Christmas, the Christ Mass. Keeping Christmas means being here for the Divine Service of Word and Sacrament, keeping the Feast on this High Festival Day. Skipping out on the Christ Mass is to go AWOL while the War on Christmas is going on.

7 posted on 12/25/2008 4:11:50 PM PST by Charles Henrickson (Lutheran pastor, LCMS, keeping both the CHRIST and the MASS in CHRISTMAS)
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To: NYer
Both as a Methodist and Catholic, going to church in Christmas Eve - not Christmas day - has been our custom for almost 60 years.

It appears this writer is subtly (or not subtly) trying to bash Christians, even those who go to Christmas Eve service- for not attending church on Christmas day?

I wonder what her family religious tradition was?

I haven't seen that the prez-elect and his family went to any kind of services for Christmas.

8 posted on 12/25/2008 4:12:33 PM PST by silverleaf (Fasten your seat belts- it's going to be a BUMPY ride.)
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To: NYer

I went this morning (Christmas Day). I look forward to it! There are times I try to make the Christmas Eve ceremony too.


9 posted on 12/25/2008 4:14:15 PM PST by cvq3842
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To: NYer

The article said — “For most Christians, Christmas is a day for family, not faith.”

That’s not necessarily so, if a family wants to have a day of rest and contemplation and family togetherness on Christmas Day and remember what Christmas is about.

Going to a church service on Christmas Eve is just as much about having faith in Jesus Christ (while staying with the family on Christmas Day) as going the next day. I do not see a problem with faith in that — given that we’re talking about people who have faith in Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior in the first place.


10 posted on 12/25/2008 4:16:03 PM PST by Star Traveler
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To: NYer

bump


11 posted on 12/25/2008 4:17:45 PM PST by VOA
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To: the invisib1e hand

I changed religions 14 years ago. Yet, I took the children to mass last night. My 6 year old was fascinated by it. After 14 years I still remember all the words and said them.


12 posted on 12/25/2008 4:18:30 PM PST by HungarianGypsy
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To: MayflowerMadam
I grew up in a Baptist church - I'm in my 40’s and I don't ever remember there being one, unless Christmas was on a Sunday.
13 posted on 12/25/2008 4:21:53 PM PST by SoftballMominVA
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To: silverleaf
It appears this writer is subtly (or not subtly) trying to bash Christians, even those who go to Christmas Eve service- for not attending church on Christmas day?

You have nailed it, silverleaf.

14 posted on 12/25/2008 4:21:57 PM PST by 17th Miss Regt
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To: the invisib1e hand

I call those Chreaster catholics. They only go on Christmas and Easter, or, if you will, Chreaster.

We went last night. We always go to Christmas eve midnight mass. When my wife and I were newlyweds we even went to St Peter’s in the Vatican in 1992. Heard the mass in Latin and seven different languages done by Pope John Paul II and a host of cardinals, bishops, priests and altar men.

Didn’t leave until around 4:30 am.


15 posted on 12/25/2008 4:22:28 PM PST by Alas Babylon!
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To: Charles Henrickson

WELS Lutheran here


16 posted on 12/25/2008 4:22:58 PM PST by SoftballMominVA
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To: the invisib1e hand
It seemed like you could count on one hand the number of people who knew when to say, "Amen."

... or sit, stand and kneel. CAPE Catholics ... Christmas, Ash Wednesday, Palm Sunday and Easter Sunday, they show up. The sermons delivered on those days are so important to moving hearts. Pray for them. I was once a member in good standing.

17 posted on 12/25/2008 4:24:19 PM PST by NYer ("Run from places of sin as from a plague." - St. John Climacus)
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To: Tax-chick
Thank you for the report! It seems this article is fairly accurate.

I’m told the Fire Marshal turned over 100 people away from the 4:00 p.m. service.

Sigh ... I only wish we had such a problem in our parish.

18 posted on 12/25/2008 4:26:48 PM PST by NYer ("Run from places of sin as from a plague." - St. John Climacus)
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To: NYer
yeah, well...you pray for them. They annoyed me no end.

Trust, me, there was a day when I would have whined, "oh, God bless them, at least they're here..."

But no more. I see how hard the religious and clergy work for them. I see how they have given up their verly lives for them -- talented men and women who could have had marvelous careers. And then, of course, is Who is waiting for their busy, important little selves in Eucharist.

You pray for 'em.

19 posted on 12/25/2008 4:30:23 PM PST by the invisib1e hand (appeasement is collaboration.)
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To: Tax-chick
I’m told the Fire Marshal turned over 100 people away from the 4:00 p.m. service.

Something poetic about that...

20 posted on 12/25/2008 4:31:05 PM PST by the invisib1e hand (appeasement is collaboration.)
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To: All
ARTICLE SNIPPET: "For most Christians, Christmas is a day for family, not faith."

FACT: TIME -- clueless as usual.

21 posted on 12/25/2008 4:31:09 PM PST by Cindy
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To: NYer; lightman; Cletus.D.Yokel; bcsco
Liturgically speaking, an "Eve" is a "warm-up" for a "Day." The Day is the big thing, not the Eve. And often, the Eve service is a series of carols and readings, with a homily, but not with the Sacrament. Or else it is a children's program. The Christmas DAY service, though, is the "main event": The Divine Service of Word and Sacrament--the Christ Mass, literally. And Christmas Day is one the "Big Three" High Festivals in the whole church year: Christmas Day, Easter Day, and the Day of Pentecost.

Now if we're talking about a Christmas Eve Midnight Mass, that kind of straddles the fence between an "Eve" and a "Day" service.

22 posted on 12/25/2008 4:32:54 PM PST by Charles Henrickson (Lutheran pastor, LCMS, keeping both the CHRIST and the MASS in CHRISTMAS)
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To: SoftballMominVA

The Baptist Church I grew up in had Christmas morning service. My grandparents made sure we went.


23 posted on 12/25/2008 4:33:46 PM PST by Clock King (Radical Conservatives, arise!)
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To: All

A blessed Christmas to all Freepers and lurkers.

CHRISTMAS
http://www.truthusa.com/CHRISTmas.html


24 posted on 12/25/2008 4:33:51 PM PST by Cindy
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To: Tax-chick; NYer; lightman; Cletus.D.Yokel; bcsco
the Fire Marshal turned over 100 people away from the 4:00 p.m. service.

The ironic thing is that 4:00 p.m. on December 24 is not even Christmas Eve yet. It's still Advent. I guess those folks don't want church interfering with "their" Christmas.

25 posted on 12/25/2008 4:36:11 PM PST by Charles Henrickson (Lutheran pastor, LCMS, keeping both the CHRIST and the MASS in CHRISTMAS)
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To: Cacique
Midnigtht mass for me. Had to work today,but would have gone to midnight mass anyway.

:-) The Midnight Mass is absolutely beautiful. Sorry you had to work today. It was a pleasant surprise to learn that local malls were closed today.

26 posted on 12/25/2008 4:38:01 PM PST by NYer ("Run from places of sin as from a plague." - St. John Climacus)
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To: HungarianGypsy; the invisib1e hand
I changed religions 14 years ago. Yet, I took the children to mass last night. My 6 year old was fascinated by it. After 14 years I still remember all the words and said them.

Perhaps you should consider this.

Christmas Blessings to you and your family!

27 posted on 12/25/2008 4:53:57 PM PST by NYer ("Run from places of sin as from a plague." - St. John Climacus)
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To: SoftballMominVA

At 6:30am this morning, we attended a Julotta (Swedish tradition) service at a Baptist church in San Jose.


28 posted on 12/25/2008 4:54:53 PM PST by Binghamton_native
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To: NYer

why’d you cc me on this? I’m a revert. That’s why I go to Mass.


29 posted on 12/25/2008 4:55:31 PM PST by the invisib1e hand (appeasement is collaboration.)
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To: MayflowerMadam
We’ve never had a Christmas Day service in our church. I don’t know any Baptist churches that do

Just curious but do you happen to know why Baptists would not celebrate the birth of our Savior?

30 posted on 12/25/2008 4:56:05 PM PST by NYer ("Run from places of sin as from a plague." - St. John Climacus)
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To: NYer

See #23 and #28.


31 posted on 12/25/2008 4:58:25 PM PST by Binghamton_native
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To: NYer

My parish has four masses, 4:30PM, 10PM ( midnight mass at 10PM ), 8AM, and 10:30AM. the vigil and midnight at 10PM is the most crowded.


32 posted on 12/25/2008 5:01:38 PM PST by Biggirl (Blessed Merry Christmas!=^..^==^..^==^..^==^..^==^..^=)
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To: Charles Henrickson
Thanks for posting the link to your Christmas sermon!

When you get home from church, will Christmas go with you, or will this be the end of it?

The Christmas and Easter sermons are so critical. You only get one shot at moving the hearts of visitors while also addressing the regular parishioners. You made an excellent point.

33 posted on 12/25/2008 5:02:11 PM PST by NYer ("Run from places of sin as from a plague." - St. John Climacus)
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To: NYer

Actually, although many Baptist churches do not have a service on Christmas day, I can assure you that many celebrate the birth of our Savior on Christmas Eve.


34 posted on 12/25/2008 5:03:03 PM PST by Binghamton_native
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To: Charles Henrickson

In truth, the pratice of having the “Eve” honored goes back to the Jewish practice of starting a new day or a festival at sundown, the begining of that festival. Since Christ was born at night, it is only right that there is worship at evening/night for Christmas.


35 posted on 12/25/2008 5:06:04 PM PST by Biggirl (Blessed Merry Christmas!=^..^==^..^==^..^==^..^==^..^=)
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To: NYer

Not to belabor this, but because it was THE most striking thing about Mass today: a church full of spectators is about a healthy as a nation full of ‘em. It dawned on me that, no, America doesn’t have to go down the tubes but, if this is what we’re made of, and if this is what we stay made of, it’s over.


36 posted on 12/25/2008 5:09:23 PM PST by the invisib1e hand (appeasement is collaboration.)
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To: Charles Henrickson

Please see post number 35.


37 posted on 12/25/2008 5:09:27 PM PST by Biggirl (Blessed Merry Christmas!=^..^==^..^==^..^==^..^==^..^=)
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To: NYer

I went with family last night. The church (Lutheran) was almost completely packed! There was going to be another service today. My daughter said there would be fewer people there then.


38 posted on 12/25/2008 5:13:12 PM PST by mathluv ( Conservative first and foremost, republican second)
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To: Biggirl; lightman
Oh, I'm all in favor of having a Christmas Eve service. I couldn't imagine not having one. But likewise, I could not imagine celebrating the Feast of the Nativity of Our Lord without the Feast! The Christ Mass is what makes Christmas Christmas.
39 posted on 12/25/2008 5:14:47 PM PST by Charles Henrickson (Lutheran pastor, LCMS, keeping both the CHRIST and the MASS in CHRISTMAS)
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To: All

In the old days in the RCC, priests would celibrate 3 masses, at midnight, at dawn, and during the day. Now there is a fourth, often a children’s liturgy vigil mass.


40 posted on 12/25/2008 5:21:27 PM PST by Biggirl (Blessed Merry Christmas!=^..^==^..^==^..^==^..^==^..^=)
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To: NYer
Well, as the different Masses have different music setups, the 5pm was probably the most crowded, but the big attraction is a prelude mostly of brass. Midnight had a good crowd. Not as big as other years, but big. 8am was the normal 8am crowd. 10am was not nearly as crowded as last year. Noon - I have no idea. Didn't sing at that one. But, this year, as we don't have an archbishop (yet), a 5-mile stretch of the major highway in our part of town is closed and Christmas being on a Thursday, there's a lot of people traveling. At least, we're hoping that's the case. Well, people missed some fabulous music - Even if Bishop Hermann wished us a Joyous Easter, prayed for our Pope John Paul II and chanted a part of the Mass none of us in the choir have ever heard chanted.:) Something like that happens every year.
41 posted on 12/25/2008 5:24:55 PM PST by Desdemona (Tolerance of grave evil is NOT a Christian virtue (I choose virtue. Values change too often).)
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To: NYer

Midnight mass is on Christmas day. It is not on Christmas eve.


42 posted on 12/25/2008 5:24:57 PM PST by Kirkwood
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To: SoftballMominVA

Growing up, our Baptist church didn’t even have Christmas Eve services. Church was on Sunday day & night & Wednesday nights.

My church that I go to now is a Baptist off-shoot, and it only recently started having a Christmas Eve service.

We actually opted for going to another church’s service last night. It was a traditional Candlelight service, and I think my whole family enjoyed it. My kids had never been to a traditional service like that.

Merry Christmas!


43 posted on 12/25/2008 5:28:46 PM PST by luckystarmom
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To: the invisib1e hand
But no more. I see how hard the religious and clergy work for them. I see how they have given up their verly lives for them -- talented men and women who could have had marvelous careers. And then, of course, is Who is waiting for their busy, important little selves in Eucharist.

For some of us, that once a year is a chance to move hearts. The Choir Prayer we say before every Mass has the words, "May we touch but one heart and lead it to Thee." This is a chance to move hearts. Granted, the choir in the Mother Ship here is absolutely the best Catholic choir I've ever sung in, but it could be that way everywhere. Charity-wise we always must be hopeful.

44 posted on 12/25/2008 5:32:44 PM PST by Desdemona (Tolerance of grave evil is NOT a Christian virtue (I choose virtue. Values change too often).)
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To: Biggirl; Desdemona; lightman; Cletus.D.Yokel; bcsco
In our Lutheran Service Book, there are provisions for four different services (with different sets of propers) to celebrate the Nativity of Our Lord: Christmas Eve, Christmas Midnight, Christmas Dawn, and Christmas Day. Most congregations (mine included) only do Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. Some do Midnight; almost none do Dawn. (Some big congregations do two or more Christmas Eve services, with still only one Christmas Day.)

Christmas Eve is almost invariably better attended than Christmas Day. But I would never do away with the Christmas Day Divine Service. That is unthinkable.

45 posted on 12/25/2008 5:33:04 PM PST by Charles Henrickson (Lutheran pastor, LCMS, keeping both the CHRIST and the MASS in CHRISTMAS)
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To: Charles Henrickson
Liturgically speaking, an "Eve" is a "warm-up" for a "Day." The Day is the big thing, not the Eve.

Hence why, in the Catholic Church, at least, the readings are different for a 5pm on the eve, a 10 pm, a Midnight, Mass at dawn, and Mass later in the day. This year, I only sang at three Masses (5 pm, Midnight and 10 am) and we had three different sets of readings. The gospels were REALLY different. It really doesn't matter if it's the congregation's Christmas, much to many people's dismay. It's what is proper.

BTW, X=Christ is actually an ancient Christian symbol stemming from the Greek. X or chi is the first letter in the word Christ, so it's kosher,so to speak. Unfortunately, that hasn't been taught. That being said, without Christ, the Solemnity has no meaning.

46 posted on 12/25/2008 5:40:23 PM PST by Desdemona (Tolerance of grave evil is NOT a Christian virtue (I choose virtue. Values change too often).)
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To: NYer

I grew up as a Baptist in Alabama. As a teen I went to a Christmas eve service at a Baptist church other than my own to hear my girl friend sing the soprano solo of “I wonder as I wander”, and to midnight mass at a local Episcopal Church. I have no recollection of my own Baptist church’s Christmas services.


47 posted on 12/25/2008 5:45:02 PM PST by caveat emptor (Waiting for Armageddon)
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To: NYer
Just curious but do you happen to know why Baptists would not celebrate the birth of our Savior?

The day starts at Midnight o 1...

Baptists have a Midnight service and they have your church beat on Christmas day celebration by hours...

48 posted on 12/25/2008 5:45:18 PM PST by Iscool (I don't understand all that I know...)
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To: NYer

My mother’s rather large Episcopal Church has 5:30 and 11PM Christmas Eve and 9AM Christmas. Our very small Anglican church had 7PM last night and 10AM this morning.
We went with my mother at 5:30. She had altar duty, so she had to be there or find someone to cover as she ought not to drive after dark.


49 posted on 12/25/2008 5:47:21 PM PST by kalee
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To: NYer
from 68-75, the best party of the Christmas season was a 2&1/2 block walk from St.Marys after Midnight Mass... it was nothing to see 25-30 people in one large gaggle heading south after Mass.
50 posted on 12/25/2008 5:47:51 PM PST by Chode (American Hedonist -)
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