Often even those closest to someone who commits suicide are left in total shock. Even those living with the victim may have no idea what’s about to come. So sorry to hear about this.
Perhaps that is why I’ve heard it said that depression is a silent killer. And yes those closest are often unaware I too have found. I personally wasn’t real close to this woman though I’ve known here for well over 20 years and had more of a professional business type relationship with her I thought very fondly of her and her husband who were both former successful business owners who had recently sold their thriving business and were laying plans for their retirement. May she RIP.