Posted on 09/30/2015 11:35:42 AM PDT by EternalVigilance
I prefer to set up the lawsuit I am more likely to win.
If you think that analogy is applicable to anything I’m saying, obviously you’re not getting a very clear picture of what I actually think.
Maybe I’m a failure at communicating. Maybe you’re just hearing what you want to hear. I don’t know.
I don't have any problem with that. There is always room for prudential judgement, tactically.
As long as that approach isn't used as an excuse for cowardice or a craven unwillingness to sacrifice something to do what's right.
Which isn't uncommon.
No, it's how you are communicating that makes for unnecessary strife. When you use absolutes and unqualified statements lacking alternatives, the reader is forced to take you literally. Thus:
EVERY (twice), EITHER (with no other possibilities), as low as it CAN go (as if there was no possibility of a defensible hazard or way it could be easier), FOR ONCE (as if FRC had never listened before)... Each of these statements is exclusive, placing its object in a position or condition that is logically unlikely. Each invites argument by exception which you apparently find frustrating. Yet by closing the box, you exclude solutions outside the box, and are thus forced to struggle out of an unnecessarily difficult position. Struggles don't go over well.
I don't recommend that style of discourse. It carries the risk of making enemies where you could have enlisted allies.
Actually, my “either” was simply an addition, an expansion, to the very narrow range of options you offered for dealing with the problem - a grand total of one option.
And you didn’t like that.
You’re just nit-picking and fault-finding.
Talk about unnecessary strife.
Considering that I merely responded to your query in order to be helpful as it seemed you wanted the feedback, isn't that the character of what you just wrote? I'm trying to tell you that when you leave no room for acceptance of alternatives, it is natural for people to take exception or simply not want to deal with you. If you don't care, that's fine, but when you list what you state to be the only alternatives when others exist, you just may get that response.
I left other alternatives. You simply choose not to see them.
In fact, you started to nitpick and fault-find as soon as I offered alternatives to the one solution to the problem you offered.
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