Think really carefully about how it would touch their lives to know that. Would it make them better? Encourage them? I don’t know what I would do. First thought is it’s kind of like a spouse telling about her affair and asking for forgiveness, which is almost too much to ask of your children.
Oh I continue to think about it and really don’t feel it’s my place to tell them, it is their mother. That said, at some point, maybe 30 years from now, they should know.