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Waitress denied tip for 'gay lifestyle' gets flood of support
Today ^ | 1/15/13 | Danika Fears

Posted on 11/16/2013 5:39:15 AM PST by traderrob6

New Jersey waitress Dayna Morales was expecting a tip after serving a party of four on Wednesday, but instead, she found a hurtful handwritten note.

“I’m sorry but I cannot tip because I do not agree with your lifestyle and the way you live your life," the note read.

Deeply offended, Morales, who is a lesbian, posted the receipt to Facebook, and then sent it to LGBT group Have a Gay Day's Facebook page, where it racked up over 3,000 comments and quickly made its way around the web.

"I'm a server at Gallop Asian Bistro in Bridgewater, NJ and THIS is what happened to me today," she wrote, alongside the photo. "NEVER in a million years did I think this would happen...I am THOROUGHLY offended mad pissed off and hurt that THIS is what her kids will grow up learning and that I served in the Marines to keep ignorant people like them free."

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KEYWORDS: attentionwhore; celebrateperversity; dnctalkingpoints; gay; haveagayday; homosexualagenda; lavendermafia; lookatme; pinkjournalism; tip; todayshow; waitress
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Another hoax?
1 posted on 11/16/2013 5:39:15 AM PST by traderrob6
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To: traderrob6

Smells like it.


2 posted on 11/16/2013 5:40:53 AM PST by Dutch Boy
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To: traderrob6

I was working as a waiter the other day, and a customer wrote “no tip for you, Straight White Male!”

Now, where to I collect my money? /sarc


3 posted on 11/16/2013 5:43:25 AM PST by Cowboy Bob (They are called "Liberals" because the word "parasite" was already taken.)
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To: traderrob6

Bigfoot wrote the note.


4 posted on 11/16/2013 5:44:12 AM PST by Flycatcher (God speaks to us, through the supernal lightness of birds, in a special type of poetry.)
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To: Dutch Boy
A former BAM ... waiting tables ?

Not even trying,

5 posted on 11/16/2013 5:44:28 AM PST by knarf (I say things that are true .. I have no proof .. but they're true.)
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To: traderrob6

Um.

Wasn’t the Marines up until just a few months ago, an organization which did not allow in gays?

Just saying.


6 posted on 11/16/2013 5:46:19 AM PST by Cringing Negativism Network
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To: traderrob6

Shut up, pervert and repent. The sun can shine once again in your drab, disgusting life.


7 posted on 11/16/2013 5:46:32 AM PST by IbJensen (Liberals are like Slinkies, good for nothing, but you smile as you push them down the stairs.)
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To: traderrob6
Another hoax?

Without a doubt.

8 posted on 11/16/2013 5:46:37 AM PST by Future Snake Eater (CrossFit.com)
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To: traderrob6

“NEVER in a million years did I think this would happen...I am THOROUGHLY offended mad pissed off and hurt that THIS is what her kids will grow up learning and that I served in the Marines to keep ignorant people like them free.”

That’s what they get and deserve when they try to force
their perverted lifestyle on honest, decent and moral
people. If the muncher would have kept it to herself
she would have been given gratuity. Instead she offended
her customers. She should be fired as an example.


9 posted on 11/16/2013 5:48:05 AM PST by Slambat
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To: traderrob6
Is she telling all her customers she's a Freak? Maybe she's daring the Restaurant to
fire her for being gay by telling everyone she is so the bigger payoff will present itself.

I've managed "those kind" of people before and there's no law against firing stupid.

Maybe the Muslims working restaurants now will start telling customers
they wipe with their bare left hand.

10 posted on 11/16/2013 5:49:36 AM PST by MaxMax (Pay Attention and you'll be pissed off too! FIRE BOEHNER, NOW!)
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To: traderrob6

I live near Bridgewater. I’ll be sure to avoid this place until she is fired.

Don’t forget honey, lots of others fought and died so we could have our lifestyles too. The world is not all about you.


11 posted on 11/16/2013 5:49:58 AM PST by jughandle
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To: Future Snake Eater

Was the waitress flaunting her gayness? Was she swapping spit with another lesbionic waitress? Was she up on a table reading from her gayness handbook? This is a hoax.


12 posted on 11/16/2013 5:50:04 AM PST by shankbear (The tree of Liberty appears to be perishing because there are few patriots willing to refresh it.)
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To: traderrob6
Did she regale the diners about her lesbianism? If not, how would they know she's gay? This smells to high heaven.

Or, maybe she hit on one of the women in group and they took offense.

13 posted on 11/16/2013 5:50:20 AM PST by raybbr (I weep over my sons' future in this Godforsaken country.)
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To: traderrob6

Yeah, and we an. Keep our health insurance, too.

Sorry, but I don’t believeeve it.


14 posted on 11/16/2013 5:50:37 AM PST by Da Coyote
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To: traderrob6

There is a lot left out to this story. If it is not a total fabrication.

If it is obvious enough for a stranger to put that on a receipt, and they ARE correct, then you did something to tell them that.

If you are telling a complete stranger that you are gay, don’t be surprised when people object. Your sexual adventures are none of my business.


15 posted on 11/16/2013 5:50:42 AM PST by Bryan24 (When in doubt, move to the right..........)
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To: traderrob6

If not a hoax, then the lady who left the “tip” will be raising her children right and with good morals.


16 posted on 11/16/2013 5:51:20 AM PST by maddog55
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To: Da Coyote

Sorry for the ipad sloppiness.


17 posted on 11/16/2013 5:51:48 AM PST by Da Coyote
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To: Cringing Negativism Network
Wasn’t the Marines up until just a few months ago, an organization which did not allow in gays?
No, like all other branches of the service, they were forced to follow the DADT policy, and the subsequent change to stop enforcing same.
What the Marine Corps doesn't allow is mixed genders in basic training, nor women in the infantry.
18 posted on 11/16/2013 5:52:52 AM PST by oh8eleven (RVN '67-'68)
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To: traderrob6

“Another hoax?” There’s no doubt in my mind. How would customers know about her lifestyle?


19 posted on 11/16/2013 5:55:17 AM PST by mkmensinger
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To: traderrob6

No doubt. These infantile libs just have such a teeny tiny bag of trix.


20 posted on 11/16/2013 5:55:17 AM PST by C. Edmund Wright (Tokyo Rove is more than a name, it's a GREAT WEBSITE)
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To: traderrob6

The black waitress that wrote in n***** where the tip should be. She got $10,000 via a sympathy web based fund raiser. So she is bound to spawn imitators

The black waitress at Red Lobster got no tip for whatever reason. So she wrote in n***** and scored big. From phoney cries of racism to 10,000 in cold hard cash

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IBUE5BmX_Do


21 posted on 11/16/2013 5:55:46 AM PST by dennisw (The first principle is to find out who you are then you can achieve anything -- Buddhist monk)
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To: traderrob6

Reeks of Red Lobster.


22 posted on 11/16/2013 5:56:55 AM PST by SoFloFreeper
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To: traderrob6
"Her post triggered an outpouring of support from people across the globe, and over $1000 in donations to a PayPal account that she set up "

I've been offended! here's my PayPal account....

23 posted on 11/16/2013 5:56:57 AM PST by Mr. K
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To: oh8eleven

Oh thanks. Sorry for my confusion.


24 posted on 11/16/2013 5:57:11 AM PST by Cringing Negativism Network
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To: traderrob6

From her appearance, they thought she was a guy.
(No pictures of her new ‘look’.)

And they are surprised that she is a woman.
And apparently they are offended by her comportment.

I’d like to see a picture of the waitress, to see if I would want MY children around it. And I usually try to leave a tip, even if the server was marginal.

But I really wonder about the server - her appearance and behavior. Did she try to introduce the children to the wonderful world of lesbianism? Is her appearance edgy enough to make a parent nervous?

I could choose to shave my head into a spiked Mohawk, tattoo a swastika on my forehead, and wear a toga. But if I decide to make such a ‘statement’ with my appearance, I shouldn’t be surprised if people keep their children away from me.


25 posted on 11/16/2013 5:57:21 AM PST by LucianOfSamasota (Tanstaafl - its not just for breakfast anymore...)
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To: Bryan24

I like your anwer.

My position is I don’t care a whit about what you do in your personal life with the previso I don’t want to hear about it public. Once you go over that line and flaunt it in my face, I can counter it by doing what I can to “screw” you.


26 posted on 11/16/2013 5:58:10 AM PST by Mouton (The insurrection laws perpetuate what we have for a government now.)
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To: Cowboy Bob

Haha ...


27 posted on 11/16/2013 5:59:19 AM PST by BunnySlippers (I LOVE BULL MARKETS . . .)
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To: traderrob6

How does she assume that the customers “know” her to be a lesbian? Was she gabbing openly, while serving them, about her personal sex life with women?

If not, what does she think tipped them off? Short hair? Is she assuming the myriad of stereotypes about lesbians (which we are all supposed to not notice, ignore, and, fee bad about if we do) in making this claim? Did she have a buzz cut, an Adam’s Apple, and, a tatoo that said “Mom” on her arm?


28 posted on 11/16/2013 5:59:23 AM PST by FAA
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To: Future Snake Eater; Revolting cat!; GeronL
Another hoax?

>> Without a doubt.

Viral "marketing" for paypal "tips".

29 posted on 11/16/2013 6:01:10 AM PST by a fool in paradise (America 2013 - STUCK ON STUPID)
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To: traderrob6

Dayna-Morales

30 posted on 11/16/2013 6:01:16 AM PST by dennisw (The first principle is to find out who you are then you can achieve anything -- Buddhist monk)
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To: traderrob6

First thought: Is this a hoax, like the one a few weeks ago, and the ‘victim’ hopes to cash in, like the ‘victim’ from the Red Lobster incident?

Second thought: Why would any client/customer accept being served, and then write such a comment? If they are opposed to the lifestyle, they should have refused to be seated and left the establishment.

These stories smack with hypocrisy and media agenda.


31 posted on 11/16/2013 6:01:38 AM PST by TomGuy (.)
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To: Slambat

Screw this beotch, if we have to tolerate flamming faggots like this in the late great US military. Then they should have to tolerate the view that they are WRONG.

Pretty much every religion on Earth, and every country but a few “civilized” countries believe that homosexuals are immoral, and unnatural.

Nasty bull dyke gets everything she deserves, and everything she doesn’t. She should have shut her stupid mouth and not told people she was “gay”.

If I was waiting tables and started to brag about how much of a heterosexual I am I wouldn’t expect a tip either.

I don’t want faggots in the military, when the GOP gets control of congress and the white house, perhaps we can finally end this exercise in allowing dumb dykes like this to pervert our military and country.

Homosexuals are useless to humanity. Majority of STD’s are passed through homo sex, they don’t procreate, they prey on children and the naive. If they can’t see the errors of their ways in a just world they would be put to death. But we live in bizzaro world.

People will call evil good and good evil in the end times. Got a big baby apocalypse kicking in that oven , and woooheee these kicks are getting painful.


32 posted on 11/16/2013 6:02:11 AM PST by FreedomStar3028 (Evil must be punished.)
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To: dennisw

She’s pretty darn butch alright.


33 posted on 11/16/2013 6:02:19 AM PST by traderrob6
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To: dennisw

When black customers don’t tip, is that because of racism or because they are cheap?


34 posted on 11/16/2013 6:03:10 AM PST by a fool in paradise (America 2013 - STUCK ON STUPID)
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To: traderrob6
Says she set up a paypal account. Has $1000 according to the article. I'm sure it's muuuuuuuuuuuuuch more. I think we'll find that the chick is a liar....and a thief.

A Marine? And she served where? They don't say she what she did or where she served.....or whether she was honorably discharged.

More to this chick (****) than meets the eye???

35 posted on 11/16/2013 6:06:51 AM PST by Sacajaweau
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To: traderrob6

It is. How can someone who she has never met and does not know her, be aware that she is living a lesbian lifestyle? Or care?


36 posted on 11/16/2013 6:07:55 AM PST by sport
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To: LucianOfSamasota

Had a pic of her up yesterday, looks ALOT (and I mean ALOT!) like Chaz Bono. Kind of hard to NOT see she plays for the “away team”.


37 posted on 11/16/2013 6:11:19 AM PST by ConservativeChris (I feel like Marvin Boggs!)
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To: traderrob6

I’m against the whole idea of tipping. I hate tipping. (I do it anyway). It’s just one of those old timey customs that never died, but should have.

Rhetorical questions: “How much should I tip?” Should I reduce the tip because they used the word “server”?”


38 posted on 11/16/2013 6:14:25 AM PST by faucetman ( Just the facts, ma'am, Just the facts)
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To: traderrob6

I’m against the whole idea of tipping. I hate tipping. (I do it anyway). It’s just one of those old timey customs that never died, but should have.

Rhetorical questions: “How much should I tip?” Should I reduce the tip because they used the word “server”?”


39 posted on 11/16/2013 6:14:27 AM PST by faucetman ( Just the facts, ma'am, Just the facts)
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To: traderrob6

I’m against the whole idea of tipping. I hate tipping. (I do it anyway). It’s just one of those old timey customs that never died, but should have.

Rhetorical questions: “How much should I tip?” Should I reduce the tip because they used the word “server”?”


40 posted on 11/16/2013 6:14:28 AM PST by faucetman ( Just the facts, ma'am, Just the facts)
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To: traderrob6

I’m against the whole idea of tipping. I hate tipping. (I do it anyway). It’s just one of those old timey customs that never died, but should have.

Rhetorical questions: “How much should I tip?” Should I reduce the tip because they used the word “server”?”


41 posted on 11/16/2013 6:14:30 AM PST by faucetman ( Just the facts, ma'am, Just the facts)
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To: traderrob6

I’m against the whole idea of tipping. I hate tipping. (I do it anyway). It’s just one of those old timey customs that never died, but should have.

Rhetorical questions: “How much should I tip?” Should I reduce the tip because they used the word “server”?”


42 posted on 11/16/2013 6:14:31 AM PST by faucetman ( Just the facts, ma'am, Just the facts)
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To: traderrob6

I’m against the whole idea of tipping. I hate tipping. (I do it anyway). It’s just one of those old timey customs that never died, but should have.

Rhetorical questions: “How much should I tip?” Should I reduce the tip because they used the word “server”?”


43 posted on 11/16/2013 6:14:32 AM PST by faucetman ( Just the facts, ma'am, Just the facts)
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To: traderrob6

I’m against the whole idea of tipping. I hate tipping. (I do it anyway). It’s just one of those old timey customs that never died, but should have.

Rhetorical questions: “How much should I tip?” Should I reduce the tip because they used the word “server”?”


44 posted on 11/16/2013 6:14:34 AM PST by faucetman ( Just the facts, ma'am, Just the facts)
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To: traderrob6

I’m against the whole idea of tipping. I hate tipping. (I do it anyway). It’s just one of those old timey customs that never died, but should have.

Rhetorical questions: “How much should I tip?” Should I reduce the tip because they used the word “server”?”


45 posted on 11/16/2013 6:14:42 AM PST by faucetman ( Just the facts, ma'am, Just the facts)
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To: traderrob6

I’m against the whole idea of tipping. I hate tipping. (I do it anyway). It’s just one of those old timey customs that never died, but should have.

Rhetorical questions: “How much should I tip?” Should I reduce the tip because they used the word “server”?”


46 posted on 11/16/2013 6:14:43 AM PST by faucetman ( Just the facts, ma'am, Just the facts)
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To: traderrob6

I’m against the whole idea of tipping. I hate tipping. (I do it anyway). It’s just one of those old timey customs that never died, but should have.

Rhetorical questions: “How much should I tip?” Should I reduce the tip because they used the word “server”?”


47 posted on 11/16/2013 6:14:45 AM PST by faucetman ( Just the facts, ma'am, Just the facts)
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To: traderrob6

I’m against the whole idea of tipping. I hate tipping. (I do it anyway). It’s just one of those old timey customs that never died, but should have.

Rhetorical questions: “How much should I tip?” Should I reduce the tip because they used the word “server”?”


48 posted on 11/16/2013 6:14:46 AM PST by faucetman ( Just the facts, ma'am, Just the facts)
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To: traderrob6
Legal Admin US Marien Corps

Lead Teacher...Children of Americaa......Daycare....Bad reviews

Think this is her...

Hoax....absolutely

49 posted on 11/16/2013 6:17:12 AM PST by Sacajaweau
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To: dennisw

He looks clean cut for a waiter.


50 posted on 11/16/2013 6:23:39 AM PST by Raycpa
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