I believe she is the one with the money. Stop stereotyping. These days money is less of an issue in high profile marriages.
Actually, it isn’t easy to find out whether she is rich in her own right (i.e., having had money before she married him). Most mentions of her money are in connection with work performed after they got married and the promising career options she gave up, or various mutterings about being “not rich”..... I can, however, find more than one citing about him using ‘his own money’ ($3M) to finance a run for office.
You are more than welcomed to give advice, it is likewise my choice to accept or not.
Spitzer is from a very wealthy family.