I’m not sure why she’s trash. There’s a lot to admire here. She’s a winning coach. She fought back from an accident that would leave most totally disabled. But she made a mistake. Sounds like the 20 year old left her after she was in the accident. I think a reprimand and maybe some counseling would have been appropriate. If she had been diddling little girls it would be different.
“I’m not sure why she’s trash.”
She’s trash because, instead of accepting responsibility for her actions, her first instinct is to play the victim card to avoid responsibility. The side effect of her actions, and everyone like her, is that REAL victims who really are being discriminated against are not taken as seriously.