How long have you been married? More than two years? If so, you trained her to be a spender. It’s not going to be easy to break a habit that you taught her.
I have....just like Dr. Frankenstien....created my own monster.
And it bothers me the most that she is physically and mentally more than capable of earning income. She just refuses to.
To quote Ayn Rand..."By what right? By what code? By what standard?"