Posted on 01/01/2009 4:52:31 PM PST by TornadoAlley3
Muslim women head to a Cary pool as another cultural barrier falls
Salman Sheikh was organizing a swim class for his two sons last summer when fellow Muslim parents approached him about starting a class for girls.
Sheikh told them he would ask the Curran Aquatic Center in Cary whether it could accommodate a group of Muslims who preferred a women-only pool.
Yes, of course, the leaders of the aquatic center said, and showed him a 15-yard pool that could be rented for $170 an hour.
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Problem was, the small pool overlooked a larger, Olympic-size pool, and Sheikh wondered whether the center could provide blinds to cover the windows and shield the women from onlookers.
Sure, the center's leaders said, but it would cost $3,000 for custom-made blinds. Sheikh was ready to drop the idea. But the Muslim community in Raleigh and Cary wouldn't let him.
Within a month, Sheikh, a native of Pakistan who works as a project manager for the state Department of Health and Human Services, raised the money and signed up 35 women for the first class.
Last month, a group of women of all ages dipped their toes into the water for the first time.
This type of accommodation to the religious requirements of their faith is something Muslims are seeing more. All-Muslim Boy Scout and Girl Scout troops have cropped up across the country. Muslims are entering politics, studying Islam at major American universities, even finding halal, or ritually slaughtered foods, at local stores.
"I see this as sign of Muslims learning to operate within American civic institutions," said Omid Safi, a professor of Islamic studies at UNC-Chapel Hill.
For many of the women who signed up for the first class, learning to swim had been a long-deferred wish.
"I didn't ever want to be in a situation where I fall in the water and can't help myself," said Tarannum Khan, 30, who signed up for the class in Cary.
Many devout Muslim women adhere to their faith's requirements to guard their modesty, which for them means covering their hair and bodies in the presence of men who aren't their relatives. By doing so, they believe they are deflecting the desires and gazes of the opposite sex and living the kind of life the Prophet Muhammad might have approved.
Deprived of a dip
In mostly Muslim countries, it is common to have separate pools for men and women. But in the United States that's virtually unheard of, and as a result many Muslim women grow up not knowing how to swim.
Saleha Bhatti of Raleigh, who accompanied her 16-year-old daughter, Sanaa, to the swim class, said that was the case in her family. Had she stayed in Pakistan, she might have taken lessons at a women's pool, but in the United States, it wasn't an option.
"We never had the chance to learn," Bhatti said.
Jenny Jaber, a convert to Islam who lives in Raleigh, said learning to swim should not be a luxury. Indeed, she said, learning to swim is encouraged in the oral sayings of the Prophet Muhammad, known as the hadith.
"I've wanted to waterproof this community for a long time," said Jaber, who worked as a water safety instructor until she converted. "We're around water all the time, and it unnerves me to see these women standing on piers."
The first swimming class for Muslim women focused mostly on the fundamentals of water safety: wading, learning to float, learning to breathe.
Many of the women came dressed in full-length Burkinis, swimming costumes that looks much like a scuba-diving suit but are made of water-protected polyester rather than rubber. Designed for Muslim women, they cover the entire body except for the hands, feet and face.
Huma Sheikh, the wife of Salman, said she considers herself a pioneer among Triangle Muslim women who have learned to swim. She is proud that her husband and her two boys, Hamza, 9, and Mohhid, 7, can swim. And proud that she can, too.
"I've learned all the strokes," she said, "but I'm best at the breast stroke."
The first class ended last month, and the Sheikhs are planning another one in March or April.
"It's created a lot of excitement," said Doracy Harrison, program manager at the Curran Aquatic Center. "It's been really neat."
For the Sheikhs, the success of the class is a lesson in cultural adjustment. "It makes sense for business and service providers to accommodate the needs of the community," Salman Sheikh said. "All it takes is dialogue to make it happen."
I swim at this pool and read a similar article yesterday. What a load of crap.
I saw a muslim woman swim at my pool. She wore a jogbra and some shorts and that ended up see through after getting wet.
Perhaps it's because the United States isn't a muslim country.
And incidentally, it's never gonna be.
Get the old man to put a pool at the house, and youse can all meet there.
Why? If they want to rent the pool for a private party, why should they be different, say, than a nudist group?
In the fundamentalist circles I am in, the discussion of modesty has come up a lot. For example, many think a skirt wearing woman is more modest than one wearing jeans...and it goes on. But consider this, the more modest woman is the one not drawing unwarranted attention to herself. A woman entering a pool in a swimsuit is not going to attract more attention to herself because every other woman at the pool is wearing the same thing. On the other hand, the woman wearing the body tent is going to attract all kinds of lookers. So who in reality is being the most modest?
So I assume they are allowed to drive? The Raleigh area has a large Muslim population for some reason, including many Palestinians.
If these members of the Cult of Hating Sex are so insistent on “modesty,” they can either build their own pool (with all private money, not one cent of taxpayer money) or go back to whatever Muslim sh*thole they came from. It’s incredibly arrogant, rude, and unethical of them to demand that a host country change its customs.
I work out. I like going to the beach or the pool in a bikini. I’ll keep my bikini, and they can keep their abayas - in their private pools, or in their Muslim countries.
Then get a freakin pool in your own backyard and invite all your mooslim women friends over!
I agree. What pisses me off is when muslims demand that their beliefs be accommodated and that taxpayers pick up the tab (i.e foot washing facilities in public rest rooms, etc.) but that's not the case here. I'm fine with them paying for the pool time and the blinds if they want special treatment.
And you have pictures to prove this. ;)
Just for the records, I like bikinis too. Not that I’ve ever worn one.
Yeah, I am skeptical, as well.
Lets see some proof. ;^)
to seeing this
Wearing a large amount of clothing will comdemn you to drowning no matter how well you know how to swim.
How stupid can a person or political movement be? Islam is not a religion but a political movement.
Great. Cary is no longer the Containment Area for Relocated YANKEES.
FAIL
EPIC FAIL
one positive, the pool owners weren’t forced by the govt. or CAIR to do it, and the muslim’s paid for the “improvements”.
“I see this as sign of Muslims learning to operate within American civic institutions,” said Omid Safi, a professor of Islamic studies at UNC-Chapel Hill. “
No Omid it’s the other way around. A further Balkanization of our society.
All Muslim Boy Scout troops? Please.
I like it. May I steal it?
looks like shes had bariatric surgery...
Heck with it. Capitalism in action.
You may, you may get a big ship, hook said dumpster on the back, and you may tow it all back home with you, but, be warned, it’s a big, big thing!
Oh, I was referring to your colorful metaphor, of course. Please keep what you have as we are busy with our own! No room at the Inn.
You know, on second thoughts, it’s be easier of you brought a dumpster over here with you, all the (as you’d imagine British) people could climb in it and start a new British (dumpster) Isles, and you could tow the rest of our infested Island back with you! Brilliant eh? Be much easier than trying to do it the other way round.
You call it capital. I call it bait.
R.O.T.F.L.O.L.
When my husband’s ship went to the Mid-east they went to a water park in Dubai where most of the women wore their head covered and jeans in the pool.
I’m sorry, that’s ridiculous, that lady could drown with all that heavy stuff on.
Did you get turned on and then stone her for turning you on?
My sentiments exactly. These a-holes need to grow up and get lives.
This is about ESTABLISHING A PATTERN of forcing the West to ACCOMMODATE MUSLIM TRADITIONS.
Hear me now, believe me later.
I really dont see a problem with this, they RENTED the pool. They did not demand usage and consessions
I have actually seen a girl in an Islamic swimsuit. Head-to-toe with a swim cap.
Interesting to see Muslims demanding the return of male/female segregation and modesty practices which were last viewed as normal in the US about 100 years ago. I’m certain the incidence of crimes against women is far higher within Muslim communities than it is in US society as a whole. Step into the present, US Muslims - your daughters will thank you for it.
No. She was cute, she was actually wearing shorts, a jogbra with a t-shirt over it. I was surprised when she took her t-shirt off.
Cary = Concentrated Area of Relocated Yankees
I was referring to the ones who make a stink about the whole thing.
She was with her mother I believe.
Two-three-four, tell the people what she wore
It was an Itsy Bitsy Teenie Weenie Yellow Polka Dot Burkini
That she wore for the first time today
An Itsy Bitsy Teenie Weenie Yellow Polka Dot Burkini
So in the شاطئ, منطقة ساحلية سكن, she wanted to stay
Well said. If they can't or won't adapt then they can go back to their countries where their lifestyle is normal IMO.
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