Posted on 05/30/2008 2:54:48 PM PDT by forkinsocket
German red tape and a lack of will on the part of officialdom is putting some Muslim women in a very dangerous position. Instead of protecting them from the threat of honor killings, some of the bureaucracy actually increases the risk.
The little girl with the pigtails stands at the window staring into the green courtyard. She wants to go outside with her mother to play. "No," the young woman says, "it just rained."
In truth, the sun was shining on the major western German city last Wednesday. But the mother is trying to shield her four-year-old daughter from the real reason they've spent weeks hiding in this apartment. They don't answer the telephone, they don't go to kindergarten and they don't answer the door to the apartment, which is owned by an acquaintance. The mother is scared, deathly afraid. Her Turkish husband has threatened to kill her because she has fallen in love with another man.
The 22-year-old is one of many young women who have been threatened with an honor killing in Germany. According to statistics provided by the German Federal Criminal Police Office (BKA), at least 48 people have been the victims of honor killings in Germany since 1995. The case of this young mother underscores just how difficult it can be to provide women who have been threatened with protection.
A number of regulations make it relatively easy for violent family members to find out where the threatened are staying. And the procedures for entering into witness protection programs for the few who dare to testify against family members who commit battery or murder have proven to be overly complicated and bureaucratic.
(Excerpt) Read more at spiegel.de ...
The German government is too busy hunting down homeschooling families, taking the children, and putting the parents in jail.
You forgot about Christian ministers who criticize Islam. Lots of jail space for them.
Never thought I'd live to see those words associated with Germans...
Don’t worry, they’ll paint you a pretty chalk outline and give your killer eight years max.
Sharia law: coming soon to a nation near you American pig! :D
Sharia law: coming soon to a nation near you American infidel pig! :D
Then there is this gem from a Norwegian Academic; "I will not blame Norwegian women for the rapes. But Norwegian women must understand that we live in a multi-cultural society and adapt themselves to it."Professor Unni Wikan, Oslo, Norway, 09/06/2001.
Red Tape Makes it Harder to Prevent Honor Killings
While islam makes it easy to commit honor killings
Well you have no idea what could happen if we Germans would allow homeschooling. All Turks would "homeschool" their daughters in Madrasahs. They probably would not be able to read and write but at least they could recite the so called "Koran" then. Now those girls have the chance on free western education and information provided by the German states. This sparked a emancipation wave among Turkish women that has massive influence on their society in Germany and as an European export in Turkey.
This success is far more important to Germans who are in decisive positions than the "rights" of a few Christian fundamentalists (who are usually deeply influenced by evangelical groups from the US) who want to install a "homeschool"-system in our country. Those people are in numeral and religious aspects a completely irrelevant minority. A few hundred barraters in a nation of 82.000.000. Fact is that homeschooling was never allowed in Germany. The common duty to visit a accredited private or public school is quite old and no spechial heritage of the nazis as some dumb propaganda from America is sometimes alleging. It started with Martin Luther who called for obligatory public schools in 1524. The first relating laws were verbalized in the "Principia regulativa" of king Friedrich Wilhelm I., (1717), and confirmed through the "Generallandschulreglement" of Frederic the Great in 1763. The nazis simply adopted old right in their "Reichsschulpflichtgesetz". They never invented it. After the war the relating laws were pursued and expanded on residents in Germany with a non-German citizenship (US - soldiers in Germany are not affected because of the Status of Forces Agreement).
The "Schulpflicht", the duty to attend a accredited private or public school, is part of our way of live. Therefore it is not negotiable. Neither for Christian nor for Islamist fundamentalists. If someone is living in Germany he has to subordinate himself in a certain extend to our manners and culture. If someone does not want to do this he has the freedom to stay away.
Regards from Germany.
A.B.
Which fight?
I am offended that you put "rights" in quotation marks. The family is SUPERIOR to the state. The state does not ordinarily have the authority to force children into government "education" centers.
And the personal right on information and education of each kid is SUPERIOR to the right of the family to keep the control over its members.
If you cannot even stop honor killings, you are incapable of protecting your "way of life.
You have no idea. Are you Americans able to control every BS committed by your underdogs? To give you a example: Los Angeles riots
Modern secular schools are making the mess that is allowing the Muslims to gain a foothold in your country. Your country is trying very hard to make sure that nobody who would resist them is given the tools or the spine to do so.
Might be the case in your country. Nevertheless this is not so in Germany. German schools are not secular. They provide religious education (not obligatory - Evangelical Christians have the alternative to stay away). Due to the fact that practically all German Christians are either catholic or Lutheran such is easy. The lessons are usually given by clergymen and/or teachers who received a special tutorial from the two churches. Furthermore there is the possibility to give the kids into accredited private schools that provide a special (religious) program (i.e. Evangelical, even Muslim or last but not least absolutely no religion) but also a basement of education. I have two of my sons on a private catholic school that is operated by Jesuites.
Nevertheless there is nobody who is able to dictate us how we should operate our education system. Therefore we will kick the a*ses of "home schoolers" now and in the future since we do not understand the value but are well aware of the dangers. Different countries different attitudes. Live with it.
Well, we Germans are a nation of 82.000.000 people. 3.7% of our population are Muslim. That makes roundabout 2.700.000 Muslims in my country. Furthermore we deal with a few hundred homeschoolers from mainly small Christian sects. We do not let Muslims dictate terms but we have to admit that our interest into proper education of Muslim kids in Germany is much higher than into the wishes of a absolutely irrelevant minority. It is simply a balancing of interests.
That is the rational used in public schools to give the kids Planned Parenthood style sex ed.
Well, Germany has anyway complete different sex morals than the US. Our kids receive sex education with 11 or 12 years since a long time. I remember that our teachers were not allowed to tell us anything about contraception but told us everything else in the beginning 80ties. Today they teach birth control too. So what? To me information has to be available if it is needed. In difference to the US the teenage pregnancy rate in Germany is much lower although I doubt that the basic sexual behavior is different. To my knowlege the average first sex of German kids happens with 16 or 17 years and is not triggered by sexual education.
It might be that most (Christian - BTW) Germans have a much more casual handling of sex than evangelical conservative Christians do, but it has to be said that the responsibility for sexual behavior is very well something that can be conveyed by a family. Sexual responsibility is different to sexual information. Therefore we have absolutely no reason to allow someone to deny his kids the information that we consider as important just because of his religious commitment. If his belief is worth something he/she should be able to get it across to his kids. If they identify themselves with the message they will adjust their personal behavior. You should simply understand that we Germans are not willing to let Muslims and/or evangelical Christians dictate our way of live. All of our kids get the basic information and it is their very own decision what they do with it. No matter if we talk about history, biology, literature or (obviously quite important to Muslims and fundamental Christians) sexual education.
If you grant the state a monopoly on what you call the dispensing of information, it will be abused.
The German state has no monopoly on information. Germans have the right to send their kids on private schools that stand for their own aims. Nevertheless those schools have to fit into some minimum standards. They have to provide real information and not only a religious program. That is all.
My wife is Canadian, and the Catholic schools in Canada are completely dictated to by the state schools. Catholics (by papal teaching) are required to be the PRIMARY educators of children. The schools are to ASSIST the parents.
Personally I see myself as the PRIMARY educator of my kids and I share your view completely that schools only should be allowed to ASSIST the parents in bringing up the children. The basic philosophy of live is something a school can not provide. Such takes loving parents. The sexual act i.e. can be explained by a teacher but it takes a loving mother or father to say something about the immemorial secret around it. Therefore - do not get me wrong: Schools are places of free information but no places of propaganda.
The thing is that we Germans want to have all of our kids to know some basic things. Therefore we need our schools. Nevertheless that does not strip the right of the parents to take influence on their children.
This is for sure true. If Americans refer to "God-given rights" they usually advert to the following term of their declaration of independence (which is a great document anyway): "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. The thing is, that "certain unalienable rights" are not clearly defined. Is the individual right of the kid on unfiltered and free information not as important as the right of the family to take influence? Therefore - is the right on unfiltered and free information not also a "unalienable right"?
Nevertheless to me this is irrelevant anyway. You should not forget that I am no American and the declaration of independence is nothing more to me than a interesting source of good history and philosophy. As a European I have a different understanding of freedom and rights since I was formed in and through a different culture of course. First of all we Europeans usually understand our state as a representation of ourselves. That means that we normally do not have to be protected from it, since most of us trust into our public authorities. Furthermore most contemporary Europeans see the rights of the individual as those that are the most important ones while rights of groups (i.e. the family) are far less important. The "Kindesinteresse" (interest of the kid) is absolutely in the foreground. If the "Kindesinteresse" is congruent with the interests of the family then we have no problem. But if the interests of the family are much different to what we define as the "Kindesinteresse" the state intervenes in the interest of the kid. This is what happens in the moment in Germany. The state saves the children from being manipulated through their parents who restrict their access on free information because of the parental religious beliefs. To give you a example: Not that long ago I had a harsh discussion with a friend of my wife who refused to open her kids the access to books with Darwinist background (the respective book showed the development of elephants). I am unable to understand that -even if someone is a creationist- it should be forbidden to take a look on it and to talk about it. Sooner or later her kids will get into contact with the teachings of Darwin and then they are going to come into real deep doubts if they understand that their mother suppressed some basic and crucial information. It is not funny to wake up in Disneyland. Therefore the right on information is completely unalienable to me. This is something "God-given" to most of us Europeans. Nevertheless information is one thing, the interpretation is something completely different. This is the point where the mother (in this case) is needed. She has not only the right but the duty to get her good belief across to her children but she has no reason to keep the kids completely uninformed. Such is contraproductive and against the basic "Kindesinteresse".
If the schools are teaching sex ed, including birth control, that is completely against Catholic teaching. I am greatly saddened if the Jesuits are cooperating with this.
The thing is that they teach it but they also conciliate the teaching with the Catholic philosophy of marital life. Marriage in Catholicism is a godly institution and a holy sacrament. Therefore sex outside the marriage is simply not allowed. My boys (I have 3 sons) have been taught that but they also know (according to their age) about the biological essentials. This is no antagonism. My kids simply get the full information. They also get the full information about the different theories about the Genesis together with my personal point of view in this question. Where is the problem? What they do with this intellectual basement in their personal lives is their very own decision. The thing is that they will have enough knowledge some day to reach their very own reasonable arbitration.
I wonder how many of the millions of Catholics would like to provide with a proper moral education Germany. If the country at large is okay with sex outside of marriage
The situation in Germany in this respect is not that different to the situation in the US. We have indeed the problem that large parts of our population lack a proper ethic background. The thing is that this was not triggered by schools or education but through female emancipation and the therewith connected decay of traditional family structures. You can believe me that high divorce rates and mothers who do not care for their children are a much bigger problem in our society than sexual education.
If you are willing to make a distinction between Muslims and Christians, why are you obliged to imprison evangelical Christian parents because of Muslims? If they are insignificant, they are no threat.
The thing is that we would generate a precedence. Since we have to treat all of our citizens equal of course we would indeed open the door to madrassas because of a few insignificant people. Of course some evangelical eccentrics are no threat but they would open the way to a strange Muslim parallel society that we can not tolerate. Therefore there will be no homeschooling.
Since we disagree on whether an inviolable principle is involved (the parents' essential right to determine their own children's education, including evangelicals who want to instruct them at home), I see no resolution.
It might be that there is no resolution, but it is indeed interesting to learn about a different opinion that has its intellectual background.
:)
This is for sure true. If Americans refer to "God-given rights" they usually advert to the following term of their declaration of independence (which is a great document anyway): "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. The thing is, that "certain unalienable rights" are not clearly defined. Is the individual right of the kid on unfiltered and free information not as important as the right of the family to take influence? Therefore - is the right on unfiltered and free information not also a "unalienable right"?
Nevertheless to me this is irrelevant anyway. You should not forget that I am no American and the declaration of independence is nothing more to me than a interesting source of good history and philosophy. As a European I have a different understanding of freedom and rights since I was formed in and through a different culture of course. First of all we Europeans usually understand our state as a representation of ourselves. That means that we normally do not have to be protected from it, since most of us trust into our public authorities. Furthermore most contemporary Europeans see the rights of the individual as those that are the most important ones while rights of groups (i.e. the family) are far less important. The "Kindesinteresse" (interest of the kid) is absolutely in the foreground. If the "Kindesinteresse" is congruent with the interests of the family then we have no problem. But if the interests of the family are much different to what we define as the "Kindesinteresse" the state intervenes in the interest of the kid. This is what happens in the moment in Germany. The state saves the children from being manipulated through their parents who restrict their access on free information because of the parental religious beliefs. To give you a example: Not that long ago I had a harsh discussion with a friend of my wife who refused to open her kids the access to books with Darwinist background (the respective book showed the development of elephants). I am unable to understand that -even if someone is a creationist- it should be forbidden to take a look on it and to talk about it. Sooner or later her kids will get into contact with the teachings of Darwin and then they are going to come into real deep doubts if they understand that their mother suppressed some basic and crucial information. It is not funny to wake up in Disneyland. Therefore the right on information is completely unalienable to me. This is something "God-given" to most of us Europeans. Nevertheless information is one thing, the interpretation is something completely different. This is the point where the mother (in this case) is needed. She has not only the right but the duty to get her good belief across to her children but she has no reason to keep the kids completely uninformed. Such is contraproductive and against the basic "Kindesinteresse".
If the schools are teaching sex ed, including birth control, that is completely against Catholic teaching. I am greatly saddened if the Jesuits are cooperating with this.
The thing is that they teach it but they also conciliate the teaching with the Catholic philosophy of marital life. Marriage in Catholicism is a godly institution and a holy sacrament. Therefore sex outside the marriage is simply not allowed. My boys (I have 3 sons) have been taught that but they also know (according to their age) about the biological essentials. This is no antagonism. My kids simply get the full information. They also get the full information about the different theories about the Genesis together with my personal point of view in this question. Where is the problem? What they do with this intellectual basement in their personal lives is their very own decision. The thing is that they will have enough knowledge some day to reach their very own reasonable arbitration.
I wonder how many of the millions of Catholics would like to provide with a proper moral education Germany. If the country at large is okay with sex outside of marriage
The situation in Germany in this respect is not that different to the situation in the US. We have indeed the problem that large parts of our population lack a proper ethic background. The thing is that this was not triggered by schools or education but through female emancipation and the therewith connected decay of traditional family structures. You can believe me that high divorce rates and mothers who do not care for their children are a much bigger problem in our society than sexual education.
If you are willing to make a distinction between Muslims and Christians, why are you obliged to imprison evangelical Christian parents because of Muslims? If they are insignificant, they are no threat.
The thing is that we would generate a precedence. Since we have to treat all of our citizens equal of course we would indeed open the door to madrassas because of a few insignificant people. Of course some evangelical eccentrics are no threat but they would open the way to a strange Muslim parallel society that we can not tolerate. Therefore there will be no homeschooling.
Since we disagree on whether an inviolable principle is involved (the parents' essential right to determine their own children's education, including evangelicals who want to instruct them at home), I see no resolution.
It might be that there is no resolution, but it is indeed interesting to learn about a different opinion that has its intellectual background.
:)
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