Posted on 03/05/2008 3:07:30 PM PST by Bokababe
Family of Trolley Square gunman goes back to Bosnia
In grand immigrant tradition, Suljo and Sabira Talovic brought their children to Utah for a better life.
But it eluded them.
They tried to forget the savagery of ethnic civil war in the former Yugoslavia. They worked two and three back-breaking jobs to provide for their alienated teenage son and three little girls. They bought a house.
Then, just as the mundanity of the middle class was within their grasp, it slipped away in one brutal night at Trolley Square, when their son methodically gunned down five Valentine's Day shoppers before being shot by police.
Now a year later, the Talovic family has packed up and moved back to Bosnia.
"Suljo's life has changed. Everything has changed for the whole family," says brother-in-law Sadik Omerovic. Sabira was sick. Suljo was tired of the frenetic American pace. "He said he wants to try in Bosnia."
Since the 1995 Dayton Peace Accords, about 1 million Bosnian refugees have returned home. But Bosnia-Herzegovina is a country still intractably carved up by ethnic divisions. Serbs and Muslims alike have claimed others' homes in newly segregated towns. Infant and child mortality rates are double those in the United States, according to the World Bank. The average Bosnian made about $800 in December.
The Talovics' hometown was overrun by Serb paramilitary soldiers in 1993. Suljo fled with the village men into the mountains; Sabira and 4-year-old Sulejman evacuated to Srebrenica and then Tuzla. Their home was destroyed in the war. When the Talovics buried their son last year, just eight of the original 60 families were living in Talovici in the new Republika Srpska.
But still, that's better than here. Better than empathy and condolences from well-meaning Utahns. Better than constant reminders of helpless failure as a parent. Better than feeling like "community pariahs," as Suljo's boss put it in a Salt Lake Tribune op-ed last March.
"There are no words to describe how saddened I am," Suljo Talovic said at the funeral, "and how great the people of Salt Lake City are."
Despite those feelings about their adopted home, the family was tired of talking about their very public tragedy. Every turn in the investigation meant calls from the newspaper. As the anniversary descended, so did a pack of reporters, trying to cover the story from all angles.
When a Tribune reporter attempted to interview Sabira Talovic and Suljo's sister for coverage of the Trolley Square one-year anniversary, the women became irate and refused to talk.
Rather than stay in Salt Lake City - where their daughters have spent most of their lives, where counseling for traumatized families is commonplace, where menial labor pays better than some professional jobs in Bosnia, where a quiet Muslim family would not have to worry about its neighbors - the Talovics have gone back to their bullet-pocked homeland. Memories of war's indiscriminate violence are less painful than memories of a uniquely American moment of carnage: the shopping mall massacre.
So Talovic has bought property near Tuzla. The family will live with Sabira's brother until Suljo can finish building a house, Omerovic says. Eventually, when tensions subside, Suljo hopes to build a summer home and "grow potatoes" in Talovici. If that doesn't work out, the family could always return to Utah.
"When we came to America, we never said, 'Let's stay here forever'," Omerovic says.
A son's still inexplicable rampage simply hastened the end of his family's life in America.
The responses to the article on the website, were interesting -- especially the last few.
What a crock!
Gee. Everywhere they go, there's violence. Could it be that their religion has anything to do with it?
I have seen kitman and taqiyya in action many many times. Some of them who know me joke about it now that they know that I know.
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