Examining the rules of attraction

National Post ^ | Feb. 14, 2008 | by Zosia Bielski

[Larry Lucido]

Nope. Not attracted at all.

[Tax-chick]

Glad I could help. Mr. Cheney and Mr. Netanyahu, although they are Older Men, do not remind me of my father.

[Larry Lucido]

I’d definitely have a beer with him. Not sure I would take him hunting, though.

[Larry Lucido]

Is that the new Vibe-Pod?

[Tax-chick]

Jerry Doyle?

[yarddog]

Around 15 years ago, I worked at a resort which had a very large staff. There was a young girl working for the Summer who fascinated me. I have never seen a girl attract boys the way she did.

She was pretty, maybe even very pretty but I have seen plenty of pretty girls who did not have that ability. She also had a sexy figure but that is not that unusual.

She had a very sweet personality but that could not have been it because I noticed boys who didn't know her would come up to her and flirt with her.

I was discussing her with her supervisor, he had around 30 young people on his crew. He said he too had never seen anything like her. He said boys would come in, see her and go over and ask her out. She would politely decline.

I finally concluded it was her smile. She would really smile at everyone she met, boys and girls and she really did have a nice one.

[najida]

Well, that is something I do try hard to avoid!

This is my screen saver.

[A_perfect_lady]

I have been aware for some time that the men I am intensely attracted to always “remind me” of someone else. It can be purely their appearance and features, or after a while, their personality. Now that I’m onto myself, I can enjoy it more without telling myself it’s “fate” and all that nonsense.

Ah, yes. The "fate" thing can really entrap the brain. Don't I know it.

[Tax-chick]

Self-preservation is a good quality to have.

[Tax-chick]

Who dat?

[Fiddlstix]

........the tremendous variability in what people find sexually attractive in others.......

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[padre35]

“It is an experiment that has already proven positive in voles, which bond after the female’s brain is infused with oxytocin. As well, when researchers blocked the female vole’s oxytocin, “she can mate all night long for days and she will not bond with that male,”

Hmm sounds like my Ex fiancee, no matter what, no love connection...sort of....

[Pelham]

Now your talkin’...

[najida]

Gerard Butler....
Ohmy, jezcuddlygood!

[Tax-chick]

A little too muscly for my taste, but the beard is cool.

[najida]

Erm, I don't recognize him--- who is he?

OK, here is my OTHER screen saver.

(Mrs. Meloni is a very lucky woman).

[najida]

I know why I like muscles (healthy)....It’s more a robust healthy look. Not necessarily ripped, but healthy is a turn on.

[Tax-chick]

What pretty blue eyes!

Jerry Doyle is a former TV actor who is now a conservative talk-radio host. I think he looks just like Bruce Willis (at his best) but has a much better voice. When I see Bruce Willis in a movie, I always think, “Why is he talking in that flat voice, with no emphasis?”

[Tax-chick]

“Muscly” is a continuum. I go for the less “anatomy class” end ...

[Sue Perkick]

OK OK stop twistin' my arm :)