"That is why I must say "Kosovo to the Kosovars" if I want to be able to say "France to the French". "
So you endorse ethnic cleansing?
The judgement I cast on "ethnic cleansing" is therefore dependent on whom I deem to be the legitimate owners of the country.
Since the Kosovars had every right to live in Kosovo, and the Bosniaks in Bosnia, their forced expulsion was certainly criminal, and the attendant murders and plunder would have been in any case.