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'Open wide' takes a bite out of male bravado, dentists say
Chicago Sun-Times ^ | 2-25-2005 | JIM RITTER

Posted on 02/25/2005 11:58:30 AM PST by Cagey

Put a guy in a dental chair, and he turns into a wimp.

In a new survey of 171 Chicago area dentists, 49 percent said males are more anxious when it comes to dental appointments, while only 15 percent thought females were the scaredy-cats.

The survey is being released at the Chicago Dental Society's annual meeting at McCormick Place.

"The bigger they are, the more they fear," said Niles dentist Alice Boghosian, who recalled one man who came in with a broken tooth.

CHICAGO'S TOP SMILES Dentists chose the best smiles from a list of five local celebrities.

Oprah Winfrey: 49 percent Michael Jordan: 35 percent Joan Cusack: 10 percent Bill Kurtis: 4 percent Mayor Daley: 3 percent

"He looked like a big, blond, stapling Viking," Boghosian said. "But he acted like a mouse. He said, 'I'm really afraid of the dentist.' "

The guy was so nervous, he broke into a sweat, she said. "Every time I would touch him, he would jump."

'Wives make the appointments'

Westchester dentist Keith Suchy has found that when they're little, boys generally are no more afraid than girls. But as they get older, the fear gender gap widens. By the time patients hit their 40s, Suchy estimates, there are four dental-phobic men for every anxious woman.

One reason may be that men don't take care of their teeth as well as women do and therefore need more work. A 2003 American Dental Association survey found that women are more likely to brush their teeth after meals, while men are less likely to even have a dentist.

Chicago hygienist JoAnn Butters said some of her male patients go 10 years between dental visits.

"They won't come in, so their wives make the appointments," she said.

Chicago dentist Cheryl D. Watson-Lowry has a different theory. Men who are used to being in charge, such as cops and doctors, tend to feel vulnerable in the dental chair.

"They have a difficult time relinquishing control," she said.

Smile, mayor -- or not

To reassure them, Watson-Lowry promises to immediately stop whatever she's doing if the patient raises his hand or even lifts an eyebrow. But many men won't admit they're afraid, she said.

"They just won't show up."

In the survey, dentists also were asked to rate the smiles of some Chicago celebrities.

Mayor Daley, who hasn't had much to smile about lately, came in last.


TOPICS: Business/Economy; Culture/Society; US: Illinois
KEYWORDS: dentistry; healthcare; oralhealth

1 posted on 02/25/2005 11:58:31 AM PST by Cagey
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To: MotleyGirl70; Larry Lucido

Know any good dentist stories? Or, are you two anti-dentites?


2 posted on 02/25/2005 12:02:39 PM PST by Cagey
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To: Cagey
Y'oughtta see them wet themselves when I bring out the tools of the trade....

... and that novacaine costs extra. ;)

3 posted on 02/25/2005 12:12:06 PM PST by theDentist (The Dems are putting all their eggs in one basket-case: Howard "Belltower" Dean.)
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To: theDentist

LOL!

I see you do Periodontal work.


4 posted on 02/25/2005 12:17:40 PM PST by Cagey
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To: Cagey
"Put a guy in a dental chair, and he turns into a wimp."

Yep, that was me all over. I would not go in unless I was hurting bad. Not so much because of the pain, but I was ashamed to have a Dentist look how bad my teeth were and then give me a lecture. And I knew it would cost me a fortune to do anything more than just take care of my immediate pain.

My saving grace was meeting and then marrying a daughter of a dentist, and she just happen to also be his assistant. Now I have perfect teeth, a wonderful Wife who make sure I keep my appointments, and I must of saved me the amount of a small mortgage in Dentist bills.

And my Father In Law, the Dentist got a son-in-law that treats his daughter very good, after all he's the one with the drill.
5 posted on 02/25/2005 12:19:33 PM PST by NavyCanDo
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To: theDentist
SO YOU'RE MY OLD DENTIST !!! ;)

Tell me by chance if you were ever a captain working as a Navy Dentist.

6 posted on 02/25/2005 12:22:28 PM PST by Centurion2000 (Nations do not survive by setting examples for others. Nations survive by making examples of others)
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To: NavyCanDo
....after all he's the one with the drill.

Hahahaha! Great story.

7 posted on 02/25/2005 12:22:50 PM PST by Cagey
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To: Cagey
So what? Nobody's more masculine than I am--not bragging particularly, but that's the way it is. And nobody likes being a man more than I do.

I don't like pain. If I have to deal with it, I will, when the time comes. When I go to the dentist, I always say, "I'm not allergic to anything. Give me whatever it takes, but DON'T HURT ME!" My dentist knows me well. He's never hurt me. I've had three root canals. None hurt.

Once after relatively minor surgery, I had demerol. I hated it. I said I'd rather have the pain than take that.

It's just me. That's the way I am.

When my mother was 75 years old, she decided to rearrange some venetian blinds. She climbed on a table, fell, hit a table on the way down, hit the floor, and broke three ribs. She refused to take anything for pain other than asperin. She had a high pain threshold. That's her. It's not me.

8 posted on 02/25/2005 12:25:43 PM PST by Savage Beast (My parents, grandparents, and great grandparents were Democrats. My children are Republicans.)
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To: Savage Beast
She refused to take anything for pain other than asperin.

You nailed it. There is no doubt in my mind that women have a higher threshold for pain.

9 posted on 02/25/2005 12:29:12 PM PST by Cagey
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To: Cagey
By the time patients hit their 40s, Suchy estimates, there are four dental-phobic men for every anxious woman.

This doesn't surprise me all that much. From what I understand about gynecologic procedures, going to the dentist must not seem all that bad by comparison. Men, on the other hand, are not accustomed to allowing people to probe into their inner sanctum with steel implements.
10 posted on 02/25/2005 12:32:12 PM PST by fr_freak
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To: Cagey

In mine either. ~S


11 posted on 02/25/2005 12:34:43 PM PST by Savage Beast (My parents, grandparents, and great grandparents were Democrats. My children are Republicans.)
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To: fr_freak

Yes--and after childbirth, the pain of dental procedures just pales in comparison.

I used to be so scared of dental pain and dental visits; now that I'm a mother fillings/root canals don't bother me at all.


12 posted on 02/25/2005 12:38:25 PM PST by olivia3boys
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To: Centurion2000

No, I'm a hs dropout passing myself off as a dentist.


13 posted on 02/25/2005 1:00:22 PM PST by theDentist (The Dems are putting all their eggs in one basket-case: Howard "Belltower" Dean.)
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To: Cagey

Most guys have some problems holding their mouths open that long...most of the gals I went to school with wouldn't...

wink wink nudge nudge...


14 posted on 02/25/2005 1:32:11 PM PST by MD_Willington_1976
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To: Cagey

bttt


15 posted on 02/25/2005 1:36:02 PM PST by aberaussie
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To: MD_Willington_1976

Those girls you went to school with talked that much?


16 posted on 02/25/2005 1:47:18 PM PST by Cagey
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To: theDentist; Cagey
I love dentists. Nope, not an anti-dentite bone in my body. In fact, some of my best friends are dentists.

And they have newer magazines than de Sade.

17 posted on 02/25/2005 2:00:04 PM PST by Larry Lucido
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To: Larry Lucido
In fact, some of my best friends are dentists.

Not that there's anything wrong with it.

18 posted on 02/25/2005 2:03:57 PM PST by Cagey
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To: Cagey

among other things...


19 posted on 02/25/2005 4:26:40 PM PST by MD_Willington_1976
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