[cyborg]

Wonderful you are taking care of your mother-in-law. I'll be doing the same. I think many foreigners imagine Americans throwing their parents in nursing homes and forgetting about them.

[luckystarmom]

My parents have always planned to go into a nursing home. They don't want their kids to take care of them.

I also plan to go into a nursing home when I'm older. I don't want my kids to take care of me.

[Gunrunner2]

Mom in-law moving in with us next month. Father in-law passed in March and there never was a question of taking "mom" in.