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Why sex on the first date is a good idea: Relationship expert slams 'old fashioned' mentality and urges singles to get it on right away
UK Daily Mail ^ | January 18, 2023 | Louis Allingham

Posted on 01/18/2023 2:50:02 AM PST by C19fan

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To: ArtDodger; NorthMountain
No one cared at all if the men were virgins coming into the marriage.

So here's your problem. When there are people involved, that is either men or women. Those are the two default options.

You state that "no one cared at all if men were virgins coming into the marriage", which is manifestly a lie.

I have told you already that women do, so that means, by default your statement is not true. Period.

That makes it by default, nonsense and hogwash.

And while I am presuming you are a man from your position on the matter, that indeed makes you singularly unqualified to speak on behalf of fully half then human population about what they think on a matter.

On addition, North Mountain invalidated your claim as far as men are concerned because clearly HE cared about sexual purity as far as men are concerned.

I am telling you, as a woman, whom you cannot speak for, that yes, women care about sexual purity in their men and I cannot think of an single woman I know who would have have been thrilled to know that on her wedding night, her husband was the first and only woman he had been intimate with.

You flat out do not know what you are talking about, are not qualified to speak on behalf of women and what they want or think or prefer, and thus the assessment of your comments as being 'nonsense" and 'hogwash' are valid and accurate.

141 posted on 01/18/2023 1:48:55 PM PST by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith….)
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To: C19fan
Can you say "herpes?"

Date for at least long enough for cold sores to return.

-PJ

142 posted on 01/18/2023 1:51:23 PM PST by Political Junkie Too ( * LAAP = Left-wing Activist Agitprop Press (formerly known as the MSM))
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To: C19fan

The problem is if the girl wants to bang on the first date the thing i think is how many other guys did she bang so easily.

Not GF material..


143 posted on 01/18/2023 2:20:40 PM PST by mowowie
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To: Jolla

Glad to hear

In the meantime….

It’s not about submitting to me. Heck with me. Honor God. His law is good for us and sin is a big deal.


144 posted on 01/18/2023 3:48:18 PM PST by Persevero (You cannot comply your way out of tyranny. )
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To: C19fan

A little over 50 years ago I married a girl I met in high school.

We are still married.

I’m starting to suspect she may be The One.


145 posted on 01/18/2023 3:52:56 PM PST by gitmo (If your theology doesn't become your biography, what good is it?)
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To: C19fan

If I s-end the money to take my first date to Australia then she should provide services in kind. If it’s just a normal night out in the 🇺🇸 we can negotiate.


146 posted on 01/18/2023 4:01:43 PM PST by wgmalabama (Censored!)
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To: Jaysin

Sorry to hear that.

I agree w/ you that they were underappreciated.


147 posted on 01/18/2023 4:09:25 PM PST by sauropod (“If they don’t believe our lies, well, that’s just conspiracy theorist stuff, there.”)
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To: metmom; ArtDodger; NorthMountain
Try again for more clarity......

I am telling you, as a woman (whom you cannot speak for) that yes, women care about sexual purity in their men. I cannot think of an single woman I know who would not have been thrilled to know that on her wedding night, she was the first and only woman her husband had been intimate with.

148 posted on 01/18/2023 6:01:54 PM PST by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith….)
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To: metmom

Yep: nobody wants to marry a garden tool.


149 posted on 01/18/2023 6:22:19 PM PST by NorthMountain (... the right of the peopIe to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed)
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To: Adder

Only if she pays for dinner!
I am not that easy!


150 posted on 01/18/2023 10:42:50 PM PST by minnesota_bound (Need more money to buy everything now)
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To: DouglasKC

It’s the natural regression of people

Are you saying if people stop going to church they will become homos? That is a natural progression according to the Bible.


151 posted on 01/19/2023 5:39:41 AM PST by Jolla
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To: Greenpees
Once a male whore in the 80’s and at least early 90’s and later as the father of three girls.

Girl children are often a man's punishment for the way he behaved towards girls when he was younger.

152 posted on 01/19/2023 6:10:20 AM PST by JimRed (TERM LIMITS, NOW! Militia to the border! TRUTH is the new HATE SPEECH.)
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To: Jaysin

Very under appreciated. And that’s too bad about the sax man. Too young.


153 posted on 01/19/2023 7:55:31 AM PST by DesertRhino (Dogs are called man's best friend. Moslems hate dogs. Add it up..)
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To: 38special

I agree about the third date. The first date my wife and I went on actually went on all day long. She came over about 11 in the morning, and we went off to some local ruins. Got back about five and went to dinner, and then we hung out till about 10 o’clock talking. Date went really well. I told her that a standard date was four hours long, pick up at six, drop off at 10. And therefore, technically we were on our third, four hour date. They look was priceless. She said each date has to be in a separate calendar date, and that three dates is not actually a rule. …it might even be longer.

She still shakes her head at the creativity.


154 posted on 01/19/2023 8:24:12 AM PST by DesertRhino (Dogs are called man's best friend. Moslems hate dogs. Add it up..)
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To: C19fan

Unreal. Empower yourself by devaluing yourself.


155 posted on 01/22/2023 10:50:09 AM PST by KC_Conspirator
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To: T.B. Yoits

Thats correct. This joke of a woman is trying to rationalize and validate her own sluttiness and bad choices. IF a woman is seeking marraige, children, or happy long term relationships, then stay away from this fools advice.


156 posted on 01/22/2023 10:57:04 AM PST by KC_Conspirator
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To: sten
Roasties, just like at Arby's.

And dont by the feminist lie that you cant get blown out. There is a reason why kegels and vaginal rejuvenation is a thing.

157 posted on 01/22/2023 10:59:19 AM PST by KC_Conspirator
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To: 2nd Amendment

Something about the New Testament Greek word for adultery actually meaning ANY sex outside of marriage, and all that.


158 posted on 01/22/2023 11:02:16 AM PST by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (FBI out of Florida!)
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