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My New Vagina Won’t Make Me Happy
New York Times ^ | November 24, 2018 | Andrea Long Chu

Posted on 11/24/2018 4:56:51 PM PST by EdnaMode

Next Thursday, I will get a vagina. The procedure will last around six hours, and I will be in recovery for at least three months. Until the day I die, my body will regard the vagina as a wound; as a result, it will require regular, painful attention to maintain. This is what I want, but there is no guarantee it will make me happier. In fact, I don’t expect it to. That shouldn’t disqualify me from getting it.

I like to say that being trans is the second-worst thing that ever happened to me. (The worst was being born a boy.) Dysphoria is notoriously difficult to describe to those who haven’t experienced it, like a flavor. Its official definition — the distress some transgender people feel at the incongruence between the gender they express and the gender they’ve been socially assigned — does little justice to the feeling.

But in my experience, at least: Dysphoria feels like being unable to get warm, no matter how many layers you put on. It feels like hunger without appetite. It feels like getting on an airplane to fly home, only to realize mid-flight that this is it: You’re going to spend the rest of your life on an airplane. It feels like grieving. It feels like having nothing to grieve.

Many conservatives call this crazy. A popular right-wing narrative holds that gender dysphoria is a clinical delusion; hence, feeding that delusion with hormones and surgeries constitutes a violation of medical ethics. Just ask the Heritage Foundation fellow Ryan T. Anderson, whose book “When Harry Became Sally” draws heavily on the work of Dr. Paul McHugh, the psychiatrist who shut down the gender identity clinic at Johns Hopkins in 1979 on the grounds that trans-affirmative care meant “cooperating with a mental illness.”

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Sadly this seems to be quite common. A large percentage of transgender people are still unhappy even after surgery.
1 posted on 11/24/2018 4:56:51 PM PST by EdnaMode
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To: EdnaMode

“Next Thursday, I will get a vagina.

...

Until the day I die, my body will regard the vagina as a wound”

Your body is transphobic, obviously.


2 posted on 11/24/2018 5:00:10 PM PST by VanDeKoik
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To: EdnaMode

To paraphrase Woody of Toy Story.

YOU
ARE
A
MAN

You have a penis which probably perfectly healthy and functional. I get it - you feel feminine. I feel rich too - it doesn’t mean we get what we fantasize about.


3 posted on 11/24/2018 5:00:35 PM PST by Skywise
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To: EdnaMode

NY Slimes pandering to mental illness.... what a surprise.


4 posted on 11/24/2018 5:00:55 PM PST by Trump_the_Evil_Left (FReeper formerly known as Enchante (registered Sept. 5, 2001), back from the wild....)
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To: EdnaMode
A large percentage of transgender people are still unhappy even after surgery.

Tough sh!t.
Play psychotic games, win psychotic prizes.

5 posted on 11/24/2018 5:00:57 PM PST by tomkat
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To: EdnaMode
Typical Trans says: "I'm mentally ill -- and, while I don't think that having my genitals surgically mutilated will make me happy, I want to do it anyway ... is that OK?"

Typical Liberal: "You go girl!"

6 posted on 11/24/2018 5:01:02 PM PST by ClearCase_guy (If White Privilege is real, why did Elizabeth Warren lie about being an Indian?)
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To: EdnaMode

My brother was a boy trapped in a woman’s body, too.

Then, he was born.

It comes down to chromosomes: XX or XY. Ain’t no operation will change that. This guy does have a mental illness.


7 posted on 11/24/2018 5:01:03 PM PST by Jemian (War Eagle! Always, War Eagle!)
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To: EdnaMode

I would like to slap this guy and his doctor. There are lots of others I woul like to slap as well, like the New York Times editorial board. And any one else there that thought this was a good story. Then i would like to slap anyone who told this person he could not be happy with who he is. There is no such thing has fixing your sex. Its just doctors playing around at your expense.


8 posted on 11/24/2018 5:02:47 PM PST by poinq
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To: EdnaMode

Will there be a follow up article after the inevitable suicide?


9 posted on 11/24/2018 5:02:56 PM PST by Salman (Democrats. The other religion of peace.)
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To: EdnaMode

This guy is crazy as hell and pretty much admits it. In fact, he says he wasn’t suicidal til he started taking hormones, and now he is. It is medical malpractice to give him these drugs. Period. End of story. He needs to be in an asylum, and his physicians need to be in jail. For good.


10 posted on 11/24/2018 5:03:17 PM PST by madprof98
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To: EdnaMode

All to collect disability.

Wife works in the mental healthcare field. The first thing these mental people will say to get their way is “I am disabled.”


11 posted on 11/24/2018 5:05:04 PM PST by crz
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To: EdnaMode
the gender they’ve been socially assigned

Society didn't give you the appendage you're about to have removed. Society may have had something to do with your delusions, but it didn't give you a tallywhacker.
12 posted on 11/24/2018 5:06:05 PM PST by LostInBayport (When there are more people riding in the cart than there are pulling it, the cart stops moving...)
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To: EdnaMode

If you have one, you’re a male, if you don’t, you are a female, pretty straight forward in my book.


13 posted on 11/24/2018 5:06:47 PM PST by wjcsux (The hyperventilating of the left means we are winning! (Tagline courtesy of Laz.))
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To: EdnaMode

The mentally ill now rule over us.


14 posted on 11/24/2018 5:07:42 PM PST by E. Pluribus Unum (Democracy dies when Democrats refuse to accept the result of a democratic election they didn't win.)
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To: EdnaMode

The surgeon’s knife can’t cut chromosomes.


15 posted on 11/24/2018 5:08:05 PM PST by lurk
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To: EdnaMode

FUBAR...big time!


16 posted on 11/24/2018 5:09:13 PM PST by antidemoncrat
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To: EdnaMode

17 posted on 11/24/2018 5:10:00 PM PST by McGruff
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To: Trump_the_Evil_Left

NY Slimes pandering to mental illness.... what a surprise.


They don’t want people to be happy, well adjusted or productive. They want these people to be basket cases. Then they will vote for whoever will take care of them and cater to their psychosis. Guess which party?

In a way, this is all enabled by Technology. Back in the day, someone who had these funny ideas would be put in an asylum or left to starve. Given those choices, people got their act together or died. No longer.


18 posted on 11/24/2018 5:10:12 PM PST by rbg81 (Truth is stranger than fiction)
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To: EdnaMode

You can’t fix a mental delusion by pandering to it...

Folks involved in doing this are engaging in malpractice and abuse


19 posted on 11/24/2018 5:10:51 PM PST by HamiltonJay
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To: poinq

Oh the quack is right there with it. He is collecting the medicaid payments for the operation. Big money in that.

I see that in medicare payments gong to my own doctor. 169 bucks for 10 minutes? Really? I can see 60, maybe 70 bucks, but 169? Just to re-up my medications?

Its like the furniture adds saying that they have sales for furniture at 60 to 70% off. What they dont tell you is that they mark that crap up 100 plus per cent in the first place.

Got medicare? GOOD! Lets make the bill 169 bucks instead of 70. They collect 80% of 169 from medicare and the rest from the coverage insurance after the deductable.


20 posted on 11/24/2018 5:11:26 PM PST by crz
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