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"Every conservative I have met has been a bully. Who are some nice conservatives you have met?"
Quora.com ^ | March 14, 2018 | Matt Salter

Posted on 09/29/2018 5:11:42 AM PDT by daniel1212

I’m a hardcore lefty. I also live in Texas and have spent most of my career working for nonprofits. That means a lot of red-state right winging. Not the nice, necktie, Laffer-curve, “fiscal conservative, social liberal” guys either. Nice conservatives don’t run charities. They’re comfy where they are. You want to do good in Texas, you need full-on deplorables. You need the churches, the phone trees, the mailing lists. They’re the boots, or at least the sensible shoes, on the ground, knocking on doors and passing out leaflets and stacking donations til 4 in the morning.

Let’s be clear. Philosophically, these people were opposed to my… everything. Hellbound from the haircut down. Tabletop gaming! I had friends at one workplace who loved and collected board games. Me too! Chat went swimmingly until I showed them the dice my beloved sister gave me for Christmas and they told me D&D is a tool of Devil worship. Chilled the conversation somewhat.

But I’m a dope-ass grantwriter, so they put up with me. That by itself is a shot in the gut to “conservatives are bullies.” I spent years in evangelical conservative settings and was never treated poorly, beyond the usual office nonsense. It’s tempting to say “well, you were making them money,” but I wasn’t. They didn’t get to keep the money I made. The money I made went to strangers in desperate straits, people of different faiths, backgrounds, colors than the evangelicals I worked with. Those evangelicals a) put in 80 hour weeks to help them; b) put up with a walking billboard for every value they didn’t have because he could contribute.

Then I lost my job unexpectedly. That comes up in nonprofit work, alas. Budget’s always a shoestring. Still, it sucked. Last day, I was packing up and the woman next to me asked if I was leaving. I said yes. She asked if she could pray for me. I said sure. Do what you like on your own time, right?

Then she took hold of my hands.

Friends, I was not expecting that. I came up Catholic. I am now a Christian pantheist. Laying on of hands? Not a thing in any of that. At all.

And she prayed. No smug. No pity. Not a word of condemnation. Tears in her eyes, because she was worried about me. Praying, because that’s what she could do in that situation. She believed, so she stood with me and tried her best to help.

I’ve never forgotten that. Don’t think I ever will. My beliefs weren’t hers. My faith certainly isn’t hers. There is every reason to suspect I will live out my span and die without ever experiencing another laying on of hands. But this person used the most powerful tool available to her to be profoundly kind to me, at a time when I really, really needed it.

That’s not the act of a bully.

So there’s that.


TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Education; Miscellaneous; Religion
KEYWORDS: deplorables; flyover; liberals; quora
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I did not write this, but amid the liberals and atheists and often vulgar language, Quora has some good answers, including on the Kavanaugh accusations.
1 posted on 09/29/2018 5:11:42 AM PDT by daniel1212
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To: daniel1212

“D&D is a tool of Devil worship”

Isn’t it?


2 posted on 09/29/2018 5:13:43 AM PDT by BenLurkin (The above is not a statement of fact. It is either satire or opinion. Or both.)
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To: daniel1212

Every lefty I have ever met is a tyrant.

They believe everyone must agree with them or be destroyed.


3 posted on 09/29/2018 5:14:20 AM PDT by 2banana (My common ground with terrorists - they want to die for islam and we want to kill them)
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“I am now a Christian pantheist.”

Makes. No. Sense.


4 posted on 09/29/2018 5:17:28 AM PDT by BenLurkin (The above is not a statement of fact. It is either satire or opinion. Or both.)
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To: daniel1212
Hey, Matt...


5 posted on 09/29/2018 5:17:56 AM PDT by TADSLOS (I hate Russian Dolls. They are so full of themselves.)
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To: BenLurkin; redleghunter; Springfield Reformer; kinsman redeemer; BlueDragon; metmom; boatbums; ...

Indeed, but the writer is not a believer.


6 posted on 09/29/2018 5:18:40 AM PDT by daniel1212 (Trust the risen Lord Jesus to save you as a damned and destitute sinner + be baptized + follow Him)
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To: daniel1212

To the devout snowflake, a ray of sunshine is a “bully”.


7 posted on 09/29/2018 5:18:46 AM PDT by FrankR (You gotta stand for something, or you'll fall for anything!)
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To: daniel1212

That’s just weird. Shaking head and frowning strange.


8 posted on 09/29/2018 5:19:02 AM PDT by bgill (CDC site, "We don't know how people are infected with Ebola.")
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To: daniel1212

They’ve met plenty of nice conservatives.

Many of us go about our lives without going on about politics, so they just dont know. That is until it becomes known, then THEY are the ones that turn into bullies.


9 posted on 09/29/2018 5:20:17 AM PDT by VanDeKoik
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“I am now a Christian pantheist.” Makes. No. Sense.

The two are incompatible, but again, the man is nor a believe, but is giving a testimony contrary to the "clinging to guns and religion bitter deplorables," that liberals typically characterize conservatives as.

10 posted on 09/29/2018 5:24:54 AM PDT by daniel1212 (Trust the risen Lord Jesus to save you as a damned and destitute sinner + be baptized + follow Him)
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To: VanDeKoik

Exactly. I keep politics and religion out of any casual conversation unless I’m with like minded friends or those who disagree with me but have the intelligence to have a respectful discussion. The die hard leftists are indeed the true bullies when their views are challenged.


11 posted on 09/29/2018 5:32:57 AM PDT by ExpatCanuck (The)
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To: 2banana

Every lefty I have ever met is a tyrant.

They believe everyone must agree with them or be destroyed.>>>>>>>>>>>>>

They either give that up or we will soon again be watering the roots of the Liberty Tree.


12 posted on 09/29/2018 5:37:42 AM PDT by Candor7 ((Obama Fascism)http://www.americanthinker.com/articles/2009/05/barack_obama_the_quintessentia_1.html)
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To: daniel1212

Beautiful, thank you for posting.


13 posted on 09/29/2018 5:38:23 AM PDT by Katya
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To: 2banana

I have a lefty and a righty as parents... they both exhibit the exact same stereotypes about the other side.


14 posted on 09/29/2018 5:39:17 AM PDT by Katya
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To: daniel1212

I’ve met many lefties like this. To them you are a bully if you do not agree with them, while they’re screaming in your face about how wrong you are.


15 posted on 09/29/2018 5:44:50 AM PDT by jeffc (The U.S. media are our enemy)
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To: daniel1212

Dear liberal bully. A let me say 2 thing after your verbal attack. 1 I am a conservative. 2. Every liberal I’ve met is a fascist.


16 posted on 09/29/2018 5:47:52 AM PDT by Retvet (Retvet)
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To: daniel1212

Mat Dear

You are not safe if you leave your home at night


17 posted on 09/29/2018 5:48:52 AM PDT by bert ((KE. N.P. N.C. +12) Muller..... conspiracy to over throw the government)
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To: daniel1212

Yes, of course, Quora, the place I got to for legitimate and stupid sh*t......


18 posted on 09/29/2018 5:50:26 AM PDT by cranked
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To: cranked

The loony LIB wrote wrote this tripe experiences everyone who disagrees with them as a “bully”. I guess reality is a bully then. This individual is a pathetic piece of work.


19 posted on 09/29/2018 5:55:51 AM PDT by hal ogen (First Amendment or Reeducation Camp?)
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To: daniel1212

Check out your local church food pantry, leftie.


20 posted on 09/29/2018 5:56:10 AM PDT by Fido969 (In!)
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