Posted on 12/18/2017 11:53:25 PM PST by Oshkalaboomboom
Edited on 12/19/2017 6:23:54 AM PST by Sidebar Moderator. [history]
An Oregon teacher has been accused of having a sexual relationship with a student.
Andrea Baber, 29, was arrested at her Cottage Grove home on Friday just days after she and the teenager were reportedlt caught in bed by her husband on December 5, reported The News-Review.
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I don't normally bother posting stories like this but in this age of #MeToo it's worth noting that there is a big problem with female sexual predators in the schools who take advantage of their students and usually end up with little to no significant punishment for it. If the people behind #MeToo were serious in making changes they would push for penalties just as harsh for female sexual predators as they would for male ones.
Eeeewwwwwwww.....she’d really have to be pervert to seduce a boy! And she’s married! Sick sick sick.
Feel for this guy that lost his wife to a teen, and is now outed as a loser that couldn't keep his wife satisfied.
“Eeeewwwwwwww.....shed really have to be pervert to seduce a boy! And shes married! Sick sick sick.”
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I agree this is wrong, but I suspect the 15 year old doesn’t think of himself as a victim - unless hormone-raging teenage boys have changed since my day.
Good timing on the husband’s part. It gives him an advantage in divorce court.
You've identified the problem. Female statutory rape is considered to be a fantasy come true. If you had a daughter would you make the same kind of statement as you made about wanting a female teacher to have sex with you? "Gee, Mr. Jones was really fit, too bad he never nailed my daughter."
>> just days after she and the teenager were reportedlt caught in bed by her husband
“Accused” < /sarc >
It’s like the Travis Smiley allegations. Larry Elder was not friends with Travis and did not agree with him politically but said that he’d never heard rumors in the 20 years he’d known him (he did hear rumors about Harvey Weinstein). He played some tapes of Travis acknowledging workplace affairs but insisted that they were consensual and didn’t affect their promotions (or lack thereof). And only those who were positively receptive to his advances were approached???
As if she has only offended with one boy. Pure as the driven snow and only led astray one time. Get real. Teachers like these are more likely to be serial predators offending with new classes every year or two.
He hasn’t seen enough of the world to understand that a woman wants him to be her child AND her sex partner, and that he can be her sex partner if he let’s her control his life and punish him like a child to keep him in line. That’s why she swapped her husband out - doesn’t want an adult in her life.
The boy hasn’t realized that girls all over the school are hearing about this and their families are not going to want him to hang out with their family members. That rep will follow him as will the court cases and arguments by prosecutors and psychologists. He hasn’t untangled the sexual urge from the user who’s willing to use him now but will most likely tire of him when he tries to assert himself as a grown man (too old to be controlled).
He doesn’t know the path he missed having a normal childhood with instructors who weren’t sick and cheating on their husbands with him. As he starts to figure this out, he either has to admit his natural urges were exploited by a user who was sick (makes him feel weak/helpless) or he has to go all in and say this sicko is what he wants, he loves her etc. thereby trying to rope himself to someone sick. He’s too young to know he should recoil from adults who prey on kids - he may think he’s lucky for now.
And the 15 year old girls who run away to be with their online suitors? Is it “ok” if they don’t see themselves as victims either?
Age of consent means old enough to consent (or not to).
Oh my God, it’s Carrie’s mom!!!!!!!!!
And the 15 year old girls who run away to be with their online suitors? Is it ok if they dont see themselves as victims either?
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I think you’re mixing up apples and oranges there. As I said, unless things have changed a whole lot - it’s the teen boys who are just grateful to have a sexual outlet, so they don’t have as much emotional baggage invested in such things.
But if a teen boy feels he have been taken advantage of and been abused, heshould certainly seek outside help from LE and whomever else to remedy his situation.
Girls have the emotional baggage (and the physical consequence of pregnancy) to carry around. Also, they usually are “talked into it”, whereas boys are more likely to try to talk a female into it.
It’s just a matter of understanding that guys & gals minds, emotions and physical makeup are different. If you disagree with that we are at an impasse on this.
You can note there are individual exception to this, but such exception would prove the rule.
When those online suitors get caught the usually end up serving long prison sentences, unlike the lady who was spared for being too pretty to go to jail
Simple answer, though imperfect, is that guys can’t get pregnant.
“Oh my God, its Carries mom!!!!!!!!!”
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Heh.
:D
Well?
Though, what is especially troubling in this instance is the school; it’s a Christian one that seems to subscribe to family values and serious faith -
http://logoschristianacademy.com/about-us/faith-and-values
In government schools nothing surprises me - but parents shouldn’t have to worry about teachers trying to make the horizontal pretzel with students at a private, Christian school. I wonder how the school they checked her out.
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