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Where’s Melania Trump? First Lady Raises Questions After Making No Appearances Since Inauguration
World Breaking News ^ | jan 31 2017

Posted on 01/31/2017 2:14:56 PM PST by drewh

Melania Trump has finished her first week as first lady — a title that automatically makes her one of the most prominent women in the country. And yet she was barely visible. She cut an elegant figure at her husband’s swearing-in and at the inaugural balls. But two days later, she returned to New York, as she had said she would, to tend to her 10-year-old son, Barron, who remains in school there.

Meanwhile, she has given little indication of how much she intends to embrace the life of a public figure. She is said to be building her staff. But she has made no public appearances since a prayer service the morning after the inauguration, given no media interviews as first lady and has not indicated with any specificity what she has planned for her new role.

“There’s a public expectation for communication, and she’s not providing it,” said Lauren Wright, a political scientist and author of “On Behalf of the President.”

“It’s interesting that there doesn’t seem to be a willingness to shape her public image, despite the public interest.” By any measure, Melania Trump’s East Wing has gotten off to an unusually slow start. Last week came word that the first lady had made her first hire: Stephanie Winston Wolkoff, a New York party planner, who will serve as a senior adviser, according to a person with knowledge of the appointment.

Still, several key positions on her staff have not yet been filled, including chief of staff, communications director and press secretary. That last job is so essential that a volunteer has stepped in to field calls. The volunteer, Jessica Boulanger, is a former Capitol Hill staffer who is now the senior vice president for communications at the Business Roundtable.

Most striking, the Trump team has not yet named a social secretary, a position responsible for planning all White House events. Most previous administrations filled the job before Inauguration Day.

Amid the silence, some members of the public are rushing to assumptions.

Internet wits spent days dissecting the first lady’s facial expressions and body language during the inauguration, painting several interactions with her husband as fraught — a moment when he left Melania several paces behind him as he met the Obamas on the White House steps, and another when she appeared to frown behind his back. The Twitter hashtag #FreeMelania caught fire.

But all seemed well on the couple’s official social-media accounts. Although occasionally reactive to jibes, neither responded to the Twitter conjecture, which came amid a fire hose of larger administration controversies. President Trump’s @POTUS account tweeted a thank you to his family, with photo of his wife smiling. Melania, who has not tweeted from her personal account since Election Day, has sent only one message from her new @FLOTUS account, saying that she is “deeply honoured” to serve as first lady.

She entered the White House with the lowest favorability ratings of any modern first lady. Only 37 percent of the public had a favourable view of her in a Gallup poll released Jan. 16, while the same percentage gave her an unfavourable rating. Michelle Obama, Laura Bush and Hillary Clinton each had a favourability rating above 55 percent when she became first lady.

Americans are accustomed to seeing the first family together, said Myra Gutin, a communication professor at Rider University and author of “The President’s Partner.” And the Slovenia-born former model’s decision to live in New York for now may be compounding any negative perceptions of her. (She has said she intends to return to Washington on weekends to see President Trump.)

“She could be giving the administration a little bit of a softer touch, because we do make certain decisions about a president based on his family,” Gutin said. “Ivanka and her family are there, but with Mrs. Trump and Mr. Trump’s younger son, it would be a different kind of feeling.”

Melania Trump’s quiet first week may signal that she is reluctantly grappling with how to embrace the increased scrutiny. Or she could simply be taking her time to determine how she will make an impact.

“Each first lady takes on the role and makes it their own. That evolves over time,” said former White House social secretary Ann Stock. “First [priority] for every president and first lady is settling in their family.”

Michael D’Antonio, a Donald Trump biographer, said Melania “seemed eager to preserve her privacy” when he met her.

“Her husband playfully begged her to tell me he was a great husband and she complied. However, she fled the room as soon as possible,” D’Antonio recalled. “I expect her to be gracious when acting as first lady, but I would not be surprised if she limits herself to a minimal engagement with the role.”

Does it matter that she’s taking her time with the job? One former White House official noted that staffers who arrive after an administration’s early days can have a hard time finding traction within the larger organisation — assuming, of course, that Melania Trump cares about wielding influence in that space.

The job is more than ceremonial: Federal courts have ruled that the first lady is a de facto public official, and Congress has authorised staffing to support her assistance to the president, said MaryAnne Borrelli, a professor of government at Connecticut College and author of “The Politics of the President’s Wife.”

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Meanwhile, there are 228 years of tradition surrounding the role, and Melania Trump will be measured against the women who came before her — whether or not she chooses to play along.

Michelle Obama, whom Melania Trump has said she admires, was also a reluctant first lady. She, too, worried about raising her children in the spotlight. But from the beginning, she positioned herself as a vital part of her husband’s administration. While billing herself as “mom-in-chief,” Michelle Obama nonetheless had a team building her agenda when she entered the White House; in her second week, she began a tour of federal agencies, thanking the employees for their work.

Other first ladies, though, have waited months before rolling out their agendas. Melania Trump has so far cited one issue she hopes to champion — cyberbullying, which is said to affect about a quarter of adolescents. Experts in the field say they have not yet heard from the first lady but are eager to collaborate.

“Everyone is kind of looking around, saying, ‘Who is she going to turn to?’ ” said Justin W. Patchin, a co-director of the Cyberbullying Research Centre. “She is a very public figure. At the very least, she can bring this issue to further light.”

Jane Hampton Cook, a novelist and author of popular histories about the White House, said Melania Trump’s reserve could heighten interest in her when she does surface. She recalled a short speech the future first lady gave in Pennsylvania near the end of the campaign, in which she vowed to “be an advocate for women and for children.”

“I found myself listening to her more because I hadn’t heard from her for a while,” Cook said. “Sometimes less is more, and she represents that side of the equation. Her husband is more, more, more.”


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1 posted on 01/31/2017 2:14:56 PM PST by drewh
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To: drewh

From the way she’s been treated I’d stay out of the limelight too. Why give the Scum Press anything to work with.


2 posted on 01/31/2017 2:16:56 PM PST by ImJustAnotherOkie
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To: drewh

She’s probably being a mother and taking care of her son.

I know that’s pretty shocking to the media in this country, but some women have that as their priority.


3 posted on 01/31/2017 2:17:31 PM PST by markomalley (Nothing emboldens the wicked so greatly as the lack of courage on the part of the good -- Leo XIII)
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To: drewh
PLEASE LET THIS THREAD DIE

STUPID QUESTION

SHE'S IN NEW YORK

WHERE SHE SAID SHE WOULD BE

STUPID, STUPID QUESTION

PLEASE LET THIS THREAD DIE

4 posted on 01/31/2017 2:17:36 PM PST by knarf
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To: drewh
Or she could simply be taking her time to determine how she will make an impact.

Maybe she doesn't want to make an impact. Maybe she just wants to raise her son.

5 posted on 01/31/2017 2:17:43 PM PST by Not A Snowbird (SandyInPeoria just doesn't sound right... yet here I am.)
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To: drewh

I am sure Melania is undergoing intense twerking lessons before her next public appearance.........


6 posted on 01/31/2017 2:17:54 PM PST by Toespi
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To: drewh

THIS IS FAKE NEWS.


7 posted on 01/31/2017 2:18:21 PM PST by conservative98
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To: drewh

At home taking care of the kids and not being a loudmouth stupid pain in the ass like too many American women are.


8 posted on 01/31/2017 2:18:21 PM PST by Rome2000 (SMASH THE CPUSA-SIC SEMPER TYRANNIS-CLOSE ALL MOSQUES)
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To: drewh

She’s learning her sixth language!


9 posted on 01/31/2017 2:18:41 PM PST by Dr. Ursus
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To: SandyInSeattle

“Maybe she doesn’t want to make an impact. Maybe she just wants to raise her son. “

I think this is spot on.


10 posted on 01/31/2017 2:18:45 PM PST by ConsCA
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To: drewh

She is the First Lady and she can do whatever she pleases....

This idiot that is writing this piece seems to think that the First Lady has to appear at the snap of someone’s fingers, WRONG!!! She can do, go, stop, eat, sleep, walk, talk, wherever, whenever, however with whomever when she wants to!!!


11 posted on 01/31/2017 2:19:09 PM PST by HarleyLady27 ('THE FORCE AWAKENS!!!' Trump/Pence: MAKE AMERICA GREAT AGAIN!!!)
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To: drewh

Maybe she is not an attention whore like that fat assed Wookie that just left.


12 posted on 01/31/2017 2:21:53 PM PST by Hyman Roth
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To: HarleyLady27

cry baby media will attack anyone even Barron if they don’t get their way, just wait till POTUS cancels the climate change accords!


13 posted on 01/31/2017 2:22:10 PM PST by drewh ( >)
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To: drewh

#LEAVEMELANIAALONE


14 posted on 01/31/2017 2:22:16 PM PST by ichabod1 (The Wise Cracker)
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To: knarf

15 posted on 01/31/2017 2:22:50 PM PST by granite (The heart of the wise inclines to the right, but the heart of the fool to the left - Ecc 10:2)
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To: drewh

They asked and answered their own stupid question in the first paragraph. Melania is raising her son. Are they aware that our First Lady has been a completely hands on mother to Barron? Despite their wealth, Melania has refused nannies and cared for her son herself.

Not long ago there were candid photos of her caught taking Barron to school. No make up, still stunning, taking her son to school just like any other mom.

I don’t expect we’ll see Melania taking high profile multi million dollar vacations at our expense any time soon.


16 posted on 01/31/2017 2:24:10 PM PST by jazminerose (Adorable Deplorable)
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To: markomalley
She’s probably being a mother and taking care of her son.

That's what she and the President said she would do and that the Mainstream press does not respect; attacking their 10 year old son. The Mainstream Press are Monsters they are trying to protect their son from.

Obama's and Clinton's children were off limits;why is Baron attacked and his daughter vilely as well?

17 posted on 01/31/2017 2:26:22 PM PST by CptnObvious
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To: granite

Photon torpedo?

5.56mm


18 posted on 01/31/2017 2:29:12 PM PST by M Kehoe
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To: drewh

“Where’s Melania Trump?”

None of our business, that’s where. We elected her husband, not her.

Next liberal outrage in three....two....one....


19 posted on 01/31/2017 2:29:48 PM PST by MeganC (Thank you, President Trump!)
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To: drewh
Where is she? She's a mom. She's taking care of her son.

How dumb can these people get?

20 posted on 01/31/2017 2:30:09 PM PST by backwoods-engineer (Trump won; I celebrated; I'm good. Let's get on with the civil war now.)
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