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Mother of gender non-conforming teenager says son was devastated when DMV banned make up
dailymail.co.uk ^ | June 16, 2014 | JESSICA JERREAT

Posted on 06/17/2014 5:08:13 AM PDT by ilovesarah2012

A gender non-conforming teenager from South Carolina is demanding to have a driver's license retaken after DMV staff barred him from wearing make up. Chase Culpepper claims DMV staff said the make up should be removed because the teenager didn't look like how a boy should. The 16-year-old, who wears androgynous clothing and make up, agreed to the staff's demands to get a license, but now wants to have the photo redone.

Chase says staff claimed that DMV rules stated that the photo needed to show the person as they appear normally, and banned pictures taken in 'disguise'. 'This is who I am and my clothing and make-up reflect that,' Chase said. 'The Department of Motor Vehicles should not have forced me to remove my make-up simply because my appearance does not meet their expectations of what a boy should look like.'

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'They said he was wearing a disguise': Mother of gender non-conforming teenager says son was devastated when DMV banned make up for driver's license photo

1 posted on 06/17/2014 5:08:13 AM PDT by ilovesarah2012
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To: ilovesarah2012

Kinda makes the photo id moot if you’re wearing makeup that makes you look totally different.


2 posted on 06/17/2014 5:10:52 AM PDT by Sacajaweau
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To: ilovesarah2012

“gender non-conforming”

I can’t keep up with the descriptors!


3 posted on 06/17/2014 5:11:33 AM PDT by Ouchthatonehurt ("When you're going through hell, keep going." - Sir Winston Churchill)
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To: ilovesarah2012

Sorry...he took the make-up off. He should have objected then.


4 posted on 06/17/2014 5:11:45 AM PDT by Sacajaweau
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To: ilovesarah2012

Chase the He/She will end up on Jerry Springer’s show prancing around the stage like a slut after having revealed to some guy He/She had fooled into some sort of sex when he was drunk.


5 posted on 06/17/2014 5:12:01 AM PDT by Gaffer
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To: ilovesarah2012

This sort of thing has long since passed ridiculous and has boldly gone where no man (or... whatever) has gone before.


6 posted on 06/17/2014 5:12:15 AM PDT by Jack Hammer
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To: Ouchthatonehurt

aka “jerk” aka “smart a**” aka “trouble maker” aka “future Dem”


7 posted on 06/17/2014 5:13:01 AM PDT by Sacajaweau
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To: Ouchthatonehurt

I think it means a mentally ill child who is being abused by his parents ... abuse in this case consisting of them pandering to his insanity instead of seeking to cure it.
Such abuse has probably been going on for many years.


8 posted on 06/17/2014 5:13:17 AM PDT by NorthMountain
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To: Sacajaweau

Most won’t allow you to wear a ball cap, even if you wear it when you drive. We are raising a nation of over sensitive, over reacting ninnies! Shame on us!


9 posted on 06/17/2014 5:14:00 AM PDT by defconw (LUTFA!)
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... "gender non-comforming" ....

Just wow. How sad. Imagine the complete denial and rejection of God the Creator in this gobbledygook phrase.

10 posted on 06/17/2014 5:15:00 AM PDT by Servant of the Cross (the Truth will set you free)
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Talk about enabling mommies. She must feel very guilty about something.

I’m a mom so I understand how it can happen. Children need structure, and there is no doubt that fathers are necessary. Even an abusive father is better than no father.

That type of enabling by a parent is more destructive than physical abuse as far as I’m concerned.


11 posted on 06/17/2014 5:15:13 AM PDT by mgist (.)
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I think the kid is nuts and his mother is, too. But women wearing makeup changes their looks, too.

In fact, there are websites of celebrities without makeup and you wouldn’t recognize them. And anyone can dye their hair or cut it and look very different.

I just have a problem with a parent (saw his mother on the news - didn’t see a dad) thinking this is okay. Kids today are so screwed up. I can’t imagine a guy showing up at school like that when I was young.

I work with a very sweet lady whose son has recently decided to become transgendered or something. He is 20 and now dresses in girl clothes and makeup. His mother is devastated and hurt. It is causing problems in her marriage. What is wrong with kids???


12 posted on 06/17/2014 5:17:01 AM PDT by ilovesarah2012
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To: NorthMountain

I can’t even... this nation is upside down. This sort of behavior must be fostered in a child as they grow up. The left wants to coin new buzz terms like “gender normative.” Well, gender “normativity” is what this world has known since the beginning of time. It’s NORMAL for a reason. This idea that lambasting someone for aspiring to their gender roles is going to “fix” society is absolutely asinine.

The human species does not continue on this planet if “gender norms” aren’t followed. The left just wants America to die like an untended field of grapes. Rot on the vine, America, because it feels better to call yourself a grape when you’re really a raisin inside.


13 posted on 06/17/2014 5:18:21 AM PDT by rarestia (It's time to water the Tree of Liberty.)
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To: ilovesarah2012

His FB page:

https://www.facebook.com/Goobybasilmomma?fref=ts


14 posted on 06/17/2014 5:22:01 AM PDT by ilovesarah2012
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my youngest had to remove her glasses for both DMV and her passport photos, and she wears them always for vision correction since she can’t wear contacts. she didn’t bawl or whine about how they aren’t accepting how she normally LOOKS. the world has gone crazy, how terrible for your co-worker.


15 posted on 06/17/2014 5:22:05 AM PDT by xsmommy
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To: rarestia

It’s CRAZY that we allow a 4 or 5 year old child to choose their gender at such a young age!

We are so screwed.


16 posted on 06/17/2014 5:23:33 AM PDT by BunnySlippers (I LOVE BULL MARKETS . . .)
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To: ilovesarah2012
Makeup does make women look different but we're talking about a kid using makeup to identify himself as a different gender.

Let's face it...he's looking for a payoff.

17 posted on 06/17/2014 5:23:50 AM PDT by Sacajaweau
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To: ilovesarah2012

You mean he has a driver’s license photo that he doesn’t like? Surely this is a terrible injustice!


18 posted on 06/17/2014 5:25:38 AM PDT by Future Snake Eater (CrossFit.com)
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To: BunnySlippers

It’s crazier that the parent (face it, there’s no father in this picture) is allowing the child to accept this as fact.

The boomers seem to think that it’s acceptable to let their kids just grow up like a wild weed vs. a structure tree and then wonder why it is that society uproots them every time there’s a stiff breeze.


19 posted on 06/17/2014 5:25:56 AM PDT by rarestia (It's time to water the Tree of Liberty.)
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To: Ouchthatonehurt

I was going to say the same thing. What the Hell is “gender non-conforming”????? It looks like a boy who wants to wear make-up.

The DMV has a right to make you look normal for your photo. You can’t wear a burqua or make up or a tinfoil hat on your head. People have tried all sorts of nonsense. Some make faces and the DMV tells them to take another picture. This has nothing to do with this boy wanting to wear make-up.


20 posted on 06/17/2014 5:26:55 AM PDT by Opinionated Blowhard ("When the people find they can vote themselves money, that will herald the end of the republic.")
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