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To stop the rape culture, stop the hook-up culture
life site news ^ | Robert A. Vega

Posted on 05/29/2014 2:08:59 AM PDT by Morgana

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To: PapaBear3625

Amending the above: screwing a woman who is actually physically unconscious on the frat house floor WOULD be rape.


21 posted on 05/29/2014 6:28:17 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 (You don't notice it's a police state until the police come for you.)
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To: Hoosier Catholic Momma

Favorite quote from PCU:
“What is this? You’re wearing the shirt of the band you’re going to see. Don’t be that guy.”


22 posted on 05/29/2014 6:32:21 AM PDT by dfwgator
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To: yldstrk
If some little d8ck ever said such to my daughter, “screw me babe or I will break up with you” I want her to say hasta la vista sucka

Same here. But if she agrees on that basis, she should not be allowed to later whine "I was coerced; I feel raped; he should go to prison because he threatened to break up with me".

23 posted on 05/29/2014 6:32:49 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 (You don't notice it's a police state until the police come for you.)
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To: PapaBear3625

it is coercion, no question, whether it is criminal coercion is another question

and, just because time passes doesn’t change the character of the act, if it was a crime when committed, it is still a crime though time passes


24 posted on 05/29/2014 6:37:28 AM PDT by yldstrk ( My heroes have always been cowboys)
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To: Hoosier Catholic Momma; newnhdad
Regrettably, the movie blamed Republicans/Conservatives for dividing everyone up into groups. Blatant deflection.

Also, the movie foisted the egregious Jeremy Piven on an unsuspecting humanity.

25 posted on 05/29/2014 6:38:13 AM PDT by Oratam
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To: yldstrk
it is coercion, no question, whether it is criminal coercion is another question

Well, current campus codes seem to imply that ANYTHING that could be construed as coercion turns it into "sexual misconduct".

Is it your viewpoint that, if a guy says he's going to stop seeing the woman unless she agrees to have sex, and she has sex with him in response, then (1) he is thus guilty of "sexual misconduct", and (2) should be subject to punishment on that basis?

26 posted on 05/29/2014 7:07:25 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 (You don't notice it's a police state until the police come for you.)
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To: yldstrk

Women also enjoy sex.


27 posted on 05/29/2014 8:51:43 AM PDT by NCLaw441
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To: NCLaw441

And boys need to be taught about courtship and tenderness and affection.


28 posted on 05/29/2014 9:03:12 AM PDT by what's up (sun)
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To: what's up
Otis Redding "Try A Little Tenderness" Live 1967
29 posted on 05/29/2014 9:08:58 AM PDT by csvset
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30 posted on 05/29/2014 9:10:45 AM PDT by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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To: Morgana
I still blame Dr. Kinsey for all this crap.

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Agreed. He was evil.

31 posted on 05/29/2014 9:25:30 AM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: Morgana; Salvation
While men are ultimately responsible for their actions and should have a well-formed conscience, Heather Mac Donald argues that the eradication of traditional rules of gentlemanly behavior and chivalry by progressives has undone that which keeps some men’s most primitive and brutish behaviors in check. In addition, the problem of the rape culture may be multigenerational... due to the pandemic of fatherlessness (to which the high prevalence of divorce and contraception contribute by desensitizing many men to the gravity of marriage and sex). With more and more children not being raised by their natural fathers.., or any father-figure at all, more young men have no role model to show them how to be a pubescent and post-adolescent man who handles his hormones, and young women have no point of reference for how they should expect men to treat them.

In a nutshell. It's criminal that while most rational people recognize that boys mature later than girls, the responsibility to refrain from raping a girl with whom you have been drinking illicitly on campus and with whom you then return to your college-sponsored co-ed dorm, rests solely on the boy, according to feminists and college administrators. This ruins lives.

While I have sympathy for the actual victims of aggressive rape, it is a pity that young females can devastate the reputations of males after a "date gone wrong" due to having been "empowered" by feminist logic writ large in university culture. Earlier generations of women going off to college were warned by their fathers not to go to fraternity parties, get into cars or allow themselves to be found alone with males who had been drinking.

32 posted on 05/29/2014 10:26:06 AM PDT by Albion Wilde ("The commenters are plenty but the thinkers are few." -- Walid Shoebat)
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To: Oratam

I didn’t see it like that. There was a weenie liberal faculty, a group of elitists and a group of “average” students trying to get along without getting caught up in the nonsense. It actually reflected closely what i experienced in college in the late 80’s, early 90’s. Lots of liberal weenies protesting the cause of the week, a few elitists turning up their noses, and a host of special interest groups fighting for the ever growing pot of student association fees. Blacks, mooslimbs, Africans, Caribbean, Asians, Hispanics, gays, trannies, Hindus, and even Norml were all vying for recognition and funding so they could build “social awareness” aka, have bitchin’ parties.


33 posted on 05/29/2014 11:57:05 AM PDT by newnhdad (Our new motto: USA, it was fun while it lasted.)
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To: southern rock

Really it’s “institutionalized”. Sounds like someone needs a dictionary.


institutionalize
verb

: to cause (a custom, practice, law, etc.) to become accepted and used by many people : to establish (something) as an institution

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/institutionalize


34 posted on 05/29/2014 12:56:12 PM PDT by Boogieman
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To: csvset

One of my favorite live performance of all time by the “Big O”!


35 posted on 05/29/2014 12:56:53 PM PDT by Boogieman
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To: newnhdad

You, at least, agree with me on said egregious Mr. Piven.


36 posted on 05/29/2014 1:23:38 PM PDT by Oratam
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To: PapaBear3625; yldstrk
Is it your viewpoint that, if a guy says he's going to stop seeing the woman unless she agrees to have sex, and she has sex with him in response, then (1) he is thus guilty of "sexual misconduct", and (2) should be subject to punishment on that basis?

Given the way he/she/it construes "crime" and that any kind of non-agreement with the female is "coercion", you betcha.

37 posted on 05/29/2014 2:29:49 PM PDT by jimt (Fear is the darkroom where negatives are developed.)
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To: Oratam

Okay...


38 posted on 05/29/2014 2:32:29 PM PDT by newnhdad (Our new motto: USA, it was fun while it lasted.)
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To: PapaBear3625
That is an odd rule.

Just imagine if this slight substitution were made...

When Claudia and Timothy first met, their relationship was tumultuous. At first, Claudia didn't want to have "a commitment" with Timothy because she felt like "someone else may come along". He kept trying to convince her. He implied that if Claudia did not "marry" with him, he would break up with her. Claudia finally gave in and "married" Timothy. Several months later after speaking with some friends, she realized she had been coerced.

If an ultimatum, is issued, is that "coercion"? I though the saying was "#$@& or get off the pot".

Couples that move in together are as good as married. If a women has lived with 3 partners, it's hard to accept her "first marriage" as some kind of ground breaking ceremony.

39 posted on 05/29/2014 6:33:27 PM PDT by a fool in paradise (The new witchhunt: "Do you NOW, . . . or have you EVER , . . supported traditional marriage?")
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To: a fool in paradise
If an ultimatum, is issued, is that "coercion"? I though the saying was "#$@& or get off the pot".

It's all about power. The campus feminists feel that only women should have any coercive relationship power, and no guy should ever even think of making any sort of demand on any girl at any time, and the guy should be punished if he does.

40 posted on 05/30/2014 4:57:35 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 (You don't notice it's a police state until the police come for you.)
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