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Dear Abby Defends Mom Buying Condoms for Her Teen Daughter and Her Friends
Life news ^ | Lauren Enriquez

Posted on 10/17/2013 9:55:13 AM PDT by Morgana

A Dear Abby column this week featured a concerned mom who had learned that the condoms she was buying for her 17-year-old daughter were being given to her daughter’s friends.

The mom, who was proud that her daughter felt comfortable enough to confide in her, was concerned about the price of supplying multiple sexually-active teenagers with condoms, but alas, she considered that perhaps this expense was worthwhile “if I can help to prevent an unwanted pregnancy.” The question, from “Safe Sex Advocate in Iliinois,” went like this:

DEAR ABBY: My 17-year-old daughter confided that she has become sexually involved with her boyfriend and asked if I would buy condoms for her. I agreed that she should protect herself and bought her a box of 12.

A week later, she informed me that she needed another 12-pack. When I asked why she had run out so quickly, she confessed that she has been supplying them to her girlfriends. Apparently they can’t confide in their moms the way she can with me.

My dilemma is that condoms are expensive and, on one hand, I don’t want to be the one supplying a group of kids. On the other hand, if I can help to prevent an unwanted pregnancy, maybe it’s worth it. What do you think I should do? — Safe Sex Advocate in Illinois

How do you think dear old Abby responded? Basically, she broadcasted a free advertisement for Planned Parenthood. Here’s how it went:

DEAR SAFE SEX ADVOCATE: If your daughter’s friends are old enough to be sexually active, they and their boyfriends should also be responsible enough to provide their own birth control. Generally, teens do not need the permission of their parents to receive information about it. Because you want to help them avoid unwanted pregnancies (as well as STDs), direct them to the nearest Planned Parenthood Center for low-cost or no-cost birth control and instruction on how to use it. There are 18 of these health centers in Illinois. To find the one closest to you, go to PlannedParenthood.org.

A few reasons why referring vulnerable teens to Planned Parenthood may not have been Abby’s brightest moment:

-Planned Parenthood makes a lot of money off of sexually active teens who do become pregnant and pursue abortion.

The Washington Times:”… abortion continues to account for the overwhelming majority of Planned Parenthood’s services for pregnant women, making up 92 percent of the organization’s pregnancy services.”

-Planned Parenthood helps to keep parents out of the reproductive health choices of their daughters by encouraging girls to seek judicial bypass in regions where parental consent is required before an abortion is performed on a minor. That means Planned Parenthood wants to help your daughter procure an abortion – and profit off the price tag from whomever is paying for it – without your knowledge or consent. Planned Parenthood markets itself as pro-parent, but when parents get in the way of profits, they hit the bottom of the totem pole.

-Planned Parenthood has been caught failing to report sexual abuses on underage girls (like those to whom condoms were being provided by the mom above). No loving parent – especially not the type of concerned mother who wrote to Abby – wants their daughter to go through the type of anguish (like statutory rape) which Planned Parenthood has been documented perpetuating on minor girls.

Planned Parenthood is undoubtedly grateful for Abby’s free commercial, but if the concerned mom knew the facts about Planned Parenthood that Abby forgot to mention, maybe she would think twice before sending minors to them.


TOPICS: Chit/Chat
KEYWORDS: ageofconsentlaws; antiabstinence; corruptingaminor; dearabby; ifitfeelsgooddohim; moralabsolutes; parentalrights; parentsnotfriends; prolife; sexpositiveagenda; stds
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1 posted on 10/17/2013 9:55:13 AM PDT by Morgana
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To: Morgana

More like daughter is a skank.


2 posted on 10/17/2013 9:59:50 AM PDT by Resolute Conservative
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To: Morgana

When I asked why she had run out so quickly, she confessed that she ... is a complete slut.


3 posted on 10/17/2013 9:59:58 AM PDT by ClearCase_guy (21st century. I'm not a fan.)
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To: Morgana

I thought Abby died years ago.


4 posted on 10/17/2013 10:01:10 AM PDT by Berosus (I wish I had as much faith in God as liberals have in government.)
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To: Morgana

“Abby” is just a liberal mouthpiece. I would never read her columns.


5 posted on 10/17/2013 10:01:34 AM PDT by I want the USA back (Media: completely irresponsible traitors. Complicit in the destruction of our country.)
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To: Resolute Conservative

Why blame the daughter when mom encourages it?


6 posted on 10/17/2013 10:04:31 AM PDT by Morgana (Always a bit of truth in dark humor.)
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To: Morgana; mazda77; oswegodeee; Doogle; SouthTexas; vette6387; JLAGRAYFOX; ZULU; overbore; ...

Why is she “buying” condoms? All she has to do is call OBayMe, Pelosi, Reid, Boxer, Feinstein, Sebelius, or go before Congress and they will give her thousands to last them a lifetime. Well, maybe, a few years at the rate they’re going.


7 posted on 10/17/2013 10:09:42 AM PDT by ExTexasRedhead
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To: Morgana

Not blame, pity. I fully blame the mom.


8 posted on 10/17/2013 10:10:14 AM PDT by Resolute Conservative
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To: Morgana

I thought my tax dollars were buying free birth control and condoms for studs and sluts everywhere.


9 posted on 10/17/2013 10:11:38 AM PDT by Newbomb Turk ("All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing.")
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To: Newbomb Turk

> I thought my tax dollars were buying free birth control and condoms for studs and sluts everywhere.

Their is a silver lining though. They won’t be producing new liberals as fast...


10 posted on 10/17/2013 10:15:52 AM PDT by jsanders2001
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To: ExTexasRedhead

Has Sandra Fluke made a statement yet?


11 posted on 10/17/2013 10:16:54 AM PDT by Antihero101607
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To: Morgana

Gone are the days when you had to ask the pharmacist for a pack of Trojans behind the counter. They are right there on display and any 17 year old can buy their own without mommy.


12 posted on 10/17/2013 10:18:02 AM PDT by dainbramaged (Joe McCarthy was right.)
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To: Berosus

> I thought Abby died years ago.

Maybe she was one of 0’s supporters. They seem to be anle to vote from beyond the grave. And here I though 0 didn’t believe in the afterlife.

Actually I think Abby’s daughter writes it now.


13 posted on 10/17/2013 10:18:33 AM PDT by jsanders2001
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To: Morgana

“Abby” went to the dark side years ago.


14 posted on 10/17/2013 10:21:08 AM PDT by Cyber Liberty (At That Awkward Stage: It's too late to vote them out, too early to shoot the bastards.)
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To: Morgana; cyn; Tax-chick
This column may have started out decades ago as a real “advice” column (when people actually read newspapers), but I have long figured that this Dear Abby shtick has been made up out of whole cloth for years.

Nothing but queer manufactured quandaries and advice to legitimize and validate a corrupted culture.

15 posted on 10/17/2013 10:21:08 AM PDT by Ezekiel (The Obama-nation began with the Inauguration of Desolation.)
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To: Morgana

Can’t you get free condoms at planned parenthood? Are those people doing ANYTHING other than killing babies?


16 posted on 10/17/2013 10:24:46 AM PDT by thorvaldr
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To: Morgana

Hard to see the downside of keeping white liberals from reproducing.


17 posted on 10/17/2013 10:25:07 AM PDT by FredZarguna (The sequel, thoroughly pointless, derivative, and boring was like all James Cameron "films.")
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To: Morgana

She’s 17 and she doesn’t have her own spending money for her entertainment? She doesn’t need a box of condoms, she needs a job.


18 posted on 10/17/2013 10:29:59 AM PDT by married21 ( As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.)
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To: Morgana

This is not your mother’s Dear Abby.


19 posted on 10/17/2013 10:30:41 AM PDT by JimRed (Excise the cancer before it kills us; feed & water the Tree of Liberty! TERM LIMITS NOW & FOREVER!)
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To: Morgana
My dilemma is that condoms are expensive

They're vastly cheaper than dinner and a movie traditionally provided before the mattress mamba. Is she getting the steel belted radial ones?

20 posted on 10/17/2013 10:33:02 AM PDT by KarlInOhio (Everyone get online for Obamacare on 10/1. Overload the system and crash it hard!)
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