I did not bring up my children - YOU DID! And you sound like an old busy body.
as she had been praying and it wasn't helping
No she didn't - You are one who is adamant about that.
Give it up, you have nothing to offer.
LOL this busy body has as much a right to my opinion and anything I think, or suggestions I post....answer if you feel the need, it will not be replied to, you offer nothing cogent to the subject... being the first one calling a person a name means you have lost the debate.