I have noticed and are shocked. Meanwhile the makers of drugs like Viagra rake in billions because of men who can’t get a natural erection due to porn. I am talking men in their 20’s and 30’s. I have seen the documentaries on porn and what it does to the male brain. It is worse than a lot of street drugs. These are men who would rather watch sex than do it with their wives. How sad is that?
It is pretty sad that a woman could be so unappealing that her husband would rather whack it to a bunch of electrons than have sex with her . . . or that a woman would be dopey enough to marry a dude like that in the first place.
Several years ago a partner of mine and I would go to storage locker auctions and buy delinquent units, inevitably most contained porno collections, usually VCR tapes.
When we held our sales events they were all kept behind the counter, out of site.
You would be shocked at the number of women that would ask if we had any porn for sale with absolutely no abashedness.
It is indeed a two way street. It's not just men in those films.
I'd probably never get married but this is the typically story from nearly all of my married friends. At least the friends whose wives let them off the leash long enough to speak about it.
Too many women don't even know what they want and are constantly unhappy under any circumstances.
-If you stand up for yourself each time, you “don't listen”. If you do everything she wants, you're a “doormat”.
-If you work very hard and have a busy personal life, you are “abandoning”. If you try to spend too much time together you “need more time apart”.
-If you make much more than her and are generous you are “trying to bribe her”. If you make less, you are a “bum”.
I could go on and on. And if they finally get the right combination one day and get their wives into the sack, they usually realize it wasn't even worth the effort in the first place. Too many women put as little effort as possible into sex and abandon trying anything new.
It's much easier and usually more satisfying for them to pop in a movie that shows exactly what they want(and never will get) or get a prostitute.
I'm not saying everyone is like that but the risk is too high. Many of my friends’ wives were completely different people before the wedding. As for me, I don't believe that I will ever meet someone that I would marry. I'll stick to girlfriends however long it works out for.