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Mom indicted for hiring stripper for son's birthday
Nashville Tennessean | 5/28/5 | IAN DEMSKY

Posted on 05/28/2005 12:23:27 PM PDT by SmithL

Anette Pharris, 34, hired a stripper, Cassandra Joyce Park, 29, to dance at son's 16th birthday.

Can't excerpt from the Tennessean, but here's a link:
http://www.tennessean.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20050528/NEWS03/505280336


TOPICS: Local News; Music/Entertainment; Society; Weird Stuff
KEYWORDS: culturewarm; mom; parentsnotfriends; sexualizingchildren; sixteenthbirtday; stippers; strippermommy
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Cassandra Joyce Park, 29, left, who police say used the stage name "Sassy,"
danced at the 16th birthday party for Landon Harris, right, in September.

Oh yeah, VERY mature.

1 posted on 05/28/2005 12:23:27 PM PDT by SmithL
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To: SmithL

She looks like a stripper.

I'm surprised she didn't strip for her son and his friends and maybe throw in some bedroom time.


2 posted on 05/28/2005 12:24:52 PM PDT by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God).)
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To: SmithL
About 30 people were at Landon Pharris' 16th birthday party in September, about 10 of them under the age of 18.

"We even had grandpa there," his mother said.

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The excitement might have ended that night if Anette Pharris hadn't taken photos at the celebration and then tried to have them developed at a nearby drug store. Many of the pictures were taken by Anette Pharris, police said, but once the dancer's "bottoms" came off, she retreated into the next room and her then 14-year-old son, Brandon, continued documenting the action.


Anette Pharris said yesterday that she was coming up on her 18th wedding anniversary, "so I must be doing something right. Who are they to tell me what I can and can't show to my own children?"

DOING SOMETHING RIGHT? LOL! LOOK at YOUR SON - he's a creep!

"Let he who is without sin cast the first stone," she said.




This alley cat of a "mother" is too much!

Apparently laws are only for the little people as she Scripture twists.
3 posted on 05/28/2005 12:29:01 PM PDT by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God).)
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To: SmithL
Landon's mother said she had to contact several companies before she found one that would agree to send an adult entertainer to a minor's birthday party.

That's apparent. Looks like "Sassy" probably needed the work.

All I know is that if my mom hired a stripper that ugly for my 16th birthday, I'd be pretty pissed off at her!

4 posted on 05/28/2005 12:31:42 PM PDT by Drew68 (IYAOYAS! Semper Gumby!)
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To: SmithL
Cassandra Joyce Park, 29,

29? Yeah, right! I'm buyin' that one. From the looks of her, this woman hasn't been 29 since the first George Bush was president! If she *is* 29, she really needs to tone down the meth use a bit.

5 posted on 05/28/2005 12:35:36 PM PDT by Drew68 (IYAOYAS! Semper Gumby!)
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To: Drew68

I wonder what the state statue was that she violated to get her indicted. Granted hiring a stripper is in bad taste but nudity in ones home is something else. Now if she had hired her to have sex with him, sure nuff said, so now what, throw the mom in jail and what will that do to correct things. Then again why would anyone go to a pubic photo developer with those pics. Then again why do photo developers think they need to be life moderators. And as Hedly Lamar would say while looking into camera, why am I asking you?


6 posted on 05/28/2005 12:39:01 PM PDT by eastforker (Under Cover FReeper going dark(too much 24))
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To: SmithL
Just last night I found my asbestos suit, which I had misplaced.

Just exactly what is the source of the gross overreaction to this story?

No, I never hired a stripper for either of my sons' birthdays, but I don't do rap, rock climbing, starbucks, live in trailer parks, own an ipod, mind other people's business or lots of other things.

7 posted on 05/28/2005 12:50:12 PM PDT by Publius6961 (The most abundant things in the universe are hydrogen, ignorance and stupidity.)
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To: eastforker
I wonder what the state statue was that she violated to get her indicted. Granted hiring a stripper is in bad taste but nudity in ones home is something else. Now if she had hired her to have sex with him, sure nuff said, so now what, throw the mom in jail and what will that do to correct things.

I was wondering about that myself. I'm sure there is a law about soliciting adult entertainers for minors but it seems that having a naked adult in your home wouldn't necessarily be a crime.

At any rate, I fail to see the damage caused by having a 16 year-old boy exposed to a disturbingly ugly stripper.

8 posted on 05/28/2005 12:51:43 PM PDT by Drew68 (IYAOYAS! Semper Gumby!)
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To: SmithL

White trash creep!

She probably also shows her son how to shoot up heroin. On a regular basis.


9 posted on 05/28/2005 12:54:02 PM PDT by Bullish
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To: eastforker
Exactly.
I thought it was the new mantra that what one does in the privacy of one's home is constitutionally guaranteed private no matter what.
Right?
10 posted on 05/28/2005 12:54:02 PM PDT by Publius6961 (The most abundant things in the universe are hydrogen, ignorance and stupidity.)
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To: Drew68

"If she *is* 29, she really needs to tone down the meth use a bit."

LOL!


11 posted on 05/28/2005 12:59:57 PM PDT by jdm (Estoy En Una Radio Mexicana (I'm On A Mexican Radio))
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To: Publius6961

No, I asked what statute the mom violated.Exposure to nudity in of itself I don't see as a crime, if it was minors would not be allowed in art museums.


12 posted on 05/28/2005 1:01:31 PM PDT by eastforker (Under Cover FReeper going dark(too much 24))
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To: SmithL
Oh, that's the boy on the right. I thought it was the mother. He looks like he might have enjoyed a male stripper instead. And if he doesn't go that way, he sure will after seeing a crank ho' like that get naked.
13 posted on 05/28/2005 1:05:13 PM PDT by randog (What the....?!)
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To: eastforker

I doubt whether you will get a satisfactory answer to either question here, other than "just because"...


14 posted on 05/28/2005 1:10:45 PM PDT by Publius6961 (The most abundant things in the universe are hydrogen, ignorance and stupidity.)
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To: SmithL

Which one is the dancer?


15 posted on 05/28/2005 1:11:00 PM PDT by DaGman
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To: nmh
The excitement might have ended that night if Anette Pharris hadn't taken photos at the celebration and then tried to have them developed at a nearby drug store.

She can afford a stripper but not a digital camera?

16 posted on 05/28/2005 1:13:17 PM PDT by ThinkDifferent (These pretzels are making me thirsty)
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To: Publius6961
I thought it was the new mantra that what one does in the privacy of one's home is constitutionally guaranteed private no matter what.

That's generally applied in the context of "consenting adults", which is not the case here.

17 posted on 05/28/2005 1:14:21 PM PDT by ThinkDifferent (These pretzels are making me thirsty)
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To: SmithL

THAT is 29? Yeah sure, maybe when Carter was the president....


yeaccchhhhhhh!!!!!


18 posted on 05/28/2005 1:25:30 PM PDT by MikefromOhio (Is anyone else ready for football to begin again?)
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To: ThinkDifferent
That's generally applied in the context of "consenting adults", which is not the case here.

That begs the question. The rational extension of that statement is that if the brainiacs had not "outed" themselves by going to the film processor, there would be neither foul nor penalty?

19 posted on 05/28/2005 1:30:00 PM PDT by Publius6961 (The most abundant things in the universe are hydrogen, ignorance and stupidity.)
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To: Drew68
"I fail to see the damage caused by having a 16 year-old boy exposed to a disturbingly ugly stripper."

Perhaps because it will cause him to turn into a homo.


;-)
20 posted on 05/28/2005 2:15:03 PM PDT by Gunrunner2
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To: SmithL

There were 10 other minors there. I wonder how young, and if their parents were informed in advance that a strip show would take place.


21 posted on 05/28/2005 3:00:53 PM PDT by KittyKares
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To: SmithL

The scary thing is that the stripper looks like a guy in drag and the kid looks like a girl.


22 posted on 05/28/2005 3:13:01 PM PDT by sharktrager (The masses will trade liberty for a more quiet life.)
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To: SmithL

But one cannot help but feel sorry for the stripper's father because his daughter is disrespecting herself in front of people and one cannot help but feel disgusted that a mother instead of showing her son how to respect women would go out and hire a stripper.


23 posted on 05/28/2005 3:20:46 PM PDT by youngtory (Liberals in Conservative clothing are bigger liars than the liberals themselves.)
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To: sharktrager
The scary thing is that the stripper looks like a guy in drag and the kid looks like a girl.

I really couldn't tell. Without reading the caption, I was thinking the one on the left was Mommy.

24 posted on 05/28/2005 5:18:15 PM PDT by madprof98
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To: SmithL
"Let he who is without sin cast the first stone," she said.

The only New Testament verse the libs know. Must be from the Book of Job.

25 posted on 05/28/2005 5:21:00 PM PDT by madprof98
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To: ThinkDifferent

"She can afford a stripper but not a digital camera?"

Yeah, that was her downfall. If she printed the stuff out at home no one would be the wiser. Looking at what she hired as a stripper ... she didn't pay much for it.


26 posted on 05/28/2005 7:47:50 PM PDT by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God).)
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To: eastforker

Maybe there are some mandatory reporting laws? Maybe there is something in child porn statutes.

The kids may not have been naked but if there were children exposed to adult nudity, it might fall under that sort of statute.

There were more kids there than just her boy.


27 posted on 05/29/2005 1:02:19 AM PDT by texasflower ("Put the lime in the Coke, you nut!" Sing loud and strong Mr. TOL)
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To: Drew68
At any rate, I fail to see the damage caused by having a 16 year-old boy exposed to a disturbingly ugly stripper

Young Landon needs a friggin haircut.

As to the "stripper", "she" actually looks like a, er, man.

28 posted on 05/29/2005 6:38:29 AM PDT by xsrdx (Diligentia, Vis, Celeritas)
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To: nmh

As looks go that woman's are 100% s.k.a.n.k.


29 posted on 05/29/2005 6:42:08 AM PDT by bvw
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To: Drew68
That's apparent. Looks like "Sassy" probably needed the work.

"I've seen strippers. I've known strippers. And you, sir, are no stripper." -Anon

30 posted on 05/29/2005 6:43:26 AM PDT by xsrdx (Diligentia, Vis, Celeritas)
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To: SmithL
Mom indicted for hiring stripper for son

‘It didn’t harm him,’ mother says of effect on 16-year-old son

The Associated Press Updated: 5:32 a.m. ET May 29, 2005

NASHVILLE, Tenn. - A mother faces criminal charges after she hired a stripper to dance at her 16-year-old son’s birthday party.

Anette Pharris, 34, has been indicted by a grand jury on charges of contributing to the delinquency of a minor and involving a minor in obscene acts. The boy’s father, the stripper and two others also face charges.

“I tried to do something special for my son,” Pharris said. “It didn’t harm him.”

About 10 people under the age of 18 were at the birthday party in September, including minors who were not related to the family, authorities said.

Police spokesman Don Aaron said minors are not permitted in adult establishments.

“A person shouldn’t be allowed to circumvent that law by hiring a stripper, a lady who took all her clothes off and spent a good amount of time dancing around minors,” he said.

Anette Pharris took photos at the party and tried to have them developed at a nearby drug store. Drug store employees notified authorities, police said.

“Who are they to tell me what I can and can’t show to my own children?” the mother said.

31 posted on 05/29/2005 6:46:16 AM PDT by xsrdx (Diligentia, Vis, Celeritas)
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To: SmithL

Sassy is looking pretty beat up at 29.


32 posted on 05/29/2005 6:49:31 AM PDT by cyborg
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To: bvw

Notice the age?

"Anette Pharris, 34, hired a stripper, Cassandra Joyce Park, 29, to dance at son's 16th birthday."

The "mother" is 34 and her son is 16. She had her son when she was 18. Nothing like getting her son all jazzed up so he can start having kids.


33 posted on 05/29/2005 8:52:04 AM PDT by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God).)
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To: bvw

Notice the age?

"Anette Pharris, 34, hired a stripper, Cassandra Joyce Park, 29, to dance at son's 16th birthday."

The "mother" is 34 and her son is 16. She had her son when she was 18. Nothing like getting her son all jazzed up so he can start having kids.

"Anette Pharris said yesterday that she was coming up on her 18th wedding anniversary, "so I must be doing something right. Who are they to tell me what I can and can't show to my own children?"

The "mother" is about to celebrate her 18th wedding anniversary - so she was 24 when she finally got married. So she was a single "mother" for atleast six years. Now she's busy getting her son up to speed to follow in her footsteps. A normal mother would be cautious after having been through that. Nah, not this one. She shoves what got her into trouble IN HIS FACE.


34 posted on 05/29/2005 8:55:48 AM PDT by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God).)
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To: cyborg; MikeinIraq

She's a very mature 29.


35 posted on 05/29/2005 9:16:06 AM PDT by SmithL (Proud Submariner)
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To: nmh

If she's telling the truth, she was married at 16. I guess that makes her somewhat of an expert on mature 16-year-olds.


36 posted on 05/29/2005 9:19:25 AM PDT by SmithL (Proud Submariner)
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To: nmh

Hard to believe but sone parents DON'T want better for their children.


37 posted on 05/29/2005 9:19:43 AM PDT by cyborg (I am ageless through the power of the Lord God.)
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To: SmithL

yeah....right....she probably looked 29 when she was 12


38 posted on 05/29/2005 9:20:09 AM PDT by MikefromOhio ( 1,000,000 Iraqi Dinar = 708.617 US Dollar - Get yours today)
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To: Drew68

"At any rate, I fail to see the damage caused by having a 16 year-old boy exposed to a disturbingly ugly stripper."

It might make him think twice about having sex until he is married.


39 posted on 05/29/2005 9:23:21 AM PDT by ArmedNReady (Islam, the Cancer on Humanity.)
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To: MikeinIraq

VERY mature at 12, I'm sure.


40 posted on 05/29/2005 9:23:51 AM PDT by SmithL (Proud Submariner)
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To: SmithL

LOL

yecc


41 posted on 05/29/2005 9:25:38 AM PDT by MikefromOhio ( 1,000,000 Iraqi Dinar = 708.617 US Dollar - Get yours today)
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To: SmithL
VERY mature at 12, I'm sure.

That's probably when she started table-dancing.

42 posted on 05/29/2005 9:26:18 AM PDT by Drew68 (IYAOYAS! Semper Gumby!)
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To: MikeinIraq

I was in line at the grocery store yesterday when the cashier told the person in front of me that he would have to go to another line because she was not old enough to ring up the beer that the guy was buying. He looked at her and asked how old she was. She replied "17". The guy puzzled. When I looked at the cashier, she appeared to me to be in her mid to late 50's. I felt so sorry for her because she is going to have to deal with that for quite a while. But, she can probably buy beer for herself anywhere, without question.


43 posted on 05/29/2005 9:29:23 AM PDT by ArmedNReady (Islam, the Cancer on Humanity.)
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To: ArmedNReady

she was 17 and looked 50?!? ouch


44 posted on 05/29/2005 9:30:07 AM PDT by MikefromOhio ( 1,000,000 Iraqi Dinar = 708.617 US Dollar - Get yours today)
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To: MikeinIraq

"he was 17 and looked 50?!? ouch"

Yep, I couldn't help staring at her in disbelief the whole time I was in line. When I got closer to the register, I saw they had a sign saying "no alcohol in this line, underage cashier". She wasn't unattractive...for a 50+ year old.


45 posted on 05/29/2005 9:34:02 AM PDT by ArmedNReady (Islam, the Cancer on Humanity.)
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To: SmithL

Let's see.....34-16=18...-9 months=17....

I'm start to get a picture of her well developed sense of values.


46 posted on 05/29/2005 9:35:58 AM PDT by G Larry (Promote Conservative Judges NOW! YOU BUNCH OF COWARDS!!!)
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To: eastforker

There were ten non-related minors there. You think someone should be able to take someone else's kids and do whatever they want with them?


47 posted on 05/29/2005 9:36:39 AM PDT by nickcarraway (I'm Only Alive, Because a Judge Hasn't Ruled I Should Die...)
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To: ArmedNReady

LOL


48 posted on 05/29/2005 9:37:36 AM PDT by MikefromOhio ( 1,000,000 Iraqi Dinar = 708.617 US Dollar - Get yours today)
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To: nickcarraway

Did you not fully understand my question and if you do , do you know the answer. I already stated I didn't think it was a good idea, my question was what statute was violated.


49 posted on 05/29/2005 9:41:15 AM PDT by eastforker (Under Cover FReeper going dark(too much 24))
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To: KittyKares

Don't ask, don't tell.


50 posted on 05/29/2005 9:55:15 AM PDT by weegee ("Do you want them to write a piece about how great the military is?" Elizabeth Bumiller - NY Times)
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