Posted on 11/05/2009 7:08:44 AM PST by Notoriously Conservative
Hey gays, I mean guys, can I talk to you for a minute? Last Tuesdays loss in Maine was a tough blow (definitely no pun inteded, gross). 31 states have now shot down gay marriage. Here's the thing, you are going about it all wrong.
If you want the government to stay out of your lives, so that you can live the lifestyle you want, why are you lobbying so hard for the government to interfere on the issue?
If you want to continue to gay-out with your lovers, without the government telling you no, then why are you trying to get the government to say that it is ok? If you want religious people and conservative people to accept your lifestyle, then why are you drawing battle lines, and attacking a union they hold sacred? You couldn't do anything more detrimental to your cause.
Quit the push for gay marriage, and just go on living your lives. Besides, marriage isn't all it's cracked up to be. There is all sorts of work needed to make a marriage work. Also there is lots of bickering, nagging, and such. Just stay partners, doing your deeds in private, and enjoying life. There is no need to continue to try and force everyone to accept your lifestyle, because the fact is, the majority of Americans NEVER will.
If you want to be accepted, quit making your lifestyle so public. When you constantly throw parades, kiss-ins and protests, you are bringing attention to the fact that you are gay, which has the exact opposite effect of your ultimate goal; to be accepted, undiscriminated against, and acknowledged as no different from anybody else.
The government and the people of this country aren't telling you that you can't love who you want to love, sleep with who you want to sleep with, or live with who you want to live with. The people are simply saying, leave marriage alone. Honestly, be happy with the freedoms you have, and move towards acceptance of lifestyle, not acceptance of your values superseding the majority's. You can keep pushing, but we will ALWAYS push back.
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Ya' think?
Well, I didn’t mean the mechanics of it, but yeah, that’s going about it wrong as well.
That should help to win people over to their side right?
Lol!!
I’d be far more likely join their cause if they were lobbying to stop treating married couples and single folk differently. Government should not be in the business of encouraging or discouraging our (legal) activities.
The author misses the point.
It’s not that they don’t want the gov’t to interfere in their lives.
They want to use the power of the state to force the rest of us to accept their lifestyle as “normal” like ours.
That said, you offer good advice of a kind that will be ignored by those who seek not acceptance, but approval.
Hey, anyone have the pic of the moose trying to screw the buffalo sculpture?
This was predicted, and I would imagine it would cause a huge backlash.
“Gay rights” opponents may find that their cause loses ground overall.
Too bad for them they don’t have a leg to stand on. The tax laws are pretty clear on the matter.
A single person and a married couple ARE different.
Throughout history, societies have recognized marriage as a special relationship between a man and a woman, that is normal, natural and essential to a civil society.
If you want to get mugged, raped, murdered, etc., your best bet is to go to a neighborhood where marriage is not the norm.
The government does very little to “encourage marriage”. For the most part, all government does is record marriages and allow the couple to be treated as a unit, rather than as two individuals, for many legal purposes. This simply reflects the reality of the marital relationship, that the two have become one.
Yes, I agree - but so are the marriage laws. If they are willing to alter the marriage laws then I have no doubt they will try to change the tax exemption. My fear is that maybe some Obama bureaucrat will try to issue a regulation.
The goal and motivation is the Marxist demoralization of the nation generally, and **specifically** the children in our government schools! Oh! And please remember that homosexual indoctrination is merely one out of hundreds of ways our nation's children are being demoralized in our government indoctrination camps. ( Oops! “Public schools”.)
Once gay marriage is declared official state policy then the Marxists can freely, and more easily, introduce homosexual indoctrination into the government schools. Look at the arguments used against David Parker in Massachusetts.
And...Finally, the conservative media ( Rush, Beck, OReilly, Hannity, etc.) will **totally** ignore this issue. Why? Because they are posers and entertainers who **use** conservatives to further their own self interest. When tyranny comes they will not be our nation's patriots. They will instead spit shine the jack boots crushing our necks.
You are correct that the push for gay marriage does not make sense if marriage was the goal. But...Marriage is merely one step to the larger goal: DEMORALIZATION!
If we remember that demoralization is the real goal, then everything gays( parades, kiss-ins, blood on churches) do makes complete sense.
“Gays Are Going About it All Wrong”
You can say that again (insert rimshot here)!
The gay worker said "I hadn't thought of that"; to which my friend replied "And then you wonder why people do not take you seriously, and laugh and ridicule your lifestyle - you do everything in your power to make yourselves look foolish; then demand respect".
I thought this was a very polite, but firm and analytical study of what happened, and apparently the gay coworker was forced to agree. Act like freaks, expect to receive the same level of respect and consideration you would give to any other mentally disturbed freak.
Throughout history, societies have recognized marriage as a special relationship between a man and a woman, that is normal, natural and essential to a civil society.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Exactly! Civil Society.
The **goal** here is to destroy civil society. Gay marriage is merely one nail in a large house built on the foundation of demoralization.
The **goal** is demoralization and destruction of civil society. The Marxists need this chaos to achieve their ultimate goal: Tyranny.
Evaluated narrowly what the gays are doing makes no sense whatsoever...BUT...Seen within the framework of demoralization and destruction of civil society what the gays and their supporters are doing makes perfect sense.
Ian McKellen Rips Pages Out of Bibles
Its always interesting to observe peoples reaction to the Bible.
Some find it inspirational, others threatening.
Evidently, Sir Ian McKellen falls into the latter category. When he comes across the Good Book in a hotel room, he routinely rips out certain pages.
The openly gay “Lord of the Rings” star looks for pages like the one in a section of Leviticus, which condemns homosexuality.
I’m not proudly defacing the book, but it’s a choice between removing that page and throwing away the whole Bible, McKellen told Details magazine.
McKellen has apparently inspired others to engage in the same self-censorship of Scripture.
I got delivered a package of 40 of those pages... that had been torn out by a married couple I know. They put them on a bit of string so that I could hang it up in the bathroom, he explained.
Apparently, McKellen and his spiritually similar friends are under the impression that with a shred of a page the Bible can be adjusted to their liking.
Unfortunately inaccurate.
The margins of defeat for the gay cause keep getting narrower. If this trend continues, and I don't see any countervailing indications, then they will eventually begin winning such contests.
Once a few have been won, it is likely there will be a rush in other states to weigh in on the "tolerant" side.
I give it no more than 10 years.
nail on head
conservative talk shows hardly if ever talk about it(hannity comes right to mind) and if marriage was so important to them then why is it that we do not see an influx of homosexuals into MA and the other liberal utopia’s or a mass exodus form states banning civil unions and queer marriage
nail on head
conservative talk shows hardly if ever talk about it(hannity comes right to mind) and if marriage was so important to them then why is it that we do not see an influx of homosexuals into MA and the other liberal utopia’s or a mass exodus form states banning civil unions and queer marriage
I am fed up of hearing of those who have no clue that it is about marriage, love, etc.
We can still love others but not have the urge to have sex with them.
I beg to differ.
Your post implies tht those pushing this stuff are committed Marxists, who primarily oppose American society because it isn't Marxist enough.
I disagree.
These folks are much more anti-American and anti-western civ than they are pro-anything.
Their opposition to our society is based on hatred and contempt for its values rather than a positive belief in anything else. That's why they can so quickly switch between gay, Marxist, environmental, feminist and multi-cultural "reasons" for their opposition.
The opposition is the key issue. The various rationales can be switched at a moment's notice because they aren't really interested in them other than as a convenient club to hit us over the head with.
That's also why nothing we do to our society could possibly satisfy them. There will always be some reason requiring its destruction, in their eyes.
they say it is their own private business but go on their freak parades and tell everyone what they are at every chance for the most part.
I was in Boston for a day with my kids and wife and we turned a corner onto Boylston street and WOW
I have never seen so many freaks and weirdo’s at one time in my life.
I have lived in different countries , been around the world, lived around the USA but seeing men who look like women, women who act like and look like men, how they dressed and how they perverted themselves out in public was disgusting.
Up to that point I never bothered about the homosexual agenda or them but ever since that day I have done everything I could to stop their agenda and get the word out about them.
My son aged 5 asked why two men were wearing shorts showing most of their arse, why were they touching each others arse and why were they kissing.
Thankfully this was years ago and he has forgot but what on earth do you tell a child about these freaks
they say it is their own private business but go on their freak parades and tell everyone what they are at every chance for the most part.
I was in Boston for a day with my kids and wife and we turned a corner onto Boylston street and WOW
I have never seen so many freaks and weirdo’s at one time in my life.
I have lived in different countries , been around the world, lived around the USA but seeing men who look like women, women who act like and look like men, how they dressed and how they perverted themselves out in public was disgusting.
Up to that point I never bothered about the homosexual agenda or them but ever since that day I have done everything I could to stop their agenda and get the word out about them.
My son aged 5 asked why two men were wearing shorts showing most of their arse, why were they touching each others arse and why were they kissing.
Thankfully this was years ago and he has forgot but what on earth do you tell a child about these freaks.
I just told them all that they were at a fancy dress party and they were brothers and that they were not really kissing and did not mean to touch each others arse.
If they wanted to help their cause they would stop going on with their agenda, stop acting like they think a homosexual should act or look and stop getting in peoples faces.
If they stopped reading their homosexuals propaganda websites and got out of their social circles then they would realise this.
The so called leader of their groups only use them to get money from them anyway
Actually, a more likely scenario has the Supreme Court deciding gay marriage is a constitutional right and states have no right to discriminate against same-sex couples.
Certainly no harder than finding a right to abortion in the Constitution.
Perhaps after Obame appoints one or two additional justices.
It is no accident that nearly every commercial, Ad, TV show, and movie has an openly gay person or character on it these days. They did the same thing for the blacks. It's basically affirmative action for gays.
Gays make up about 2% of the population.
Blacks make up about 14% of the population.
Think about it.
The above are Lenin's “Useful Idiots”.
Have you seen the Yuri Bezmenov video? He tells us that it was the Useful Idiots who were the very first people who were lined up and shot.
And...How do you think the above became “anti-American and anti-western civ”? It was done purposefully in our government schools. Those in education leadership and academia ( committed Marxists) trained the useful idiots teachers who have indoctrinated several generations of anti-American citizens who now hate their own country. Gays are merely one small part of the overall demoralization.
While I agree with you that the majority of gays, feminists, environmentalists, racial equality, pay-equity, pro-abortion, peace movement, anti-nuclear power ( etc.) activists are **not** committed Marxists. They are as you correctly pointed out merely anti-American and anti-Western Civilization...BUT...The nuclear fuel rod driving all this all this is Marxism, and their major leaders are Marxists.
I will give one example.
Bill Ayers is a deeply committed Marxist. The teachers he trains and influences are Useful Idiots who are the anti-Western Civilization activists that you correctly identified.
I continue to respectfully disagree. Ayers and Weatherman reinforce my point. If you read about their actual movement, they were FAR more interested in destroying the American system than in what would replace it.
IOW, the hatred and contempt for America came first. The Marxism was just a convenient rationale for justifying the hatred. They did not develop a hatred for America because it was insufficiently Marxist.
Any other rationale will do just as well. My point is that the opposition is much more important to (most of) these people than the rationale they use to justify that opposition to themselves and others.
Exactly the reason I watch old show reruns 90% of the time.
I was a big 'Bones' fan until the first few shows this year.
The show had Angela in several freaky relationships.
More than I could stomach. Changed channel permanently.
Now THAT is an accurate title if ever there was one.
Being pro-gay means being anti-family. That is par for the course for all liberals.
I agree with your analysis.
The hatred came before the Marxism.
My wife had some (married, female, “mother”) libtard use that term with her when she was pregnant.
My wife didn’t understand the origin of the term, and was rather taken aback when I explained it.

Click here if you want to see pics of "Romeo's approach". A very confused animal, to say the least.
Libs are doing their “father’s” bidding (see tagline).
The attack on the family is infernally inspired,
and libs and gays are simply the vehicles for this attack.
Amen. Great article.
Gay activists’ talk about “tolerance” and “acceptance” is a mouthful of garbage in light of the way they treat those exercising their right to disagree with them.
Gay activists’ behavior shows they want power and control, not mutual respect. Their entire modus operandi consists of exploiting people’s fear of being seen as a hateful bigot.
Their propensity for the arts makes them all the more powerful over our culture and people’s minds. They churn out movies, books and TV shows that promote stereotypes about conservatives, and pit heroic, noble homosexual characters against violent rednecks who have no human qualities. The impressionable have fallen for the meme of the noble gay activist and the wicked conservative. Disapproving of homosexuality is becoming shameful and stigmatized. This is why I cannot stress enough what a tragedy it is for our side that so many conservatives look down on the arts. The arts can be more powerful than any business or army, and this power currently rests in the hands of those who want to trample us.
Well yes, obviously.
Which is why my family does not have cable, satellite, or rabbit ears on our tv(monitor). I buy the movies that we think are good for the children and that is what they watch. It is amazing how few problems we run across when the children don't have a whole raft of tv shows telling them to rebel or be disrespectful.
I said the same thing a few monthes ago and got flamed big time. I got called a racist by several people because I pointed out how disproportianate the tv shows, etc, are.
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