Posted on 07/25/2009 8:02:29 AM PDT by Patriot1259
"I hear from so many Christian women who say there biggest mistake was not having more sex before marriage and now find themselves in such a totally unsatisfying relationship physically. Where is one to learn good sex skills when both partners are ignorant? There is far more to sex than just having intercourse. Studies show about 40% of women never have an orgasm from just intercourse and most women enjoy far more. That is why so many women are sexually frustrated when a man doesn't have a clue- how is he supposed to learn, or the women learn of her own sexuality if they go into marriage clueless without much experience?" (Source, Liberated Christian)
More than nine out of 10 Americans, men and women alike, have had premarital sex, according to a new study. The high rates extend even to women born in the 1940s, challenging perceptions that people were more chaste in the past.
"This is reality-check research," said the study's author, Lawrence Finer. "Premarital sex is normal behavior for the vast majority of Americans, and has been for decades."
(Excerpt) Read more at thecypresstimes.com ...
This sounds like “Emerging Church” Puke to me.
I think they must be reading form the Holey Bible instead of the Holy Bible....
Larry doesn't much sound like he's poised to be an expert of Christian behavior.
reminds me of Steven Waldman...
Um, if you can learn sex outside of marriage, surely you can learn about it in a marriage. Just takes two humans and a really strong, in-born drive. duh.
I saw a thread the other day about a “Christian” group that was pro-abortion because the Bible didn’t not explicitly say it was wrong.
That logic opens up a host of possibilities including making love to a cantaloupe, tree, etc. since the Bible doesn’t explicitly say it is wrong...
Isaiah 5:20 Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!
didn’t not = didn’t
People lose sight of the fact that it doesn’t matter what we “think”. My understanding of the scriptures and Christianity is that any sexual relations outside of marriage is wrong. What I “think” or “feel” doesn’t matter. God, in His infinite wisdom, has given us instructions on how to live and behave. I don’t always understand why - but I do know our Heavenly Father Loves us very much, and these “rules” were given because of that Love.-—JM
I guess if “sexual skills” are what you are looking for, you should marry a prostitute - I hear they’re pretty skilled in that category.
As a woman, the biggest turn-on ever for me is being in the arms of the man I love. The rest just comes naturally. It’s sad, young people today are being sold a $hitty bill of goods - and by churches, of all things.
WHERE WERE THESE GUYS WHEN I WAS 16!!!!
Hey Michelle it totally ok for us to get it on. Yeah it’s in the Bible.
1Co 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
1Co 6:10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
Do they know what fornicators are?
‘Please feel free to leave a comment.’ IS THIS A JOKE? Straight from the mouth of Satan.
Yeah, because having lots of bad sex patners is better than having one bad sex partner.
LOL!
1 Corinthians 10:23 - “All things are lawful, but not all things are profitable. All things are lawful, but not all things edify.”
Paul was specifically addressing eating the meat sacrificed to idols. But for the mature Christian it’s a guide regarding those issues that are not specifically addressed in the Word.
The problem is there are a whole lot of “christians” that care more about finding loopholes to license their sin than in seeking to do Jesus’ will.
They are liars plain and simple.
“Do they know what fornicators are?”
I think they do and disregard scriptures because it “cramps their style.” Being a Christian isn’t always easy. It has given me great Joy - but we also have struggles. A lot of churches now only emphasize Joy, but they also have a duty to talk about the hard things, and that often means going against what the world says. As sad as I am for my country, the moral decline of some of our “churches” pains me more, because at the end of the day, Christ is our only true hope.-—JM
Neck, meet millstone.
To a lot of these ‘poor souls’, be happy you weren’t born into a subsaharin muslim African country/tribe as well as the many modern arab countries.
*facepalms*
LOL! Exactly!
It all started with a LIE in the Garden...
In the Old Testament it is taken for granted that women would be virgins when they married for the first time--see Deuteronomy 22 where it refers to "tokens of virginity." Priests were required to marry virgins (no widows or divorced women).
I Corinthians 6
9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
Yeah, c’mon people, surely ye shall not die or anything...oh...wait...
so then why aren't there more happy marriages? if premarital sex is the answer, and just about everybody is doing it and has been for decades, then most married people should have at least a satisfactory sex life...
Subtitled: "Nothing could be Finer than to be in Caroliner".
Joy comes from the nearness of Christ. Fornication, of course, does not bring you closer to Him.
Someone mentioned that abortion is supposedly not forbidden in the Bible. However, a man who strives with a pregnant woman and kills the baby inside is guilty of murder. Unborn children are described as living souls. Even John the Baptist rejoiced while in the womb when in the presence of the unborn Jesus. We might say the Bible doesn’t forbid the murder of middle-aged schoolteachers or farmers in the field, because they are not specifically mentioned! But killing of all human beings is forbidden, except for the defense of self or others or for capital punishment.
actually isn’t there something in Pslams or Solomon about sex between husband and wife in proper context being a Godly pleasure or more close to the Lord’s presence.
very loosely paraphrased
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