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Anti-Male Domestic Violence Insanity
GlennSacks.com ^ | 6/26/08 | Glenn Sacks

Posted on 06/26/2008 10:51:58 AM PDT by PercivalWalks

This story encapsulates many of the problems with the modern domestic violence system--it's anti-male bias, it's insistence on holding only men accountable and sweeping female violence under the rug, and "Zero Tolerance"-style idiocy.

In this case, the woman says she was just as responsible as her ex was for the domestic violence incident, yet he's the one in jail. Then when she visits him, he's sentenced to serve nine months in jail because he violated his restraining order. How? By not refusing to see her when she visited him in jail!

The best line in the story is this:

Asked how an inmate could have avoided contact with a banned person while incarcerated, District Attorney Evert Fowle said Crandall should have notified jail officials.

"He should have said, 'I'm not supposed to have contact,'" Fowle said.

Get it? See, the woman is a child who should not and cannot be held accountable for her own actions and decisions. The man--because he's the only one in the scenario who can be treated as an adult capable of being held accountable--has to be responsible for her decisions. She decides to visit him? He needs to make the decision for her--or he's punished.

It's kind of a shame, too--instead of playing victim-for-gain, the woman here voluntarily took responsibility for her part in their problems. It's a shame to see her class act turned upside down.

From Jail visits lead to more time locked up (Kennebec Journal, 6/25/08):

AUGUSTA -- As soon as an inmate from Vassalboro had a visitor at the Kennebec County jail in Augusta, he was violating a court order.

Marshall Crandall IV, of Vassalboro, was sentenced to serve nine months in jail Tuesday at a Kennebec County Superior Court hearing after he pleaded guilty to three counts of violating conditions of release for having contact with the visitor.

Crandall, 39, had been arrested April 4 and charged with domestic assault. That charge was dropped Tuesday in exchange for his plea to violating the court order.

A condition of release on the domestic assault charge banned him from contact with the woman -- the same woman who visited him at the jail.

The violations occurred April 5, 10 and 15, when the woman named as the assault victim visited Crandall, according to jail records.

The woman told the judge on Tuesday the domestic assault was mutual, and that she could have been charged with the same offense in the incident.

"I picked him up three or four times and slammed him on the ground," she said.

The incident ended when the woman said she asked a neighbor to call police.

"All I wanted was for them to take him for the day so I could move my stuff out of the house," she said.

Crandall was indicted in 2002 on charges of assault, violating conditions of release, violating a protective order, aggravated criminal trespass and tampering with a victim, among other offenses, and was on probation for some of them when the April 4 domestic assault charge was lodged.

Crandall's attorney, Hank Hainke, said afterward he expects Crandall to be successful on probation this time.

"My client's been in jail for 82 days, and he thinks this is a good way for him to handle this matter," Hainke told Justice Donald Marden.

Now that the assault charge is dropped, Crandall is not prohibited from seeing the woman.

To learn more about the problems with the domestic violence system, click here.

Glenn Sacks, www.GlennSacks.com

[Note: If you or someone you love is faced with a divorce or needs help with child custody, child support, false accusations, Parental Alienation, or other family law or criminal law matters, ask Glenn for help by clicking here.]


TOPICS: Miscellaneous; Society
KEYWORDS: domesticviolence

1 posted on 06/26/2008 10:52:02 AM PDT by PercivalWalks
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To: PercivalWalks

Doesn’t make any sense. He was in jail. There were cops everywhere. Even if he was a danger to her, there was no way he was going to do anything from inside the jail. People got no common sense anymore...


2 posted on 06/26/2008 10:56:52 AM PDT by JamesP81 (George Orwell's 1984 was a warning, not a suggestion)
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To: PercivalWalks

I always thought restraining orders worked two ways.


3 posted on 06/26/2008 11:02:37 AM PDT by Free Vulcan (No prisoners. No mercy. Fight back or STFU!!!)
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To: JamesP81
This is a rich topic. Why is it that I only happen to know male victims of domestic violence. I think think there may be quite a few abusive women-folk out there.

It's one of those terrible feminist efforts that makes it tough for the real female victims of domestic violence. It's usually about an agenda to weaken families, while showing no real compassion for the true victims, and for real cases of abuse.

The latest ABA study on domestic violence is apparantly extremely biased against men. No surprise there, but sad, because they really thwart justice, in the name of ideology.

4 posted on 06/26/2008 11:03:17 AM PDT by elk
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To: PercivalWalks
Now that the assault charge is dropped, Crandall is not prohibited from seeing the woman.

Although I wonder why he would want to. She basically kicked his @$$, then sent him to jail. I wouldn't want to ever see her again. Ever. But, the fact that she can whup on him like that probably means he is not able to be that choosey about whom he spends his time with.

5 posted on 06/26/2008 11:11:44 AM PDT by webheart
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To: PercivalWalks
I don't mind men being held to a higher standard than are women so much as I mind feminist activists in positions of authority throughout society promoting the idea that all men are born abusers. A certain 'Ad Council' commercial comes to mind admonishing (who else) fathers to teach their sons "all violence against women is wrong". Leaving aside the question of self defense I do believe most males understand that intuitively.

I can only imagine the outrage if any other demographic was stereotyped in that manner.

6 posted on 06/26/2008 11:21:54 AM PDT by skeeter
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To: PercivalWalks

I’ve lost so much respect for the law over the last 20 years (or at least since the Mark Fuhrman trial). Makes me wonder when the entire system will bottom-out so we can start over again.


7 posted on 06/26/2008 11:52:02 AM PDT by ArchAngel1983 (Arch Angel- on guard)
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To: ArchAngel1983

He pled, there was no trial.


8 posted on 06/26/2008 12:00:16 PM PDT by marajade (Yes, I'm a SW freak!)
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To: PercivalWalks

One wonders why the jailers weren’t charged with aiding the suspect in violating his PO.


9 posted on 07/22/2008 10:39:48 AM PDT by Smedley (It's a sad day for American capitalism when a man can't fly a midget on a kite over Central Park)
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