Posted on 09/03/2017 6:04:56 PM PDT by BJ1
It is immoral and illegal to take money from a house when you are married. the additional debt is counted against both parties. if you own it alone it may not be illegal but you are subject to lender conditions that might involve the spouse.
Most lender guidelines are federal.
>As mentioned before, MGTOWs fatal flaw is its failure to address fatherhood.
More like it’s fatal flaw is that’s it’s pointless. Without family men are nothing.
Not my generation,we all stayed home,but my daughters and daughters in law,with one exception, kept working.
They are all still married,the grandkids are young adults,and it all worked out for everyone.
We have to do what is right for us,I guess,and no one should shame anyone for their choice.
Enjoy your family. :-)
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What has always amazed me is how women will use their children in a divorce. They will use them in court and emotionally as a tool against the husband in a divorce. They seem oblivious of the damage they are doing to their own child. It is like the child is naught but a possession.
Happened to me. I lost twice in court. Third time he was old enough to express his desires of which parent he wanted to live with. It did not go to court. She just signed the papers. It was odd but as she was signing the papers the reality hit her and tears streamed down her face. I actually wanted to comfort her but did not. That would have been a horrible error.
Conspiring to bring down the institution of marriage is one of the core agendas of the enemies of this country.
Many useful idiots have unknowingly joined in the move toward cultural breakdown, an effect traceable to the influence of the Frankfort School and of course farther back to whoever convinced those guys to believe the lies.
But all of them on the left, from the masterminds who knowingly lie to the most useless of the useful idiots, are incapable of understanding the simplest and most basic principles underlying their entire philosophy.
LOL. This goes all the way back to Eve and the apple...
“If this offends you may I ask if this hits a little close to home for your comfort?
Take care honey...*snicker”
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No,*snicker*,I’m not offended,why on earth would I be?
By the way,”honey”,I was a classic fifties housewife who has grandchildren who are young adults.
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I agree,using the child as a weapon is HORRIBLE.
Glad all worked out for you this last time.
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And then you will hear the cries of these exact same women about “where have all the good men gone?”
JoMa
>>While most of the women who are leaving their husbands, about 90 percent are doing so because they have had or are intending to have an extramarital affair, it is not the only reason.
90%. And then she’ll say, “It’s not me, it’s YOU!”
It does indeed.
Adam blamed not only Eve, but God as well. Eve directly and God indirectly.
It was the women GOD gave him.
Double blame-shifting.
Did not intend to be rude.
But I did intend to be sarcastically caustic in opposing your viewpoint...just because...internet.
Be well.
Yep, it has become a requirement to do so, regardless of how much or little you have. If she laughs at you, simply point at the door and tell her not to let it hit her ever-expanding rump on the way out.
You weren’t rude-——no problem.
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That's been the Left’s goal for 100 years.
Self-administered genocide. Darwin awards for an entire culture.
Margaret Sanger herself advocated NO MORE BABIES for ANY women in Western Europe for a period of 10 years following WWII and no concern that a woman who WANTS to choose to have a baby may be unable to have one after that 10 year moratorium lifted.
In the 1970s feminazis were saying that a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle.
In a divorce each side is always claiming the other is screwing them and both are nervous about what is going to happen. . The assets should be frozen at time of separation. Borrowing money against a house when the other party has an interest without their approval is immoral and illegal. Good night.
I bet plenty of career women are envious of SAHMs. But thats probably just my male chauvinism rearing its ugly head.
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Yep, no doubt about it.
I’m happy that I stayed home with my kids until they were all in school, but I was also thrilled to go back to work.
I stayed at home for 8 years, and it was some of the hardness, stressful, lonely, mundane years of my life. You can also add thankless to the list. As proof by your comment.
I went back to work doing a very labor intensive job in a field of men. They all told me that very few other women would do this job, and they didn’t expect me to last long. I told them to try being a SAHM for 8 years.
It’s been 7 years now, and I’m still at that job.
Thank your wife.
Ahh, stereotypes abound.
I’m pretty sure in the “good old days” men didn’t routinely pimp out their wives. But then I guess I could have missed that in chapter in US History.
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