Posted on 08/29/2015 11:37:09 AM PDT by nickcarraway
“He knows that I cheated on my ex, and he still trusts me,” she said.
Fool.
Sounds like a made up story to me. Who would want to have sex with an unfaithful wife? AM was a hatchery for STDs.
“He knows that I cheated on my ex, and he still trusts me,” she said.
Then he’s a fool - liars & adulterers never change.
her husband lost all interest...at age 23.
I wonder if the husband was gay?
Reminds me of Penthouse Forum.
“Lisa”, honey, it could still be you. For a report like this, we need to have her ex- to tell his side of the story.
Why would a young (I presume) ‘funny and driven’ guy turned into a deeply depressed person after two years of marriage?
“.... no matter how hard I tried to fix him, he wasn’t getting better, and he wasn’t showing any signs of desire or intimacy ....”
What do you mean ‘no matter how hard I tried to fix him’, did you give him some personal space and privacy? Did you go through marriage counseling to hear his side of complaints?
No, dearie, you just decided you needed to feel being desired all the time.
If the marriage was troubled, I can see he would lose interest in sex with HER, not necessarily lose interest in sex altogether.
I have little sympathy for her. No matter how hard she tried to fix him??. Where in the hell does she get off deciding that she has to fix him?? Where do women get the idea that they need to “fix” the men in their lives???
Flame away.................
no flaming from me. No one can fix someone else. That was one of many redflag lines in her story. That, and the assumption that he needed “fixed” in her mind. I still don’t fully believe a 23-year-old lost all interest in sex for no reason. It’s just her potentially-delusional version. And...it’s just HER.
Well, sooner or later you and your flavor-of-the-month adulterous husband are going to be sick of each other, too. Then what?
It would be almost comical if it wasn’t so tragic to hear accounts of how being unfaithful to their spouse improved their lives.
How many families have been ripped apart with spouses and children traumatized by affairs?
Actually, that isn’t necessarily true.
Women very have been known to want someone younger or better looking than they can easily attract. Especially if they have had several kids and haven’t taken care of their bodies.
Or they may desire stamina or some specific physical characteristics.
They may have to go to some lengths to get that.
Scripture says that they can.
Not really much of a story.
Trying to FIX someone is the big big mistake. You have to fix yourself. You cannot fix someone else.
That has been an all time favorite of mine, never heard anyone even mention it before. Kewl ( Charlene- I’ve Never Been To Me)
Exactly— changing men does not change your inner self-image, other than a temporary fix..
Interesting. There’s a lot of truth in that.
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Cheatin’ slut.
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