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The Talk: Nonblack Version
Taki's Magazine ^ | April 5th, 2012 | John Derbyshire

Posted on 08/18/2014 6:20:48 PM PDT by Third Person

There is much talk about “the talk.”

“Sean O’Reilly was 16 when his mother gave him the talk that most black parents give their teenage sons,” Denisa R. Superville of the Hackensack (NJ) Record tells us. Meanwhile, down in Atlanta: “Her sons were 12 and 8 when Marlyn Tillman realized it was time for her to have the talk,” Gracie Bonds Staples writes in the Fort Worth Star-Telegram.

Leonard Greene talks about the talk in the New York Post. Someone bylined as KJ Dell’Antonia talks about the talk in The New York Times. Darryl Owens talks about the talk in the Orlando Sentinel.

Yes, talk about the talk is all over.

There is a talk that nonblack Americans have with their kids, too. My own kids, now 19 and 16, have had it in bits and pieces as subtopics have arisen. If I were to assemble it into a single talk, it would look something like the following.

(1) Among your fellow citizens are forty million who identify as black, and whom I shall refer to as black. The cumbersome (and MLK-noncompliant) term “African-American” seems to be in decline, thank goodness. “Colored” and “Negro” are archaisms. What you must call “the ‘N’ word” is used freely among blacks but is taboo to nonblacks.

“There is a talk that nonblack Americans have with their kids, too.” (2) American blacks are descended from West African populations, with some white and aboriginal-American admixture. The overall average of non-African admixture is 20-25 percent. The admixture distribution is nonlinear, though: “It seems that around 10 percent of the African American population is more than half European in ancestry.” (Same link.)

(3) Your own ancestry is mixed north-European and northeast-Asian, but blacks will take you to be white.

(4) The default principle in everyday personal encounters is, that as a fellow citizen, with the same rights and obligations as yourself, any individual black is entitled to the same courtesies you would extend to a nonblack citizen. That is basic good manners and good citizenship. In some unusual circumstances, however—e.g., paragraph (10h) below—this default principle should be overridden by considerations of personal safety.

(5) As with any population of such a size, there is great variation among blacks in every human trait (except, obviously, the trait of identifying oneself as black). They come fat, thin, tall, short, dumb, smart, introverted, extroverted, honest, crooked, athletic, sedentary, fastidious, sloppy, amiable, and obnoxious. There are black geniuses and black morons. There are black saints and black psychopaths. In a population of forty million, you will find almost any human type. Only at the far, far extremes of certain traits are there absences. There are, for example, no black Fields Medal winners. While this is civilizationally consequential, it will not likely ever be important to you personally. Most people live and die without ever meeting (or wishing to meet) a Fields Medal winner.

(6) As you go through life, however, you will experience an ever larger number of encounters with black Americans. Assuming your encounters are random—for example, not restricted only to black convicted murderers or to black investment bankers—the Law of Large Numbers will inevitably kick in. You will observe that the means—the averages—of many traits are very different for black and white Americans, as has been confirmed by methodical inquiries in the human sciences.

(7) Of most importance to your personal safety are the very different means for antisocial behavior, which you will see reflected in, for instance, school disciplinary measures, political corruption, and criminal convictions.

(8) These differences are magnified by the hostility many blacks feel toward whites. Thus, while black-on-black behavior is more antisocial in the average than is white-on-white behavior, average black-on-white behavior is a degree more antisocial yet.

(9) A small cohort of blacks—in my experience, around five percent—is ferociously hostile to whites and will go to great lengths to inconvenience or harm us. A much larger cohort of blacks—around half—will go along passively if the five percent take leadership in some event. They will do this out of racial solidarity, the natural willingness of most human beings to be led, and a vague feeling that whites have it coming.

(10) Thus, while always attentive to the particular qualities of individuals, on the many occasions where you have nothing to guide you but knowledge of those mean differences, use statistical common sense:

(10a) Avoid concentrations of blacks not all known to you personally.

(10b) Stay out of heavily black neighborhoods.

(10c) If planning a trip to a beach or amusement park at some date, find out whether it is likely to be swamped with blacks on that date (neglect of that one got me the closest I have ever gotten to death by gunshot).

(10d) Do not attend events likely to draw a lot of blacks.

(10e) If you are at some public event at which the number of blacks suddenly swells, leave as quickly as possible.

(10f) Do not settle in a district or municipality run by black politicians.

(10g) Before voting for a black politician, scrutinize his/her character much more carefully than you would a white.

(10h) Do not act the Good Samaritan to blacks in apparent distress, e.g., on the highway.

(10i) If accosted by a strange black in the street, smile and say something polite but keep moving.

(11) The mean intelligence of blacks is much lower than for whites. The least intelligent ten percent of whites have IQs below 81; forty percent of blacks have IQs that low. Only one black in six is more intelligent than the average white; five whites out of six are more intelligent than the average black. These differences show in every test of general cognitive ability that anyone, of any race or nationality, has yet been able to devise. They are reflected in countless everyday situations. “Life is an IQ test.”

(12) There is a magnifying effect here, too, caused by affirmative action. In a pure meritocracy there would be very low proportions of blacks in cognitively demanding jobs. Because of affirmative action, the proportions are higher. In government work, they are very high. Thus, in those encounters with strangers that involve cognitive engagement, ceteris paribus the black stranger will be less intelligent than the white. In such encounters, therefore—for example, at a government office—you will, on average, be dealt with more competently by a white than by a black. If that hostility-based magnifying effect (paragraph 8) is also in play, you will be dealt with more politely, too. “The DMV lady“ is a statistical truth, not a myth.

(13) In that pool of forty million, there are nonetheless many intelligent and well-socialized blacks. (I’ll use IWSB as an ad hoc abbreviation.) You should consciously seek opportunities to make friends with IWSBs. In addition to the ordinary pleasures of friendship, you will gain an amulet against potentially career-destroying accusations of prejudice.

(14) Be aware, however, that there is an issue of supply and demand here. Demand comes from organizations and businesses keen to display racial propriety by employing IWSBs, especially in positions at the interface with the general public—corporate sales reps, TV news presenters, press officers for government agencies, etc.—with corresponding depletion in less visible positions. There is also strong private demand from middle- and upper-class whites for personal bonds with IWSBs, for reasons given in the previous paragraph and also (next paragraph) as status markers.

(15) Unfortunately the demand is greater than the supply, so IWSBs are something of a luxury good, like antique furniture or corporate jets: boasted of by upper-class whites and wealthy organizations, coveted by the less prosperous. To be an IWSB in present-day US society is a height of felicity rarely before attained by any group of human beings in history. Try to curb your envy: it will be taken as prejudice (see paragraph 13).

You don’t have to follow my version of the talk point for point; but if you are white or Asian and have kids, you owe it to them to give them some version of the talk. It will save them a lot of time and trouble spent figuring things out for themselves. It may save their lives.


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1 posted on 08/18/2014 6:20:48 PM PDT by Third Person
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To: Third Person

I believe this piece got Derbyshire fired from National Review.


2 posted on 08/18/2014 6:23:20 PM PDT by Menehune56 ("Let them hate so long as they fear" (Oderint Dum Metuant), Lucius Accius (170 BC - 86 BC))
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To: Third Person

Truth is often a painful thing. However, celebrate diversity! (that’s my attempt at wry humor)


3 posted on 08/18/2014 6:25:46 PM PDT by Dr. Thorne ("Don't be afraid. Just believe." - Mark 5:36)
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To: Menehune56

Yep.


4 posted on 08/18/2014 6:27:39 PM PDT by vladimir998
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To: Third Person
Derbyshire has also written two excellent books on mathematics. "Unknown Quantity" and "Prime Obsession."
5 posted on 08/18/2014 6:31:58 PM PDT by Neanderthal
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To: Menehune56

too bad, can’t argue with what he wrote.


6 posted on 08/18/2014 6:32:58 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man ( Gone Galt; Not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: Third Person

Is the IQ stats supported?


7 posted on 08/18/2014 6:41:25 PM PDT by Raycpa
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To: Menehune56

An example of why the left will ultimately win if things don’t change. They play for keeps, and we worry about what they think of us.


8 posted on 08/18/2014 6:43:07 PM PDT by PghBaldy (12/14 - 930am -rampage begins... 12/15 - 1030am - Obama's advance team scouts photo-op locations.)
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To: Third Person

What kinda talks do Hispanics give their kids?


9 posted on 08/18/2014 6:45:21 PM PDT by ealgeone (obama, borderof)
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To: ealgeone

drink your ovaltine


10 posted on 08/18/2014 6:47:41 PM PDT by knarf (I say things that are true .. I have no proof .. but they're true.)
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FReepers, Let's go!
Everyone needs to donate!



11 posted on 08/18/2014 6:51:08 PM PDT by RedMDer (May we always be happy and may our enemies always know it. - Sarah Palin, 10-18-2010)
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To: Secret Agent Man

I do argue with one point.

(10g) Before voting for a black politician, scrutinize his/her character much more carefully than you would a white.

My rule would be - Assume all politicians are crooked, no matter their skin color. Scrutinize them carefully before ever trusting them.


12 posted on 08/18/2014 6:51:28 PM PDT by UCANSEE2 (Lost my tagline on Flight MH370. Sorry for the inconvenience.)
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To: Third Person

We have seen this racist rant before.


13 posted on 08/18/2014 6:51:40 PM PDT by BenLurkin (This is not a statement of fact. It is either opinion or satire; or both.)
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To: Third Person

In all the entire history of the English language, this is one of the masterworks that can stand alongside of even Shakespeare!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I loved it then, and I love it now.


14 posted on 08/18/2014 6:57:04 PM PDT by Doctor 2Brains
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To: BenLurkin

We have, and it is just as true, magnificent, perfect, beautiful, and timeless then as it is now.


15 posted on 08/18/2014 6:58:40 PM PDT by Doctor 2Brains
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To: Secret Agent Man
too bad, can’t argue with what he wrote.

Yes, he was definitely NOT PC on this one.

16 posted on 08/18/2014 6:58:50 PM PDT by Mark17 (Obama & Nero? Both Emperors. The difference is Nero played a fiddle, while Obama plays a "flute")
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To: BenLurkin
We have seen this racist rant before.

It's obviously not a rant.

And it's not racist. It's racial.

17 posted on 08/18/2014 6:59:23 PM PDT by Flycatcher (God speaks to us, through the supernal lightness of birds, in a special type of poetry.)
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To: Menehune56

You are correct, and 10 years ago, it would have, unfortunately, gotten him banned from FR.


18 posted on 08/18/2014 6:59:32 PM PDT by Doctor 2Brains
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To: Third Person

Point #12 is spot on, in my experience.


19 posted on 08/18/2014 7:02:15 PM PDT by Misterioso (Obama is our first postmodern president. Philosophy is dead.)
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To: Doctor 2Brains

You remember the good old days when FR was more liberal? Maybe you should brush up on its history.


20 posted on 08/18/2014 7:06:57 PM PDT by Misterioso (Obama is our first postmodern president. Philosophy is dead.)
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