You are neither conservative nor pro-gay.
But you most certainly are confused.
Don’t listen to some of these responses. Homosexuality is not a tenant of conservatism. Smaller government, more individual freedom and fiscal responsibility are the pillars of conservatism. while I am against gay marriages, as it goes against both the Bible, and the sole purpose of marriage in recognizing and advertising for procreation, opposition to this view IMO does not disqualify someone from conservatism.