.."gonna need a pallet full of Kit Kat bars to get outta this one"
Posted on 07/29/2010 8:19:25 AM PDT by MissTed
Finding out that your significant other is cheating on you is hard.
Finding out that your significant other has a second spouse is even harder.
Finding out that your significant other has a second spouse when you see their wedding photos on Facebook? That's a whole 'nother level of hard.
WKYC has the story of a woman who they call "Megan" who went through just such an ordeal.
The Cleveland woman's husband was a businessman who traveled often, so at first she didn't think much of his frequent absences. She became suspicious eventually, especially after her family pointed her towards the Facebook page of a woman who seemed to be spending plenty of personal time with her man. Of course, what happened in Vegas or China or wherever the hell he was flying to didn't stay there, not when his mistress was posting pictures and updates of her time with him.
The real kicker for the Cleveland woman was when she logged on recently and saw photos from her husband's wedding with his second wife. Here's what "Megan" had to say:
"It's rubbing that salt into the wound of already finding out that my husband's having an affair," Megan said. "The pictures are out there for the world to see. It's not just that I have the knowledge, but I see the proof and everyone I know sees the proof and people I don't know see the proof."
"If they're going to have the affair, they're going to have the affair," she said. "But it's extra. It adds impact to the hurt, when they're posting the things they post about the affair. Pictures of the vacations they're taking with the other, the lover, the extra person. (Facebook posts) just cause a whole new hurt."
See, guys. If you're going to have an affair, you're going to have an affair. Just don't post the pictures of your second wife on Facebook. That's when the first wife tends to get upset.
One has to be careful about such things. lol
I wonder is she was a suggested “friend”.
Fail all around.
I think we can all see the cause of this....
“The Cleveland woman’s..”
If they didn’t live in cleveland he wouldn’t have had to travel away from it so often....
scumbag, both the husband and the “second” wife.
Megan ought to take this man to the cleaners.
A certain cheating husband is about to get his clock cleaned by a yet to be determined divorce attorney. Wouldn’t want to be him!
So much for privacy.
Important safety tip there. Thanks Egon.
.."gonna need a pallet full of Kit Kat bars to get outta this one"
:)
Exactly, Scythian. There was a time when that would go without saying. *sigh*
“If they didn’t live in cleveland he wouldn’t have had to travel away from it so often....”
Wow, that’s pretty clever.
Did you just think that one up, because I’ve never heard anything like that before?
Nice job, Skippy.
I think this was a Simpson’s episode.
I think this was a Simpson’s episode.
Paging Lorana Bobbit.
Thanks.... OH, you’re from... eh hem..
Gosh! & I thought that I put up with a lot of crap!
Gosh! & I thought that I put up with a lot of crap!
“Thanks.... OH, you’re from... eh hem..”
And you’ve probably never been there, nor have you taken into account that a city reference usually includes the surrounding metro area.
But please, don’t allow lack of information to impede you. Ignorance on display for all to see is entertaining. That’s what this thread is about, isn’t it?
If you’re concerned about privacy, you’re not going to be vomiting the details of your personal life or other sensitive information all over the web - or you’re going to learn how to use privacy options.
Face it, LucyJo, every time you write something right here on FR you disclose a little bit about yourself. Anyone determined enough could probably find out a lot about you just by doing a search on your FR posts. FR does have several search options - and no privacy options. The results are available to anyone.
Without photos of both wives, it is impossible to determine guilt
Yes, that was exactly my point.
There was a time when this woman’s problems would have been gossip fodder within their personal sphere. Now, they are gossip fodder for the www. This thread is one example.
In the movie Blaze, Earl Long said:
A man has to be discreet in his indiscretion.
One of my all time favorite lines
For all anyone knows, this is a made up story on a slow news day. The only verifiable item in the entire article is that there is a website called Facebook. Personally, I don’t think anything is real about this.
They make it difficult to kill your account. They will deactivate it but reactivate it in a moment’s notice if someone attempts to log in.
Barack Obama’s mother was a “second woman” (daddy Obama was already married). Doesn’t mean that the spouse knew the groom was already married.
I concur.
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