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How the pro-family movement helped spread “gay marriage” across America
massresistance.org ^ | 10/10/2014 | n/a

Posted on 10/10/2014 8:04:35 PM PDT by massmike

The “gay marriage” steamroller is in the news again, with another big win in the courts. Pro-family people across the country are wringing their hands in anguish. How is this happening? Well, it’s about time we started being honest with ourselves. In many ways, the biggest help to the homosexual cause has been the dishonesty, incompetence, and cowardliness of the pro-family movement itself in dealing with this issue.

On Monday, Oct. 6, the U.S. Supreme Court announced that it would not review any of the seven appeals from five states where federal judges had “struck down” the states’ bans on “gay marriage.” This decision not to act is seen as a major blow.

It is not altogether final. There are two other federal cases pending, and if either of those rule to uphold the ban (which is likely) many experts predict that the Supreme Court will then take it up and decide. In particular, the Sixth Circuit is most likely (though not certain) to rule to uphold the ban.

However, it looks to be a losing court battle in the long run. Just a decade ago no one would have dreamed that the federal court system would be forcing such a perverse thing on Americans, especially where they’ve voted overwhelmingly against it statewide.

Until just a few years ago, “gay marriage” was still an anomaly that took enormous effort to “legalize.” It had been voted down in 31 states in a row. In a few states the homosexual lobby was able to get activist state judges to rule their way, starting with Massachusetts in 2003. But their main successes came from a campaign of expensive and sophisticated lobbying in a handful of liberal state legislatures.

In 2012 they were able to win in their first four statewide referenda by outspending the pro-family opponents by enormous margins. And additional liberal state legislatures fell to their lobbying blitz. But most of the country was still unreachable by that radical agenda.

Then came the DOMA and Prop 8 decisions by the US Supreme Court in 2013. That was the watershed moment that opened the floodgates. In the months since, the homosexual movement has been on a roll in the federal courts. With astonishing speed, they persuaded dishonest, activist federal judges to cavalierly overturn state laws and even constitutional amendments in state after state that banned “gay marriage.”

This didn’t happen by accident. The homosexual movement put together an extremely well funded and well planned campaign to push this through the courts. It included:

Bringing together skilled attorneys, staffs, assorted experts

Shrewd judge-shopping

A very well crafted, emotionally compelling legal argument

A media and public relations juggernaut

“Training” sessions for judges on “gay marriage” by sympathetic bar associations

Psychologically focused lobbying of judges and other high officials (e.g., telling them, “it’s on the right side of history” – the classic Marxist dictum)

Effectively using the influence of a new generation of gullible, liberal activist federal judges (many of whom were unopposed by Republicans in their Senate confirmations)

The main legal hammer was the clear misuse of the Fourteenth Amendment “equal protection” clause, which was endorsed by the US Supreme court in the DOMA ruling. On its face, it’s an absurd attempt at legal reasoning that depends on such ideas as homosexuals being a legitimate “class” of people, rather than simply people engaging in perverse and dangerous behaviors. But it is now an “official” legal construct with the imprimatur of the Supreme Court, and can be wielded with considerable power.

Most of this was happening below the radar of the average person, so these cases looked like a relatively normal set of circumstances, not the gargantuan legal blitzkrieg that it actually was. In fact, it’s likely that nothing like this has ever been seen before in America, or anywhere else.

The resulting string of federal court losses have had the psychological effect on the pro-family movement as happened in early WWII with the Japanese takeover of the Pacific. Virtually everything fell, and that momentum seemed unstoppable.

As overwhelming as the “gay” blitzkrieg was, it would not have been successful without the terrible incompetence of the lawyers on our side. This included pro-family lawyers, state attorneys general, and even private lawyers hired to assist.

It's painful for us to discuss this. We are reluctant to sound unkind to the pro-family legal people who worked hard on these cases. But this is such a horrible outcome that something must be said.

Many of you may recall that we had a similar reaction to the pro-family legal team in our analysis of DOMA and Prop-8 cases.

Both of those cases suffered from an unaggressive and short-sighted approach that bordered on malpractice. The pro-family side did not present a credible case in either one. They were deathly afraid that telling the truth about homosexuality might offend someone. By not effectively countering the absurd arguments and assumptions by the homosexual movement, they made it easy for the judges to rule as they did.

The handling of the Prop 8 case was so bad that the Federal District Court judge — the "out" homosexual — rebuked the pro-family lawyers for the lack of evidence they presented! It was almost as if the judge had no choice but to rule against us, based on what he had to work with.

Since then, the same losing strategy has been repeated over and over across the country. Similar to the Prop 8 debacle, in some cases it's been so pathetic that the judge almost had no choice but to award the ruling to the homosexual side.

Many conservatives were furious at the nasty manner that Federal Judge Richard Posner slapped down the arguments from the lawyers of Wisconsin and Indiana. The pro-homosexual press certainly had a field day with it. But if you read the reports carefully, you can almost feel a bit of empathy for Posner having to listen to pathetic legal arguments that never went beyond “marriage is a tradition” or that “ it’s about the welfare of children.”

It’s especially frustrating to know that there are so many excellent and unassailable (albeit not “politically correct”) arguments and facts about homosexual behavior that were never used.

The pro-family lawyers refused to consider using the vast storehouse of medical dangers, diseases, psychological problems, addictions, domestic violence rates, multiple partners, “gay pride” perversions, or suicidal behavior, etc. associated with homosexuality, as counter-arguments. They wouldn’t bring up natural law or morality. They certainly would not talk about the emotional trauma suffered by children growing up around homosexual behavior. Nor would they talk about the ex-gay movement (proof that homosexuality is not inborn) and the changes that come with healing.

Instead our side came up with only soft arguments like "every child needs a father and a mother," “marriage is about procreation, ” the need to respect “the long history of traditional marriage,” and similar blather. In fact, many lawyers on our side accepted civil unions as a reasonable alternative and had no argument against homosexual "parenting" — which made their "mother and father" argument impossible to defend.

Logically speaking, if homosexual behavior is not dangerous and immoral, but simply something we don’t prefer, then there is no reason not to let them same-sex couples marry. Our people made their own case virtually unwinnable.

Possibly even worse, they accepted the concept of homosexuals as a “class” of people, which led right into the absurd pro-gay-rights interpretation of the Fourteenth Amendment.

To be fair, the recent legal fight only reflected the ideological decay that has enveloped most of the pro-family movement across America. Though most people probably haven’t even noticed it, this has emasculated our movement severely.

Current Massachusetts State Law still describes homosexuality as "the abominable and detestable crime against nature." The Bible has similar exhortations. But you wouldn’t know it by looking at how today’s mainstream “pro-family” movement in America sidesteps, compromises, and capitulates on the issue.

This problem is most pronounced when you look at in context over time. In the early 1990’s the national homosexual movement began pushing an informal list of demands, which they vigorously pursued in nearly all their actions.

Those goals from the early 1990s included:

Tolerance of homosexual behavior in general society

Homosexuality as not immoral, but natural

The concept of loving homosexual couples as a legitimate part of society

Homosexuals as a “class” of people protected in law, not a behavior

Official legal sanctions of homosexual “civil unions” (marriage was to wait until later)

Acceptance of the concept of young “gay students” — who need protection in schools

Acceptance of homosexual couples adopting children

Laws to ban discrimination against homosexuality in the workplace

At the time they seemed outlandish and offensive. But now — incredibly — every one of those demands is accepted in some way (or not publicly challenged) by the mainstream pro-family movement in America.

Furthermore, it is almost impossible to find a pro-family group that will speak publicly against any of those demands; on the contrary, many pro-family groups will rebuke you as “hateful” if you do.

A few examples (out of hundreds we could bring up):

Numerous state and national pro-family groups have publicly supported civil unions and refused to challenge the concept of “gay” adoptions.

The president of a national pro-marriage organization was featured in a video of his visit to the home of notorious anti-Christion hater Dan Savage and his “husband” to show his tolerance of their lifestyle.

In 2009, the founder and then-board member of a national pro-marriage organization told a crowd at Boston College Law School, “It’s possible that gay couples could on average be much better parents than opposite-sex couples precisely because they don’t have children as a result of sexual passion.”

This year, a major theme of the annual rally of a national pro-marriage organization was “tolerance” and showing that we’re “not haters.”

Recently the largest pro-family group in Utah posted a nasty attack against a longtime Utah pro-family leader because she had described gay parenting as “child abuse.”

To our knowledge, no national pro-family conference (generally held in Washington, DC) has had a speaker on homosexual medical issues or the homosexual agenda in the schools.

Much of this comes about because pro-family people are afraid of liberals and don’t want to be called names. They want to be seen as “reasonable.” They want to be nice. There is a lot of more cowardice in the pro-family movement than most of us would like to admit.

A great deal of this also emanates from a deeply flawed interpretation of Scripture, which puts being “nice” and “loving” on a higher level than stopping evil, protecting children, or even telling the truth. This is the first religious-based movement we know of — certainly in America — that has done that.

We can learn a lot from the emerging pro-family groups in other countries. From Jamaica to Africa to Eastern Europe and beyond, we have seen pro-family groups that are fearless, truthful, and understand the battle very clearly.

And to be fair, there are some U.S. pro-family groups on the state and national level — and many smaller informal groups — that do the right thing. But sadly, they are in the distinct minority.

Can a federal judge re-define marriage years after a state’s voters have had their say? Does the US Constitution give the federal government authority over this kind of issue? Many feel that it’s a ridiculous idea and an unbelievable stretch constitutionally.

In fact, the framers of the US Constitution and most state constitutions intended for the courts to have very narrow powers, usually limited to disputes over a case at hand. They did not want judges to be able to act as unelected dictators, creating, changing, and removing laws as they pleased, and re-defining basic terms or changing their intent. Judges have always been known to be imperfect, and are often swayed by emotion, the political climate, and egotism. The infamous Dred Scott decision is often brought up as an example, but there many others.

Within hours of the October 6 notification by the Supreme Court, top public officials (including some “conservative” Republicans) in Colorado, Wisconsin, Indiana, Utah, and Virginia declared that gay marriage was now “the law of the land” (or similar rhetoric) and announced that they would immediately begin to comply. In other states, officials are holding back.

It brings back memories of 2004 when then-Governor Mitt Romney of Massachusetts was passionately advised by numerous legal commentators around the country to push back and not extend the Goodridge “gay marriage” ruling to the entire state. There was no legal requirement for him to do anything, they argued. But instead, Romney declared that “it’s the law now” and went ahead and began implementing "gay marriage."

Indeed, many scholars have argued that courts’ rulings outside of their particular cases are not “law” and officials are not compelled to treat them as general law. Furthermore, what we have now are simply more “Dred Scott” types of decisions by a federal judiciary that is out of control. State officials and citizens must look at it in that light.

In the context of history one can’t overstate how insane the actions of the federal courts have been in their “gay marriage” revolution. They are declaring the equivalent of 1 + 1 = 3, that the fictional construct of “gay marriage” (with its nonsensical label “marriage equality”) not only exists but must be recognized by an unwilling citizenry.

We have all suffered because pro-family groups, religious groups, and legal groups have too often taken the easy road and have abandoned their moral obligation to tell the truth. It saddens us to have to say that so bluntly, but it's true.

A refocusing of our movement, at least by those willing to take on the battle, must take place.

NEXT: What we all must do.


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1 posted on 10/10/2014 8:04:35 PM PDT by massmike
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To: massmike

What is the gay agenda? How did it happen? How did it take over America in such a short time? What is the force behind it? How is it changing the country, and us?

The must-read book that explains the homosexual movement in America

http://www.massresistance.org/docs/gen2/14d/reilly-book-review/index.html


2 posted on 10/10/2014 8:06:31 PM PDT by massmike ("You only live once, but it does help if you get to be young twice.")
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To: massmike

How different America would have been without Bishop Romney.

No gay marriage.
No ObamaCARE.
No Obama.


3 posted on 10/10/2014 8:07:33 PM PDT by Diogenesis (The EXEMPT Congress is complicit in the absence of impeachment)
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To: massmike
Yeah. Well. At one time The Supreme Court decided blacks were property.

God straightened that idiocy out in a big way.

4 posted on 10/10/2014 8:15:07 PM PDT by Texas Eagle (If it wasn't for double-standards, Liberals would have no standards at all -- Texas Eagle)
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To: massmike

Excellent analysis, we should all strive to understand why we are losing and learn rather than just whine and blame others. Even a lousy team wins when there is little or weak defense.


5 posted on 10/10/2014 8:15:12 PM PDT by bigbob (The best way to get a bad law repealed is to enforce it strictly. Abraham Lincoln)
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To: massmike

“It’s possible that gay couples could on average be much better parents than opposite-sex couples precisely because they don’t have children as a result of sexual passion.”

Adopting a child to molest is apparently not the result of sexual passion


6 posted on 10/10/2014 8:15:31 PM PDT by Viennacon (Obola is a muslim terrorist & his viral illegals need to be deported NOW!)
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To: massmike
What is the gay agenda?

To stick a finger in God's eye. To steal from, kill, and destroy souls.

How did it happen?

Christians didn't do their job of being salt and light.

How did it take over America in such a short time?

See previous response.

What is the force behind it?

Satan.

How is it changing the country, and us?

We're now in the express lane to destruction. Just like every other nation that ever stuck its fingers in God's eye.

7 posted on 10/10/2014 8:18:12 PM PDT by EternalVigilance (The idea that the courts make our laws is in fact a coup d'etat. Wake up, America.)
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To: Diogenesis

And yet some are trying to rehab this loser.to run in ‘16. Talk about a GOP death wish.....


8 posted on 10/10/2014 8:18:22 PM PDT by txrefugee
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To: massmike; ConservingFreedom; Unam Sanctam; x_plus_one; Patton@Bastogne; Oldeconomybuyer; ...
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9 posted on 10/10/2014 8:20:04 PM PDT by narses ( For the Son of man shall come ... and then will he render to every man according to his works.)
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To: massmike

It would not have been possible without a public education system that has jammed it down student’s throats for years, hence it has come back to us who funded that same system.

SURPRISE!


10 posted on 10/10/2014 8:20:48 PM PDT by onedoug
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To: massmike

“Oh, let’s be nice to them,” as well as, “I don’t care what two adults do behind their own doors.”

That’s what’s brought us here.


11 posted on 10/10/2014 8:23:42 PM PDT by fwdude (The last time the GOP ran an "extremist," Reagan won 44 states.)
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To: onedoug
...and in the meantime,the schools have also produced THESE results:

...but on a positive note, those kids can slip a condom on a cucumber blindfolded!

12 posted on 10/10/2014 8:24:15 PM PDT by massmike ("You only live once, but it does help if you get to be young twice.")
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To: massmike

Actually it doesn’t matter much...

Marriage is a scriptural thing not a legal issue. You can call yourself married if you want but that doesn’t make it so...


13 posted on 10/10/2014 8:24:40 PM PDT by babygene
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To: massmike

Lilly livered pastors and soft living led to this crap. Sorry, you don’t just bend over and say that’s the way they are.


14 posted on 10/10/2014 8:25:48 PM PDT by vpintheak (Keep calm and Fire for Effect!)
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To: Diogenesis

....and NOW look what the Ma GOP has to offer:
Charlie Baker makes Romney look like an AMATEUR!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o2_HaWhWabY


15 posted on 10/10/2014 8:27:28 PM PDT by massmike ("You only live once, but it does help if you get to be young twice.")
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To: bigbob

I’m not so sure it would have made a difference. Once Lawrence v. Texas established a right to sodomy (which the MSM denied that SCOTUS actually claimed such - although it basically did), the case was lost.

For as stridently worded as Kennedy’s DOMA decision was, I’m not sure any argument would have impressed him. I’m pretty sure he made the decision first then heard the argument.


16 posted on 10/10/2014 8:31:05 PM PDT by scrabblehack
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To: Diogenesis
I'm shocked, almost every time I hold the Romney up to his pathetic response to the judicial overreach of the state supreme court, I get bashed into the dust by the RomBots.

Mitt Romney handed off the most substantial liberal victory ever. And then he did it again with the lack of balls to say ‘Well, the state supreme court has declared that every marriage in Massachusetts is unconstitutional.’

17 posted on 10/10/2014 8:31:41 PM PDT by kingu (Everything starts with slashing the size and scope of the federal government.)
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To: massmike
It is not altogether final.

Nothing is ever final. Did the left quit going after guns despite numerous court losses? Did they quit trying to clamp down political free speech after losing in the Supreme Court? Of course not. Only idiots on "our side" thinks there is such a thing as "settled law" in these matters.

18 posted on 10/10/2014 8:33:34 PM PDT by GeronL (Vote for Conservatives not for Republicans)
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To: massmike

In the current post-constitutional environment, what the court grants today the court is as likely to take away tomorrow.


19 posted on 10/10/2014 8:35:26 PM PDT by clearcarbon
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To: massmike

Completely true. However the pansies who help bring this along (The ones who started every debate with “I just want to say how much I love homosexuals”) are still around to grab defeat from victory every step of the way. There are only a very few individuals out there making a sound and compelling statement. This when we have always had all the facts on our side.

We are so far gone on gender type issues that the left is now trying to tell teachers they should not call boys and girls BOYS AND GIRLS because some little tyke out there might think himself a girl or herself a boy. And FEELINGS trump reality every time.


20 posted on 10/10/2014 8:35:39 PM PDT by Penny 4 Thoughts
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